It is the very fact that we live In a time where we are all so busy we find it hard to even get the time to read a book, that makes this one so imperative. We've all done it - gone to the time management courses, read all the books on 'being organised', yet again and again, we come back to having way too much to do, and so little time to do it. And we prioritise all the wrong things. This book was actually a little bit like a kick in the teeth for me. I don't really like getting those too often. But every now and then I have to face up to the fact that this one was deserved. So while my teeth feel a bit looser than I'd like, and the taste of blood in my mouth is a little disturbing - my take home messages are this :
1. I'm never going to get it all done. That big fat list of stuff that I want / must / should / hope to do? Everyone's got one - and the simple fact is, not one single human being alive, is ever going to get it all done. Get over it. Seriously, the stress release this has given me - I used to look at my bookshelves and worry - when the hell am I going to find the time to read all these books? Truth is - I'm not. I'm never going to read all these books. But I'll probably find the time to read a few more if I stop trying to nail a list of other stuff that isn't important to me.
2. Not feeling guilty : A Wayne Dyer quote just on page 104 fixed this one for me : "If you believe that feeling bad or worrying long enough will change a past or future event, then you are residing on a planet with a different reality system". Worry and regret are two close companions of mine. I've never much liked them, but I've felt a little obligated not to throw them out on the street like the bludging over-stayers they are. This book has strengthened my resolve to send them packing.
3. I literally DROWN in obligations every day. Self imposed mostly, but staunch enough to blind-side me most days - I turn up, when I just want to sleep. I say yes, when my stomach is churning with the 'no, please, please dont's' I want to scream. This book didn't give me all the answers about how to stay afloat - but it really, really made me want to pay attention, so I can find out how.
I thought this book was a light and easy read when I first finished it. But it's dug it's way into the back my skull and into my brain - like some determined leech, insistent on a source of blood for survival. It's made me want to do so much more than just 'survive'..... I keep asking myself - if you KNEW you only had so much time left - what would you REALLY choose to do with your precious time? And THAT my friends has led on to a whole new range of questions......but that is another book altogether. One I just might find some time to write, if I can master the art of doing less of the shit that just doesn't matter to me!!! :-)
Read it, and grab your life back from the chaos!!! xx