"Unsinkable" Molly Brown did indeed survive the Titanic disaster. But most of what we think we know about her is false. In fact, she was never referred to as "Molly" in her lifetime. Put that in your corset and snap it!
She was anything but the coarse bumpkin portrayed in the 1960 movie. In fact, much of the lore about Molly Brown is so preposterous, it would make Paul Bunyan blush. (Suckled by a nanny goat, anyone?) But she certainly didn't lead an ordinary life.
Margaret Tobin grew up as the daughter of poor, Irish parents in Hannibal, Missouri. She married a poor Irishman, J.J. Brown. They moved to Colorado so that he could work in the mines, and he became wealthy as a mine manager and owner.
Margaret was outspoken, progressive, and a feminist. But neither these qualities nor her heritage prevented her from rising to a high position in Colorado society. She even established herself in the rarefied air of Newport, Rhode Island.
She was a generous donor, crack organizer, and prodigious fund raiser for all kinds of causes, including charities that served the poor, promoted education and culture, advanced juvenile justice, and advocated for women's suffrage. She alternated between living in Paris and New York and traveled around the world, visiting India and Egypt among many places. She was a fashion leader.
Later in her life, she pursued higher education--"Why should a woman be mildewed at forty?" she asked. She also considered a run for the U.S. Senate, took acting lessons and performed in shows, and actively supported France during World War I. She was awarded the French Legion of Honor. Oh, and she learned to yodel.
Margaret and J.J. drifted apart and formally separated. She mostly raised her two children on her own, along with three nieces that she took in after their mother died.
And yes, she survived the Titanic. She was placed in a lifeboat that was nominally commanded by a male member of the Titanic's crew. However, he was clearly traumatized and in shock, so besides taking her turn at the oars, Margaret organized the rowing, supervised the allotment of blankets and warm clothing, and maintained morale until the survivors were rescued.
After they were picked up by the Carpathia, Margaret continued to support the survivors, many of whom were poor or spoke no English. (She spoke several languages.) She followed through, sometimes at her own expense, to be sure that the survivors were placed after they arrived in New York.
With a life like this, it's hard to understand why anyone thought they had to make up tall tales about Margaret Brown. Unfortunately, though, this book devotes too much space to the daily details of life, to who attended which society function, to what the newspapers thought about them, to what they wore or ate, to whom they married... .
Even loaded down with this unnecessary baggage, Margaret Brown remains unsinkable. But she rides low in the water.