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The Noble Art of Seducing Women: My Foolproof Guide to Pulling Any Woman You Want
Everything a man needs to know to become an infallible seducer of women, courtesy of a female pick-up artist Kezia Noble is one of the first women to offer the aspiring pick-up artist advice on how to attract women from a woman's point of view. She runs many classes and a workshop, and even produces corporate videos on the chemistry of attracting women. Now, in answer to requests from her students, Kezia has written a book on the 15 steps to becoming a master seducer, the first and only sure-fire pick-up guide to be written by a woman. It has the potential to transform a lonely man into someone who need never be single again, unless, of course, he wants to be. Kezia is a no-nonsense teacher who always tells the truth, and works with her students instead of belittling them.
214 pages, Kindle Edition
First published January 1, 2012
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February 8, 2019
I came across this book and I was very skeptical. Kezia does a good job about how to deal in real world situations. Kezia explains in great detail on how to break down the resistance with women. I like how the author shows the dialogue between the male and female as in what to say, how to use body language and mannerisms. I find that this book is very helpful in not only how to seduce a woman, but also, you can learn the tools to use for the day-to-day practical scenarios in many situations in life.
I've never heard of Kezia before, but she seems to be honest and doesn't sugar-coat anything. Kezia is an attractive woman and has always been approached by men, so she's had numerous amounts of experience by men trying to pick her up. Kezia explains how women can be bitchy and even she will be bitchy with men. Kezia breaks down on how to deal with these "shit-tests" that arise. Basically...the way I take it is like this...it's knowing how to own the shit-tests.
I do recommend this book if you want to get insight on how to improve your success with women.
I've never heard of Kezia before, but she seems to be honest and doesn't sugar-coat anything. Kezia is an attractive woman and has always been approached by men, so she's had numerous amounts of experience by men trying to pick her up. Kezia explains how women can be bitchy and even she will be bitchy with men. Kezia breaks down on how to deal with these "shit-tests" that arise. Basically...the way I take it is like this...it's knowing how to own the shit-tests.
I do recommend this book if you want to get insight on how to improve your success with women.
June 3, 2022
- (Noble isn't just an expert on seducing women, she is truly good at seducing men)
- If you're interested in somebody, do not waste time on superficial questions (What color do you like? What job do you do? Do you like where you live?). Rather, dwell into much deeper questions (Are you fulfilled? Are you doing this job because of you or because of your parent?)
- Validation: anyone should have a high standard for oneself, thus, give out validation sincerely. In addition, when someone is lower than your standard, feel free to disqualify yourself (making some remark about it, politely)
- Take time to think, pause. Do not feel to have urge to keep conversation going all the time.
- Men and women think differently in terms of love. Thus, in order to target your target, you have to think like your target and embed yourself in your target's world
- If you're interested in somebody, do not waste time on superficial questions (What color do you like? What job do you do? Do you like where you live?). Rather, dwell into much deeper questions (Are you fulfilled? Are you doing this job because of you or because of your parent?)
- Validation: anyone should have a high standard for oneself, thus, give out validation sincerely. In addition, when someone is lower than your standard, feel free to disqualify yourself (making some remark about it, politely)
- Take time to think, pause. Do not feel to have urge to keep conversation going all the time.
- Men and women think differently in terms of love. Thus, in order to target your target, you have to think like your target and embed yourself in your target's world
February 1, 2015
Take better care of yourself and learn to communicate. Learn to listen and banter. Fat dirty slobs are not generally attractive. Get a decent haircut and dress properly. You will also become more confident and see general improvements in your social and work life along the way.
There are some nice bits about picking up women and closing the deal - but these are not nearly as important as the general life lessons.
There are some nice bits about picking up women and closing the deal - but these are not nearly as important as the general life lessons.
December 27, 2019
* Three vital attractive elements: control, impart & connection.
* Study woman and you will increase your confidence being around them.
- There is always fear in the unknown, so change it, get to know the unknown.
* All women was looking for one characteristic, and that was: strength. All woman desire for a strong men is a primal inherited by her ancestor.
- Strength can be translated as strength of character, self-belief or power, but more often than not it usual means confidence.
* Assessing the situation: women are masters of this art! We are constantly watching everthing.
- Every time I tried to touch him, he would responds if it was some sort of reward for me that he had to ration.
