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Dr. Phil Getting Real
In his trademark tell-it-like-it-is style, Dr Phil McGraw presents an enlightening and entertaining workshop on how to get-real - in relationships and in life. He explains how to live by design, as opposed to living reactively and urges you to step out of the comfort zone by evaluating everthing in your life.
4 pages, Audio CD
First published January 1, 2001
About the author
Phillip C. McGraw
86 books529 followersPhillip Calvin McGraw, best known as Dr. Phil, is an American television personality, psychologist and author who is the host of the psychology themed television show Dr. Phil. He gained celebrity status following appearances on The Oprah Winfrey Show.
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July 28, 2025
(Listened to the audiobook) Topics are allll over the place, and the best and most actionable advice came within the last 10 minutes. I am still open to listening to more Dr. Phil though lol
February 17, 2008
This is an audio book on Dr. Phil speech at a workshop on realtionship. Here are several important points he made:
1. Life, you set it up.
2. Your relationship is supported by your life style.
3. Your relationship with yourself determine your relationshio with anybody else.
4. Quality of relationship is a function of extent to which it's based on solid underlying friendships and how will it meets the need of each party.
1. Life, you set it up.
2. Your relationship is supported by your life style.
3. Your relationship with yourself determine your relationshio with anybody else.
4. Quality of relationship is a function of extent to which it's based on solid underlying friendships and how will it meets the need of each party.
December 8, 2022
Dobra knjiga moderne psihologije. Pomaže u spoznaji onoga što bi vam pomoglo da se osjećate bolje kroz razne vježbe i primjere. S obzirom da sam osoba koja ne voli cjepidlačenje i detalje, nije mi baš sjela. Ukoliko ste osoba koja sve radi temeljito, vjerujem da će vam se svidjeti. Po meni dosadnjikava.
Dovela me do nekih spoznaja koje ću imati u vidu u budućem životu. Unatoč svemu mislim da je knjiga dobra i kvalitetno napisana.
Cijelu je ne bih ponovno čitala, već bi se samo fokusirala na ono što je bitno.
I imate i nemate moju preporuku. 🙂
Dovela me do nekih spoznaja koje ću imati u vidu u budućem životu. Unatoč svemu mislim da je knjiga dobra i kvalitetno napisana.
Cijelu je ne bih ponovno čitala, već bi se samo fokusirala na ono što je bitno.
I imate i nemate moju preporuku. 🙂
February 20, 2020
How is that working for you?
Dr. Phil narrates his own audio book giving the listener supreme listening experience while directing his very on point life strategies . Advice doesn't get much better.
Cant not mention he is hilarious while being so very real. During my commute I found myself getting educated and laughing out loud.
Dr. Phil narrates his own audio book giving the listener supreme listening experience while directing his very on point life strategies . Advice doesn't get much better.
Cant not mention he is hilarious while being so very real. During my commute I found myself getting educated and laughing out loud.
April 20, 2018
I truly was inspired by his words
July 19, 2018
I really enjoyed Dr. Phil's approach and advice im this seminar.
June 21, 2021
The best Dr. Phil book ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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April 19, 2022
I’m a fan of Dr. Phil and his “Getting Real” ways.
January 31, 2023
Good advice for couples.
March 29, 2023
Would rate this book a 4+. It really made you think about your life and your relationships.
April 2, 2024
Kept me interested and entertained but his thoughts on marriage, not for me
September 5, 2025
It’s okay nothing I didn’t already know from therapy
December 29, 2015
I listened to this audio book to help me decide on a new year's resolution. I felt like I was sitting in his TV audience. He relates almost everything to his personal life and his own experiences. Nothing majorly inspiring. He tries to teach you to live life by design as opposed to reacting to everything in your life. Is your life working for you? If not, how are you going to change it?
These are a couple of quotes I like
“People have the right to think and say whatever they want to. But you have the right not to take it to heart, and not to react.”
“Sometimes you make the right decision, sometimes you make the decision right.”
These are a couple of quotes I like
“People have the right to think and say whatever they want to. But you have the right not to take it to heart, and not to react.”
“Sometimes you make the right decision, sometimes you make the decision right.”
August 26, 2015
If you have ever watched Dr. Phil's tv show then you'very probably heard all of this before. He does make some good points, but I had to force myself to finish this book. I didn't find it particularly insightful or helpful. It may be great for someone else, but not for me. I prefer "self help" books that make me see things in a different way, change my way of thinking or inspire/move me. If you are looking for a book like that this one is probably not for you.
March 13, 2010
I did not read this because I was dying to read it. I read it to learn more about his type, the ESTJ. I am trying to get into the head of each type. There is some good info. in the book. Some ISFP's and INFP's could benefit from this book, yet they most likely would be offended by how blunt Dr. Phil is.
March 28, 2015
I really enjoyed this No nonsense, no psychobabble straightforward approach to taking control of your life and your relationships. Very insightful. I actually read multiple times and took notes. I actually got this on audio.
March 10, 2008
This was great!
December 26, 2009
It was a lot of recapping on two of his other books but I still learnt a few things form it.
July 15, 2010
Very good book. Lots of good information; he makes me laugh, yet gives it to ya straight. Has some personal stories that give it the human touch.
October 2, 2010
Maybe I'm a hypochondriac, but this book made me feel depressed.
March 31, 2011
Definitely a good book about owning up to our responsibilities and owning our choices in life. Hard to read, cause its really dry...
January 10, 2012
Good one! I will read it again because I liked it and to remember everything he said :)
May 27, 2012
Good, direct to the point , i love it and i think one time reading is not enough. Because the second reading need to focus on the point you want to improve and evaluate your self. :)
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June 22, 2012As a motivator I can use this as a tool..
October 8, 2012
A get real book for sure. Full of information for self help about alot of topics in life. Good book.
November 28, 2012
he tends to drone on and on
and on
and on
March 30, 2015
Good read/listen. He's funny, and practical.
January 2, 2009
Probably created more drama than I needed LOL
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April 4, 2009I liked this book.
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