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Falling Behind
Titus starts this year with two goals. One: Prove he is capable of leading the varsity football team next season as their captain. Two: Confess his feelings to one of his best friends, Reese.
By the end of the football season he has every reason to believe he accomplished his first goal. But when a promise to his other best friend and havoc turn his life upside down he isn't sure he'll ever get the chance to tell Reese how he feels.
Reese Milson starts her sophomore year at Laton High School with her new boyfriend and two best friends by her side. When bad goes to worse and Reese hides from reality, it takes everything she has and the help of her best friend Titus to pull her back out of the darkness she had fallen into.
Will they survive this year? Will Titus ever get his chance with Reese or will the promise he made keep them apart?
By the end of the football season he has every reason to believe he accomplished his first goal. But when a promise to his other best friend and havoc turn his life upside down he isn't sure he'll ever get the chance to tell Reese how he feels.
Reese Milson starts her sophomore year at Laton High School with her new boyfriend and two best friends by her side. When bad goes to worse and Reese hides from reality, it takes everything she has and the help of her best friend Titus to pull her back out of the darkness she had fallen into.
Will they survive this year? Will Titus ever get his chance with Reese or will the promise he made keep them apart?
281 pages, Paperback
First published July 19, 2013
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Dee Avila
7 books48 followers Dee Avila is a mother of four that enjoys reading and writing. You can catch her at anytime with her note app open, people watching. She lives in a small community in California and loves to tie the small-town feel into her writing.
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July 25, 2013
When I read what Falling Behind was about I wasn't sure I was wanting to read it about high school kids being in love. However that could be farthest from the truth. Falling Behind is about 3 best friends Candice, Titus, and Reese and how being sophomores in high school could be fun but have their dangers as well. When Candice and Reese start dating Seniors their worlds get turned upside down. One is dealing with abuse and denial and the other with verbal abuse she didn't recognized. Falling Behind is a book that both teens and adults should read about how speaking out on Violence in Schools can help protect our friends and children. When your best friend is being abused and you speak up to late the consequences can be devastating. Candice and Reese had one common friend who they could count on Titus read how his love for the girls makes him a stronger person. This is a 5-star read and I know anyone who reads it will enjoy it.
August 3, 2013
My Rating: 3.5
WARNING: Contains some spoilers.
What you will find in the pages of Falling Behind is a coming of age story of three best friends that are tested to limits no young adult should ever have to face and the ways in which they cope and ultimately come out the other side.
Titus is in love with Reese who is dating Josh and has promised their best friend, Candice, he wouldn’t date Reese until after their sophomore year. Candice worries that her two best friends dating will tear the threesome apart if it doesn’t work and she is adamant that she will need them that year more than ever. Given the hardships Candice endures through out the story I can only assume that she had some foresight of what it meant that she’d need her friends that year more than ever, but I never really felt like that part of the promise was fully explained.
We soon discover that Candice is in an extremely abusive relationship with a fellow student who deals drugs. The relationship is one which her friends try to help persuade her to leave but find themselves torn between betraying the friend they love and trusts them, or seek out help for her by giving her a voice she may not have felt she had. Reese winds up telling her mother and losing Candice’s friendship in the process, but discovers beyond a doubt it was the right choice - the only choice - to make.
Meanwhile, Reese is in an emotionally abusive relationship with her boyfriend, Josh. Josh is a master manipulator that guilts Reese into having sex with him before she’s ready. This is something that Reese struggles with, all the mind games he throws at her have Reese second guessing if what is going on between them is right or wrong. But when Josh pushes Reese too far and Titus comes to her rescue there is a shift in her…one where you slowly see her recognizing that what is happening is not okay. It’s at that moment when Josh has all but broken Reese that her friend Candice finds her self literally fighting for her life.
The ultimate breaking point for Titus and Reese is the loss of Candice when she succumbs to her injuries inflicted by her boyfriend. In the aftermath of her death Titus and Reese come together to try and heal. They not only are dealing with the harsh reality of what Candice was going through, but what Reese left behind in her relationship with Josh; and all the guilt of “shoulda,” “woulda,” “coulda”. They find solace in each other, their families, Candice’s parents and their school principal and teacher.