- Most men would just agree with me and alter their opinions to fit mine, but he would do no such thing. He provoked me put it felt good.
- He pretend: bent down and began to enthusiastically pat the dog, asking the old lady the dog's name and saying how much he loved that particular breed. He knew girl like that shit. Later on, in addition, he revealed to her that he had a friend who was even more manipulative. Apparently, his friend had an aquarium in his house that he'd show whenever he brought a woman back to his flat. He always making up the fishes's name on the spot & it makes girl think he was adorable. I also know a man who had the whole series of Sex and the City at his home -girls always excited about the fact that he loved their favorite show. Even Gambler has a photo of himself shaking hand with small monkey, he says girls always seem to love this picture.
- Ask yourself: "How much do I know about women?". Could you write a 700-page book on the psychology of the female mind? Or could you just muster a page on the subject?
- If she says something bitchy or insulting to you, do not break eye contact under any circumstance!
- There is no ingredient: to attract woman.
* Study woman and you will increase your confidence being around them.
- There is always fear in the unknown, so change it, get to know the unknown.
* All women was looking for one characteristic, and that was: strength. All woman desire for a strong men is a primal inherited by her ancestor.
- Strength can be translated as strength of character, self-belief or power, but more often than not it usual means confidence.
* Assessing the situation: women are masters of this art! We are constantly watching everthing.
- Every time I tried to touch him, he would responds if it was some sort of reward for me that he had to ration.
- Most men would just agree with me and alter their opinions to fit mine, but he would do no such thing. He provoked me put it felt good.
- He pretend: bent down and began to enthusiastically pat the dog, asking the old lady the dog's name and saying how much he loved that particular breed. He knew girl like that shit. Later on, in addition, he revealed to her that he had a friend who was even more manipulative. Apparently, his friend had an aquarium in his house that he'd show whenever he brought a woman back to his flat. He always making up the fishes's name on the spot & it makes girl think he was adorable. I also know a man who had the whole series of Sex and the City at his home -girls always excited about the fact that he loved their favorite show. Even Gambler has a photo of himself shaking hand with small monkey, he says girls always seem to love this picture.
- Ask yourself: "How much do I know about women?". Could you write a 700-page book on the psychology of the female mind? Or could you just muster a page on the subject?
- If she says something bitchy or insulting to you, do not break eye contact under any circumstance!
- There is no ingredient: to attract woman.
April 18, 2025
"April 15, 2019 – Started Reading
April 15, 2019 – Shelved
April 15, 2019 –
35.0% "I have been around Kezia for a long time... I have been around material and videos..."
April 15, 2019 –
35.0% "Kezia Noble as always gives a good advice and very useful... it needs time to applied... but just relax... calm... stay home... do other stuff... focus on other stuff... take a break and then come back to game."
April 15, 2019 –
35.0% "It's not hard... read other shit... other books about comedy or about other topics... be curious... stay tuned in curiosity... go out with friends have fun... pump up your state and after period time you have gotten stronger and more stronger... the moment that happens... you are ready for game."
April 15, 2019 –
35.0% "Watch motivation videos... watch comedy... this will help you to relax!"
April 15, 2019 –
35.0% "7 out of 17 (Parts)"
April 15, 2019 –
35.0% "22:47
...
Part 6"
April 16, 2019 –
45.0% "8 out of 17 (Parts)
....
Just fucking great material... it's damn awesome material!"
- I call it pick up revision... so far not bad but still most of those stuff, I already knew them from courses and other coaches.
April 15, 2019 – Shelved
April 15, 2019 –
35.0% "I have been around Kezia for a long time... I have been around material and videos..."
April 15, 2019 –
35.0% "Kezia Noble as always gives a good advice and very useful... it needs time to applied... but just relax... calm... stay home... do other stuff... focus on other stuff... take a break and then come back to game."
April 15, 2019 –
35.0% "It's not hard... read other shit... other books about comedy or about other topics... be curious... stay tuned in curiosity... go out with friends have fun... pump up your state and after period time you have gotten stronger and more stronger... the moment that happens... you are ready for game."
April 15, 2019 –
35.0% "Watch motivation videos... watch comedy... this will help you to relax!"
April 15, 2019 –
35.0% "7 out of 17 (Parts)"
April 15, 2019 –
35.0% "22:47
...
