another fine section of autobiography - from departing her mother and Australia to enter Harvard's graduate program in history AND covers her time at Harvard, marrying John Conway, moving to Canada to administer at York University while she teaches at the University of Toronto, until they move to Northhampton, Mass., where she will be President of Smith College.
For me the most interesting portions were the History work in Widener and Holyoke House, her view of teaching and of research, and her decisions at each stage of life about what to do. One reviewer "Rick" gives his reaction this way:-
I gave this book 4 stars because I really like memoirs and loved The Road from Coorain, Conway's earlier memoir of her childhood. A more objective reviewer could very justifiably give this memoir, which covers the time from graduate school through her acceptance of the Presidency of Smith College at age 40, 3 stars. As many of the Goodreads reviews have noted, this book bogs down at times, going into excessive detail on small points and occasionally slipping into a detached academic tone.
The incredible life she led during those years, the fascinating people she met, the insights she gained, the cultural obstacles/sexism she overcame, and the contributions she made to enhancing the equality of women, transcend any minor concerns about her narrative technique. To read this book is to time-travel from the 1950s to the 1970s and, for those who weren't women or didn't live through those years, to have a fully opened window into the challenges of being an intelligent, accomplished and ambitious woman in a world not prepared for or interested in such strange animals. True North also provides fascinating insights into academia; the similarities and differences among Australian, Canadian, British and American culture; and the city of Toronto. While the most important story Conway has to tell is the struggle for female identity and acceptance, she is at her best and most engaging when talking about her personal rather than professional experiences, for example her nights of drinking and sharing ideas with her graduate school housemates or her struggle to cope with not being able to have children. That's when she really comes alive to me.
The most poignant part of the book is when she describes trying to come to terms with her husband's manic depression -- a condition that was barely understood at the time. "Slowly, before my eyes, the light within in faded, flickered frantically, and then was extinguished completely. This blackness was different from any moods I knew -- sudden moments of despair, depleted energy, lost confidence, anxiety. Though I racked my brains to decipher some psychodynamic origin for John's sudden swings into profound depression, they were totally unpredictable, products of a central nervous system disorder beyond anyone's control. One could, with experience, see the warning signs, sudden irascibility, flashes of suspicion, wild surges of enthusiasm, until suddenly there was a full blown manic episode -- a rage or panic of monumental proportions -- a prelude to a depression so bleak and impenetrable that no ordinary bodily cycles seemed to operate. . . .I'd thought myself a mature adult before. Now I learned firsthand the hard lesson of the middle years of life. I was bright. I had boundless energy. I was an excellent manager of time, resources, people. But I was powerless to avert suffering from the person who was the center of my personal universe."