Between all the heartache I enjoyed watching Titus and Reese find their way to each other and when they finally have their first date, a faux-prom, I couldn’t help but smile. After it all, they could still be open to love.
This book deals with some very real and very painful scenarios of various types of abuse and loss. I think Dee’s message, or at least the one I walked away from this story with, is that every person has the strength to find and use their voice. It’s okay to ask for help, it’s okay to “betray” a trust to protect the ones you love, it’s okay to stand up and speak…you have the voice and power to help yourself or another.
WARNING: Contains some spoilers.
What you will find in the pages of Falling Behind is a coming of age story of three best friends that are tested to limits no young adult should ever have to face and the ways in which they cope and ultimately come out the other side.
Titus is in love with Reese who is dating Josh and has promised their best friend, Candice, he wouldn’t date Reese until after their sophomore year. Candice worries that her two best friends dating will tear the threesome apart if it doesn’t work and she is adamant that she will need them that year more than ever. Given the hardships Candice endures through out the story I can only assume that she had some foresight of what it meant that she’d need her friends that year more than ever, but I never really felt like that part of the promise was fully explained.
We soon discover that Candice is in an extremely abusive relationship with a fellow student who deals drugs. The relationship is one which her friends try to help persuade her to leave but find themselves torn between betraying the friend they love and trusts them, or seek out help for her by giving her a voice she may not have felt she had. Reese winds up telling her mother and losing Candice’s friendship in the process, but discovers beyond a doubt it was the right choice - the only choice - to make.
Meanwhile, Reese is in an emotionally abusive relationship with her boyfriend, Josh. Josh is a master manipulator that guilts Reese into having sex with him before she’s ready. This is something that Reese struggles with, all the mind games he throws at her have Reese second guessing if what is going on between them is right or wrong. But when Josh pushes Reese too far and Titus comes to her rescue there is a shift in her…one where you slowly see her recognizing that what is happening is not okay. It’s at that moment when Josh has all but broken Reese that her friend Candice finds her self literally fighting for her life.
The ultimate breaking point for Titus and Reese is the loss of Candice when she succumbs to her injuries inflicted by her boyfriend. In the aftermath of her death Titus and Reese come together to try and heal. They not only are dealing with the harsh reality of what Candice was going through, but what Reese left behind in her relationship with Josh; and all the guilt of “shoulda,” “woulda,” “coulda”. They find solace in each other, their families, Candice’s parents and their school principal and teacher.
Between all the heartache I enjoyed watching Titus and Reese find their way to each other and when they finally have their first date, a faux-prom, I couldn’t help but smile. After it all, they could still be open to love.
This book deals with some very real and very painful scenarios of various types of abuse and loss. I think Dee’s message, or at least the one I walked away from this story with, is that every person has the strength to find and use their voice. It’s okay to ask for help, it’s okay to “betray” a trust to protect the ones you love, it’s okay to stand up and speak…you have the voice and power to help yourself or another.
October 20, 2013
The story is very well written. The mature content is rather disturbing. This isn't the book for you if you like happily ever after books. This book is emotionally heartbreaking.
October 19, 2013
4.5 STARS
This book was so unexpected. I was a little hesitant about it but let me tell you. I loved it!!! I cried so much in this book so just be prepared to have a box of tissues. It starts off with three best friends starting their sophomore year in high school. High school is supposed to be a fun time to enjoy being young as well as college. However, these three friends were not able to experience that. I completely love Titus and how he remained so committed to both the girls. These girls were his two best friends. Although he was falling in love with Reese she wasn’t aware of it. Reese didn’t think Titus shared the same feelings like her so she started dating this jerk Josh. The pressure he put on her about having sex and how she felt she owed him was heartbreaking.. She was too young to understand. In her heart she knew their relationship was not a healthy one but she couldn’t seem to break away from him.
