Listened to the audiobook, read aloud by a female American-accent narrator (the author!) and suitable for 1.25x speed. I really like it when authors read aloud their own works for audio recordings -- it just gives it that extra something special in the experience.
This book contains lots of great insights and management techniques. I think a leader has to be careful when measuring so many parameters but the right leader will excel at it and their team will likely love it. This book is a happy marriage of leadership and EDI strategies. Enjoyable read, would recommend, and probably enjoy reading again in a couple years time.
Favourite Quotes:
"Human beings are meaning-making machines. The trouble is, we often assign meaning where it doesn’t exist."
"Stress really is about fear and how to get to the bottom of that fear and release it."
"Safety, belonging, and mattering are essential to your brain and your ability to perform at work, at home, and in your life overall."
Later: Safety + Belonging + Mattering = Trust
"The greater the feeling of safety, both mental and physical, the greater the feeling of connection with others, the greater the feeling that we’re in this together and we belong together, the greater the feeling that we personally matter and make a difference and are contributing to the greater good, and the greater the success of the organization."
"We can improve at anything but we have to want it and work at it. This means we have to not only learn and accept failure and feedback, we have to seek it. It’s how we handle failure that determines our success."
Prioritize: Do it, Ditch it, Delegate it, Defer it
"Meetings - This is where a leader will often send people into their critter state by causing fear or confusion due to lack of clarity."
"Being accountable is essential to lead, to feel influential, and to help your team feel you are worthy of trust... Accountability requires us to buck up and follow through even when we don’t feel like it. It also requires us to value ourselves and others."
"If you want to know what a person is truly committed to, look at their calendar, their credit card statement, and their behaviour. These will reveal their priorities and what they value most."
"Stepping up to be a leader isn’t about getting anything for yourself: it’s about service. The more influential you become, the more you are putting yourself at the service of your team. Real influence is about empowering others."
"The more we focus on the outcomes we want to create, the more we get in our smart state. The more we trigger the reward centre of our brain, primarily the ventral striatum, the more we move forward with eager anticipation of great things to come. The more we use our tools for focus, clarity, accountability, and influence, the more structure we lend both to ourselves and our teams to get in and stay in our smart state. And once there, we slide into the jet stream of our compelling and emotionally engaging vision, which continues to pull us forward. It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy."
"Energy management must be intentional, conscious, and a key priority. The world is full of brilliant minds unable to fulfill their mission because they burned out first. Moving through an inflection point requires intention, energy, and heart. Manage your energy and you’ll continue to surge forward. Don’t, and beware the backwards slide."