Part 6"
April 16, 2019 –
45.0% "8 out of 17 (Parts)
....
Just fucking great material... it's damn awesome material!"
- I call it pick up revision... so far not bad but still most of those stuff, I already knew them from courses and other coaches.
August 17, 2021
Books that deal with the boy-girl space are great: more of these. And this one is positive, practical and grounded in reality.
It's good to see a book with something other than "become a better person", "have human integrity" and maybe "hit the gym". This correctly focuses on a guy's confidence and "stage" when talking to unknown, newly-met women. How to keep a conversation interesting, not come across as a creep, and go in for a kiss. Important stuff, really.
I'm hopeless with this shit, but I am sure that this book has helped tens of thousands of good-but-nervous men . . . have better lives.
[kinda boring, but at the same time I have been listening to a course about Luther and the Protestant Revolution. I thought that there is an interesting communality in that both have one theme: Bringing formerly-internal spirituality out into the real, every-day world.]
It's good to see a book with something other than "become a better person", "have human integrity" and maybe "hit the gym". This correctly focuses on a guy's confidence and "stage" when talking to unknown, newly-met women. How to keep a conversation interesting, not come across as a creep, and go in for a kiss. Important stuff, really.
I'm hopeless with this shit, but I am sure that this book has helped tens of thousands of good-but-nervous men . . . have better lives.
[kinda boring, but at the same time I have been listening to a course about Luther and the Protestant Revolution. I thought that there is an interesting communality in that both have one theme: Bringing formerly-internal spirituality out into the real, every-day world.]
November 23, 2020
An excellent book!
Finally a book written for men to understand why women act and do the things that they do in a relationship.Too bad it took all these years to learn this. Unfortunately, I am nearing the end of my life now. I feel sort of cheated by not having this information earlier in my life and that I lost all those years floundering through life without a playbook . Thank you for the book Kezia!
Finally a book written for men to understand why women act and do the things that they do in a relationship.Too bad it took all these years to learn this. Unfortunately, I am nearing the end of my life now. I feel sort of cheated by not having this information earlier in my life and that I lost all those years floundering through life without a playbook . Thank you for the book Kezia!
August 9, 2022
A rather colorful book, a lot of examples with the theory. I did like that the first 20% of the book was all personal stories that he was later using as examples. The author is a first female "PUA" teacher I have listened to :) A nice change. But as for me, I’m listening the books to be a better conversationalist for startup events, and again I got a lot of nice ideas. But mostly confirmations that what I’m doing as a person is mostly correct already.
May 21, 2021
Kezia is the real deal!
April 1, 2022
Very practical
June 21, 2022
INTRODUZIONE
L'autrice, Kezia Noble, è una coach che insegna agli uomini come sedurre il gentil sessso. Giornalista e con un passato nel mondo della musica, Noble ha lavorato con i piu famosi pick up artist al mondo per poi fondare la sua propria azienda di coaching. L'autrice ha molta esperienza nel seguire gli uomini nella seduzione e ciò si nota nel libro, ma è la sua prospettiva femminile - cosa spesso mancante nel mondo del pickup artistry - che colse la mia attenzione iniziale.
STRUTTURA
Il libro è suddisivibile in tre parti: 1) I primi tre capitoli sono focalizzati sull'inner game, cioè il nostro mindset, e la psicologia dell'attrazione femminile. 2) Dal 4 al 13 capitolo si tratta l'outer game, il processo seduttivo vero e proproio, il vero cuore del libro. 3) I capitoli 14 e 15 trattano brevemente alcune tematiche legate alle relazioni.
COSA MI PIACE
Il libro, a differenza di molti testi sulla seduzione, va nello scecifico insegnando in maniera chiera e dettagliata cosa fare e perché, d'altra parte Noble non scende in schemi complessi come Mystery. Noble esprime insegnamenti facilmente applicabili.
COSA NON MI PIACE
Il libro contiene poco di nuovo. Noble esprime molti concetti già trattati in altri testi dedicati alla seduzione, molto palesi le influenze di Mystery e il suo metodo, di cui il libro sembra spesso una versione semplificata e ridotta all'osso. Ad esempio, le fasi della seduzione che Noble tratta nel libro (Introductiory Stage, Comfort Stage, Seduction Stage) rimandano alle fasi del metodo Mystery (Attraction, Comfort, Seduction). L'eccessiva semplificazione va a discapito del dettaglio e utilità del testo.