Then you have Titus who can’t stand Josh because he sees right through him. Titus is a great guy and very passionate and loving towards Reese and their other best friend Candice. As Reese is dealing with her boyfriend Josh her best friend Candice is in a relationship that is not healthy. Reese starts seeing bruises on her friend and finds out Candice’s boyfriend is abusing her. Candice doesn’t want Reese to tell anybody but Reese doesn’t feel right about that because she is so concerned about Candice and loves her like a sister. Titus helps the girls to try and see that they deserve better and he is very protective of both of them. Titus and Reese are scared for Candice while Titus is also scared for Reese. He knows Josh is using Reese and is not good for her and at the same time he is trying to keep an eye on Candice to make sure her dirt bag of a boyfriend doesn’t her hurt anymore. The poor guy does nothing but loves the girls and stands by them and tries to talk them into seeing that their relationships with their boyfriends are not healthy and they deserve so much better. Candice stops talking to Reese because Reese finally told Candice’s parents about the abuse. It was so sad that two girls that were so close like sisters were being torn apart from each other because of their boyfriends.
This book shows the young girls that it is not okay to let a guy treat them with disrespect. Unfortunately, it takes some horrible acts of violence for them to finally see what is going on and that you should never be afraid to speak up about something like this. Reese loved Candice so much she was willing to lose her friendship with Candice in order to protect her. There are some very sensitive subject matters in this book that I feel are very necessary for kids to know about. It is sad to know that this kind of stuff really does happen. It’s not just stories written for entertainment but real people dealing with this kind of stuff. If anything this book will shows somebody how to get courage to stand up for what is right and that NO means NO. Throughout the entire book you fall in love with Titus. He is the rock holding them all together as much as he can. These are his best friends since elementary, and very protective of them. After everything is revealed you feel so bad for Titus because he felt helpless because he was not able to do anything to help his two best friends. He tried so hard to convince them their boyfriends were dirt bags and that they deserved so much better. The way the story ended I’m sure there is going to be a second book. I hope so because it ended kind of up in the air. I don’t think the story between Reese and Titus is over and can’t wait to see more work from this author.
This book was so unexpected. I was a little hesitant about it but let me tell you. I loved it!!! I cried so much in this book so just be prepared to have a box of tissues. It starts off with three best friends starting their sophomore year in high school. High school is supposed to be a fun time to enjoy being young as well as college. However, these three friends were not able to experience that. I completely love Titus and how he remained so committed to both the girls. These girls were his two best friends. Although he was falling in love with Reese she wasn’t aware of it. Reese didn’t think Titus shared the same feelings like her so she started dating this jerk Josh. The pressure he put on her about having sex and how she felt she owed him was heartbreaking.. She was too young to understand. In her heart she knew their relationship was not a healthy one but she couldn’t seem to break away from him.
Then you have Titus who can’t stand Josh because he sees right through him. Titus is a great guy and very passionate and loving towards Reese and their other best friend Candice. As Reese is dealing with her boyfriend Josh her best friend Candice is in a relationship that is not healthy. Reese starts seeing bruises on her friend and finds out Candice’s boyfriend is abusing her. Candice doesn’t want Reese to tell anybody but Reese doesn’t feel right about that because she is so concerned about Candice and loves her like a sister. Titus helps the girls to try and see that they deserve better and he is very protective of both of them. Titus and Reese are scared for Candice while Titus is also scared for Reese. He knows Josh is using Reese and is not good for her and at the same time he is trying to keep an eye on Candice to make sure her dirt bag of a boyfriend doesn’t her hurt anymore. The poor guy does nothing but loves the girls and stands by them and tries to talk them into seeing that their relationships with their boyfriends are not healthy and they deserve so much better. Candice stops talking to Reese because Reese finally told Candice’s parents about the abuse. It was so sad that two girls that were so close like sisters were being torn apart from each other because of their boyfriends.
