I loved this book. The writing is simple and direct and draws you in so that you feel so much empathy with the author. This is real life, with no hiding paces. Clearly being in elite army units is not something most of us will realise, so not THAT real then from one point of view, but the reaction to extraordinary circumstances, to losing friends and loved ones, to trauma and physical pain as well as mental anguish, is all too real. An extraordinary book, that ultimately left me full of optimism and the feeling that, whatever life throws at you, we as humans have the strength and compassion to get through it together.