Es muy diferente ser conocidos que ser amigos. La verdadera amistad educa en el arte de vivir, y así lo han defendido las personas más sabias a través de los tiempos, pero es un tesoro que se puede romper si no se protege. Estas páginas muestran cómo transformar las amistades en relaciones que nos mejoren, evitando la superficialidad y la frivolidad y potenciando una profunda unión de mente y corazón. La buena amistad lleva consigo un crecimiento emocional y espiritual. Los casados encontrarán aquí nuevas formas de apreciar el regalo de vivir en pareja. Quienes poseen ya amistades maduras —entre ellas, la amistad con Dios—, descubrirán formas de enriquecerlas.
Not my favorite book on this topic, but I couldn’t pass it up. The author’s language is a little above me so I did have to read things a few times to understand them. However, he does have some things on friendship that I have never been able to put into words, specifically in regards to friendship in the midst of grief. Also, it actually prompts and says some hard things that other books like this don’t cover or quite go far enough into like growing out of friendships, fighting against selfishness in friendships, and the intimacy that real friendship actually carries in our pursuit for the Lord.
"There are worse losses than the losses of death, and to bury a friendship is a keener grief than to bury a friend. The latter softens the heart and sweetens the life, while the former hardens and embitters." A lot of wisdom packed into this short book.
A bit wordy, but wonderful nuggets of wisdom and advice. Definitely made me ponder. Also several points I didn’t necessarily agree with, thus providing fantastic discussion fodder.
No man is an island yet each alone must live his life - we are connected yet separate. This book is replete with sage advice for understanding friendship at its core, identifying the traits of good friends and good friendships....and...for seeing the role of friendship in marriage and in relation to God. One of the more worthwhile and timeless treatise (originally published in 1898) on the subject of friendship complete with practical advice. Highly recommended as an adjunct to the breathless and shallow cheerleading available in mass production.
This is a really good book that takes you through the purpose of friendships, how to be a good friend and how earthly relationships draw us closer to understanding our relationship with Jesus.
“There is possible such a blessed relationship, a state of love and trust and generous comradeship, where a person feels safe to be himself, because he knows that he will not easily be misunderstood.”