I found this a very tough read to get through which I think is down to both the long chapters and the disjointed way the plot skips between past and present. However, when you get past these difficulties it is a beautiful testament to love.
You really need to dedicate hours at a time to this book if you’re the type of person that cannot stop reading part way through a chapter, so I found it difficult to fit it into my days. Having said that, it is well worth the effort of reading it as I thoroughly enjoyed the trip down memory Lane that Andrew took, as well as delving into the inner workings of the present day relationships.
The true passion and love that the characters had for their SO was beautiful and full of acceptance, hut Ruth Hamilton shows that this sometimes comes at a cost. Although I loved their relationship, Andrew and Mary made little time for their children, who essentially had to bring themselves up however the love they had for their children was never in question. I thoroughly enjoyed seeing Andrew and Anaya’s budding romance 11(?) years after Mary’s death showing the differences between a new love when you are younger versus in later years.
Emily, Geoff and Joe are another relationship that was presented so well in these books, showing how one can accept and love another while not letting resentment and hatred in even if it could be valid. They became a unit and supported each other throughout everything and remained their pillars of strength.
I’ve only rated this 3 stars as I found it a difficult but rewarding read, and their are some aspects that I really didn’t like in this book. For example Geoff and Andrew both being so sure that they would have the woman they wanted even though she continuously said no and was married/engaged. I didn’t like reading this pressure, even though they both ended in happy content relationships.
I also felt like the reveal of Eva’s grandchild, actually being Andrew’s grandchild pointless as it added nothing to the plot or character development and was just slipped in at the end of the book.