This book shows the young girls that it is not okay to let a guy treat them with disrespect. Unfortunately, it takes some horrible acts of violence for them to finally see what is going on and that you should never be afraid to speak up about something like this. Reese loved Candice so much she was willing to lose her friendship with Candice in order to protect her. There are some very sensitive subject matters in this book that I feel are very necessary for kids to know about. It is sad to know that this kind of stuff really does happen. It’s not just stories written for entertainment but real people dealing with this kind of stuff. If anything this book will shows somebody how to get courage to stand up for what is right and that NO means NO. Throughout the entire book you fall in love with Titus. He is the rock holding them all together as much as he can. These are his best friends since elementary, and very protective of them. After everything is revealed you feel so bad for Titus because he felt helpless because he was not able to do anything to help his two best friends. He tried so hard to convince them their boyfriends were dirt bags and that they deserved so much better. The way the story ended I’m sure there is going to be a second book. I hope so because it ended kind of up in the air. I don’t think the story between Reese and Titus is over and can’t wait to see more work from this author.
October 16, 2013
An ARC was provided by the author in exchange for an honest review. To view Ashton's full review, visit http://fallinginfall.blogspot.com.
I rated Falling Behind FOUR LEAVES! When I read that Falling Behind was a Mature Young Adult novel, I was a little curious, because I had never read from this particular sub-genre. Falling In Fall reviewers rarely review young adult romances, so right off the bat, you know it must have something that caught our attention.
The "mature" adjective for this novel's genre is absolutely correct. Throughout the time I spent reading this story, I found myself constantly thinking how old I felt. The main characters of this story are between 15 and 16 years of age, but the story contains many scenes where drugs, rape, and physical abuse are either spoken about or present. I know things have changed drastically since I was in high school, but I couldn't help but think that my biggest worry at 15-16 was getting my FIRST KISS! Man, how times have changed.
Falling Behind, written by Dee Avila, follows the story of three best friends: Candice, Reese, and Titus. Candice and Reese are your typical 15-16 year old girls. They love boys, fashion, boys, cheerleading, and boys. Both had landed two popular senior guys as boyfriends, but they quickly learn that their relationships are not the healthiest. Both boyfriends have been rumored to be messing with drugs, but the girls only notice their mood swings. Candice and Reese are hiding secrets about their relationships not only from each other but from their families and friends. When Reese notices bruising on Candice, she begs her friend to get help, but Candice promises she is on her way out of the relationship soon. On the other hand, Reese has a boyfriend pushing her further into their sexual relationship than she wants to go, and eventually, pushes her right over that virginal edge while she lays there crying and wishing it was already done. She feels like she has to stay with her boyfriend, because she "gave" him her virginity.
Titus is perfect. You will fall head over kitten heels in love with this guy. You can't help but like this character. He has a great and close relationship with his mother. Seriously. They talk about everything together! He is Candice and Reese's Superman. The three have history together, because Titus and Candice dated when they were in fifth grade. When they broke up, Candice introduced him to Reese, and the three became close friends. Titus made it his life's work to watch over and protect the girls. The only problem is the girls haven't confided in him about their relationship problems, and he is too caught up in his affections for Reese and making her boyfriend jealous. So, why has Titus not shared his feelings? Candice made him promise not to.
Dee Avila did a fabulous job portraying those teenage years you are glad you never have to experience again. She captured the everyday high school drama without the story becoming too immature and causing the reader to disconnect. This story will evict lots of emotions from a reader. At times I felt giddy like I was a teenager, traumatized by the idea of these young adults having to deal with terrible situations, and saddened by the tragedies. If you enjoy a young adult novels and are looking to transition into new adult, this would be an excellent book for you. Falling Behind is the first in the Falling Series. I am excited to continue reading about these characters in the next installment.
<3 Review by Ashton
I rated Falling Behind FOUR LEAVES! When I read that Falling Behind was a Mature Young Adult novel, I was a little curious, because I had never read from this particular sub-genre. Falling In Fall reviewers rarely review young adult romances, so right off the bat, you know it must have something that caught our attention.