L'autrice, Kezia Noble, è una coach che insegna agli uomini come sedurre il gentil sessso. Giornalista e con un passato nel mondo della musica, Noble ha lavorato con i piu famosi pick up artist al mondo per poi fondare la sua propria azienda di coaching. L'autrice ha molta esperienza nel seguire gli uomini nella seduzione e ciò si nota nel libro, ma è la sua prospettiva femminile - cosa spesso mancante nel mondo del pickup artistry - che colse la mia attenzione iniziale.
STRUTTURA
Il libro è suddisivibile in tre parti: 1) I primi tre capitoli sono focalizzati sull'inner game, cioè il nostro mindset, e la psicologia dell'attrazione femminile. 2) Dal 4 al 13 capitolo si tratta l'outer game, il processo seduttivo vero e proproio, il vero cuore del libro. 3) I capitoli 14 e 15 trattano brevemente alcune tematiche legate alle relazioni.
COSA MI PIACE
Il libro, a differenza di molti testi sulla seduzione, va nello scecifico insegnando in maniera chiera e dettagliata cosa fare e perché, d'altra parte Noble non scende in schemi complessi come Mystery. Noble esprime insegnamenti facilmente applicabili.
COSA NON MI PIACE
Il libro contiene poco di nuovo. Noble esprime molti concetti già trattati in altri testi dedicati alla seduzione, molto palesi le influenze di Mystery e il suo metodo, di cui il libro sembra spesso una versione semplificata e ridotta all'osso. Ad esempio, le fasi della seduzione che Noble tratta nel libro (Introductiory Stage, Comfort Stage, Seduction Stage) rimandano alle fasi del metodo Mystery (Attraction, Comfort, Seduction). L'eccessiva semplificazione va a discapito del dettaglio e utilità del testo.
December 30, 2015
It's interesting, in the introduction, to hear about a woman taking a slice of the PUA business.
It's nice that she put down in here the general advice about consuming material created by women for women as a way to know them better (the extra step of trying out porn made for women was new, something with Judy Minx maybe?). When she mentioned negging, I was curious to see what stance she would take on it (neg away, otherwise you are an hopeless nice guy! Just not immediately but be sure that you won't ruin someone's day. So make that joke about women being terrible drivers to her). So in general, it's a book written by a woman, but still with the intent to give the upper hand to men, i.e after sleeping with her, leave her two days hanging and then call on the third "just before she gets angry", as to keep her wanting.
Found interesting her suggestions about keeping a conversation interesting (hooks), good for all conversations, and her definition of bad/nice/good guys.
December 4, 2016
Insightful book on the art of picking up women although it ultimately draws from previous successful books like The Game
Kezia does a wonderful job of bringing her own female perspective on the art of picking up women, but fails to bring enough of her own originality or innovative ideas for me to give a full recommendation. Still a great read though especially if you haven't read anything on this subject before
Kezia does a wonderful job of bringing her own female perspective on the art of picking up women, but fails to bring enough of her own originality or innovative ideas for me to give a full recommendation. Still a great read though especially if you haven't read anything on this subject before
March 7, 2014
Very interesting book. I recommend it for all guys who want to be the MAN that WOMEN want in their lives. Just apply these principles to your own life and women will invite themselves into your life. This book provides a good base for someone to work from and then as time goes on you will create your own "style".
April 27, 2016
Kezia is brilliant! It's not just a book on seduction - it's an amazing journey into biggest mystery on earth - women minds. When you will read it and test it you will feel like Alice in Wonderland. All I can say, thanks Kezia. I am looking for another book, soon!
December 18, 2018
This book has opened my eyes to the basics of attraction. For years those areas were my weak spots, and I thought that I just was that way. It gave me hope that change is possible. I have started using her advice and my communication with opposite sex had become way better.
November 12, 2016
This book had some real pearls in it.. I love studying human behavior and nothing is more fascinating than dating and mating.. this book was very well done
January 15, 2017
Overall great read from a woman's perspective. 4.5/5 stars
December 31, 2020
Actually very basic stuff in this book. Wouldn't recommend it, there are tons of books out there that handle this topic better.
March 29, 2023
I don’t understand how people can make interacting with people this technical
December 7, 2014
awesome
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