I love Audrey Hepburn with my whole heart. I grew watching Roman Holiday, calling it "the runaway princess". Audrey has always been a beacon of grace, love and warmth in my life. She is so human and yet so exquisitely perfect in all of her movies.
"What you saw and felt when you watched her on the big screen was not only the clever presentation of characters brilliantly written, directed, shot, and edited into a performance, but a clear view of a truly magical human being who deserves the warm feelings that still transport audiences worldwide today."
Something I hate however, is how the world remembers her, for the most part, as a pretty face; her style and looks overshadowing the incredible work she did for UNICEF. Her passion and sadness at the state of the world are very present in her son's words. Her work in 3rd world countries was so important (and still is) and I really loved reading her speeches and looking at her activism, which you don't get from simply watching her films. There are photos of her with children who look too thin and weak to be alive, like those in the Nazi concentration camps, and what really got me was that it would take around 0.5% of the world's combined GNP to lift the entire third world out of poverty. To give the people of these countries the basic resources for them to build lives for themselves, to give the children of those countries a future. And yet, this isn't happening.
"There is no deficit in human resources - the deficit is in human will." (Audrey's speech to the UN in June 1989).
This book drew many comparisons between the Holocaust and the events that occur in third world countries everyday and yet are swept under the rug. Audrey grew up in the Netherlands during the German occupation in WWII, a young girl witnessing horrors and experiencing an unending "emotional hunger" that came along with the literal hunger, due to the food shortages of the war.
'"I am filled with a rage at ourselves," she said in an interview. How could she not, after living through the war and hearing a repenting world proclaim, "Never again"? Unfortunately, it did, and still does, again and again and again.'
Something else that really struck me was how modest Audrey was about her achievements and how almost "unworthy" she saw herself as. She didn't think she was pretty (Audrey Hepburn, the most beautiful woman to have ever lived (fight me) DIDN'T THINK SHE WAS PRETTY. What are we doing wrong as a society?) and Sean (her son and the author) often described her downplaying her own achievements, cringing when people talked about her "greatness". Maybe, just maybe, we all aren't as hideous or unworthy as we see ourselves.
"This the story of a star who couldn't see her own light."
This book was clearly written from a place of love; her son really portrayed her as a gorgeous, caring person and you could really tell how keenly he loved and missed her. The 2nd half of the book, focusing on her work with UNICEF, and her decline in health and eventual death, was probably more hard-hitting and interesting to me than the first. I would also have liked to have heard more about some of her relationships and friendships throughout the book, some of which I felt weren't really delved into satisfyingly. But I understand that this is a memoir, so it is what her son remembers of her and predominantly about their relationship and her life and achievements.
If nothing else, I recommend this book for its pictures. The photographs of Audrey radiate with style, love, humour, and so much more. She was a woman who was able to project her spirit onto film, and this is why we still love and adore her years after her death. Audrey Hepburn was the epitome of class, elegance and humanity and I only adore her more after reading this.
"TIME TESTED BEAUTY TIPS
For attractive lips, speak words of kindness.
For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people.
For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry.
For beautiful hair, let a child run his fingers through it once a day.
For poise, walk with the knowledge you'll never walk alone."
[Did I just spend about an hour writing this review in order to avoid maths? Yes, yes, I did.]