The "mature" adjective for this novel's genre is absolutely correct. Throughout the time I spent reading this story, I found myself constantly thinking how old I felt. The main characters of this story are between 15 and 16 years of age, but the story contains many scenes where drugs, rape, and physical abuse are either spoken about or present. I know things have changed drastically since I was in high school, but I couldn't help but think that my biggest worry at 15-16 was getting my FIRST KISS! Man, how times have changed.
Falling Behind, written by Dee Avila, follows the story of three best friends: Candice, Reese, and Titus. Candice and Reese are your typical 15-16 year old girls. They love boys, fashion, boys, cheerleading, and boys. Both had landed two popular senior guys as boyfriends, but they quickly learn that their relationships are not the healthiest. Both boyfriends have been rumored to be messing with drugs, but the girls only notice their mood swings. Candice and Reese are hiding secrets about their relationships not only from each other but from their families and friends. When Reese notices bruising on Candice, she begs her friend to get help, but Candice promises she is on her way out of the relationship soon. On the other hand, Reese has a boyfriend pushing her further into their sexual relationship than she wants to go, and eventually, pushes her right over that virginal edge while she lays there crying and wishing it was already done. She feels like she has to stay with her boyfriend, because she "gave" him her virginity.
Titus is perfect. You will fall head over kitten heels in love with this guy. You can't help but like this character. He has a great and close relationship with his mother. Seriously. They talk about everything together! He is Candice and Reese's Superman. The three have history together, because Titus and Candice dated when they were in fifth grade. When they broke up, Candice introduced him to Reese, and the three became close friends. Titus made it his life's work to watch over and protect the girls. The only problem is the girls haven't confided in him about their relationship problems, and he is too caught up in his affections for Reese and making her boyfriend jealous. So, why has Titus not shared his feelings? Candice made him promise not to.
Dee Avila did a fabulous job portraying those teenage years you are glad you never have to experience again. She captured the everyday high school drama without the story becoming too immature and causing the reader to disconnect. This story will evict lots of emotions from a reader. At times I felt giddy like I was a teenager, traumatized by the idea of these young adults having to deal with terrible situations, and saddened by the tragedies. If you enjoy a young adult novels and are looking to transition into new adult, this would be an excellent book for you. Falling Behind is the first in the Falling Series. I am excited to continue reading about these characters in the next installment.
<3 Review by Ashton
October 16, 2013
Reese wanted to start her sophomore year by telling her best guy friend, Titus (Ty), that she wants to be more than just best friends. Until Josh shows up on the first day and sweeps her off of her feet. When he start changing and becoming more moody, controlling, and demanding she isn't sure how not to be with him. When he starts taking little pieces of her she knows she can't just walk away.
Titus knows that he wants to be more that just best friends with Reese. There are only two problems; he told their other best friend, Candice, that he wouldn't ask Reese out, and she has a super possessive boyfriend. Which would probably be okay but he is sure that both girls are in unhealthy relationships. He just doesn't know how to protect them without seeming like he is being too intrusive.
Together Reese and Ty begin to notice that their friend is in serious trouble. When they alert the adults in their life all she does is pull away farther. One fateful night changes everything for all three of them. There is no way that they will make it out the same, or that they will all make it out at all.
I have mixed feelings as I write this review. I really loved the story. And it was well told. The ending though...
Titus was really quite fabulous, maybe even too good to be true. I knew from the very beginning of the book that he was deeply in love with Reese. He wasn't perfect, he was a high school boy, with teenage boy faults. But he was one of those truly selfless characters who would have done anything for those who he loved. He was quite adorable. Maybe a little young for me, being that he was half my age! ;)
Reese was pretty broken from the second that I met her. Not as broken as she would come to be, but enough that she was not operating well. The farther into the story we got the more she fell apart. When the worst of the worst happens, there is a good chance that she'll never recover.
The plot of this book was pretty great. It deals with a lot of the dirty underbelly that we generally associate only with adults, but is definitely happening within the confines of high school as well. I think that it was pretty tastefully addressed, at that. This could have very easily went into the land of taboo and dirty but it didn't.
There were a few things that I would clean up a little bit, but all in all I was pretty happy with the story telling in Falling Behind. I hated how it ended, there it is. I hated it! It was a huge cliffhanger and I really felt like it stopped, not just before the story was over, but before the scene was over. ARGH!! I must know what happens!!
I would recommend this book to most of my friends, unless they were sensitive to the issues contained within. If I had daughters I would make them read this so that they would know that bad things can happen to anyone. As it is, I hope that, when my sons are older (my oldest is 8), I remember this book and have them read it so that they will know what to look for, in order keep their friends safe from this type of treatment.
Titus knows that he wants to be more that just best friends with Reese. There are only two problems; he told their other best friend, Candice, that he wouldn't ask Reese out, and she has a super possessive boyfriend. Which would probably be okay but he is sure that both girls are in unhealthy relationships. He just doesn't know how to protect them without seeming like he is being too intrusive.
Together Reese and Ty begin to notice that their friend is in serious trouble. When they alert the adults in their life all she does is pull away farther. One fateful night changes everything for all three of them. There is no way that they will make it out the same, or that they will all make it out at all.
I have mixed feelings as I write this review. I really loved the story. And it was well told. The ending though...
Titus was really quite fabulous, maybe even too good to be true. I knew from the very beginning of the book that he was deeply in love with Reese. He wasn't perfect, he was a high school boy, with teenage boy faults. But he was one of those truly selfless characters who would have done anything for those who he loved. He was quite adorable. Maybe a little young for me, being that he was half my age! ;)
Reese was pretty broken from the second that I met her. Not as broken as she would come to be, but enough that she was not operating well. The farther into the story we got the more she fell apart. When the worst of the worst happens, there is a good chance that she'll never recover.
The plot of this book was pretty great. It deals with a lot of the dirty underbelly that we generally associate only with adults, but is definitely happening within the confines of high school as well. I think that it was pretty tastefully addressed, at that. This could have very easily went into the land of taboo and dirty but it didn't.
There were a few things that I would clean up a little bit, but all in all I was pretty happy with the story telling in Falling Behind. I hated how it ended, there it is. I hated it! It was a huge cliffhanger and I really felt like it stopped, not just before the story was over, but before the scene was over. ARGH!! I must know what happens!!
I would recommend this book to most of my friends, unless they were sensitive to the issues contained within. If I had daughters I would make them read this so that they would know that bad things can happen to anyone. As it is, I hope that, when my sons are older (my oldest is 8), I remember this book and have them read it so that they will know what to look for, in order keep their friends safe from this type of treatment.
October 23, 2013
Falling Behind has an emotional deep storyline that deals with the serious element and its aftermath of teenagers who are suffering from different types of abuse such as verbal, emotional, physical, and date rape.
Reese, Titus and Candice, are best friends at high school, and who have been inseparable since they were younger. They have a very close friendship that becomes tested as both Reese and Candice you soon discover are in relationships that are far from healthy.
Told from Reese and Titus point of view, means that you get an insight into what both characters are thinking, and their feelings as they as they struggle with what they know and should do especially when it comes to Candice. Do they tell someone? Keep quiet? They worry about how their friendship will suffer. I did feel for them at times particularly Titus as he tries hard to help both his friends and he feel helpless as times. Both Reese and Titus are sweet and likeable characters. It was touching to watch as their friendship slowly develop into something more.
It was an emotional read at times. I was somewhat frustrated that Reese, Titus and Candice didn’t talk to someone sooner, but then I had to think about their age, and remember the pressure of what school is like at that age in relation to fitting in, friendships and boyfriends.
Overall I really like this book, it does have a slight cliffhanger ending, as the last line left me with the feeling that there is more to come, and it is not over for Reese and Titus. I will certainly read the next book in the series, as I’m interested to see where this story is going next.
Even though this is a YA book, I would recommend to anyone regardless of sex and age. Dee Avila has written an emotional book that deals sensitively with a subject matter that is taking place every day. The message was clear… tell someone what you see or ask for help. I’m sure there are many teenagers and adults out there who are or know someone in a similar situation, and may find this book helpful.
I liked that Dee includes websites and names of where you can get help and information if needed.
Reese, Titus and Candice, are best friends at high school, and who have been inseparable since they were younger. They have a very close friendship that becomes tested as both Reese and Candice you soon discover are in relationships that are far from healthy.
Told from Reese and Titus point of view, means that you get an insight into what both characters are thinking, and their feelings as they as they struggle with what they know and should do especially when it comes to Candice. Do they tell someone? Keep quiet? They worry about how their friendship will suffer. I did feel for them at times particularly Titus as he tries hard to help both his friends and he feel helpless as times. Both Reese and Titus are sweet and likeable characters. It was touching to watch as their friendship slowly develop into something more.
It was an emotional read at times. I was somewhat frustrated that Reese, Titus and Candice didn’t talk to someone sooner, but then I had to think about their age, and remember the pressure of what school is like at that age in relation to fitting in, friendships and boyfriends.
Overall I really like this book, it does have a slight cliffhanger ending, as the last line left me with the feeling that there is more to come, and it is not over for Reese and Titus. I will certainly read the next book in the series, as I’m interested to see where this story is going next.
Even though this is a YA book, I would recommend to anyone regardless of sex and age. Dee Avila has written an emotional book that deals sensitively with a subject matter that is taking place every day. The message was clear… tell someone what you see or ask for help. I’m sure there are many teenagers and adults out there who are or know someone in a similar situation, and may find this book helpful.
I liked that Dee includes websites and names of where you can get help and information if needed.
October 20, 2013
Wow, this story is deep and makes you an emotional wreck while reading it. Now don’t get me wrong, it’s a great story, but deals with some really deep things that teenagers shouldn’t have to deal with.
This story follows 3 best friends, but is told in the point of view of Reese and Titus (aka Ty). Ty, Reece and Candice have been friends since they were little. Ty is in love with Reece by made a promise to Candice to not tell her. It doesn’t help that she’s dating a douchebag (aka Josh) and doesn’t get to see his friend as much.
Things start go go bad quickly with the two girls and the relationships they are in. Titus feels helpless to help Reece, he has suspicions about what is going on but Reece will not confirm nor deny them. Reece knows what is going on with Candice, and when things get bad she finally speaks up and loses her best friend.
The things these teenagers have to deal with in this book are real, gut wrenching, and awful. But Dee Avila did such an amazing job telling the story of these girls and the things that transpired, and as much as it broke your heart to read some parts of this book, you knew in the back of your head she was trying to get a message out. And she did!
I want to say these are things that don’t happen in real life, but unfortunately they do, and I’m glad she wrote this book, well this series. The characters were amazingly written, the supporting cast (the good ones and the bad ones) all played huge parts in this story, and it gripped me from the start all the way to the end. I cannot wait to see the next book in this series and see what else happens. Great job to Dee Avila for writing such an amazing story about such real things, that some just don’t want to write about. You definitely need to add this one to your TBR list. Just make sure to have some tissues with you when reading it, I know I went through a few.
This story follows 3 best friends, but is told in the point of view of Reese and Titus (aka Ty). Ty, Reece and Candice have been friends since they were little. Ty is in love with Reece by made a promise to Candice to not tell her. It doesn’t help that she’s dating a douchebag (aka Josh) and doesn’t get to see his friend as much.
Things start go go bad quickly with the two girls and the relationships they are in. Titus feels helpless to help Reece, he has suspicions about what is going on but Reece will not confirm nor deny them. Reece knows what is going on with Candice, and when things get bad she finally speaks up and loses her best friend.
The things these teenagers have to deal with in this book are real, gut wrenching, and awful. But Dee Avila did such an amazing job telling the story of these girls and the things that transpired, and as much as it broke your heart to read some parts of this book, you knew in the back of your head she was trying to get a message out. And she did!
I want to say these are things that don’t happen in real life, but unfortunately they do, and I’m glad she wrote this book, well this series. The characters were amazingly written, the supporting cast (the good ones and the bad ones) all played huge parts in this story, and it gripped me from the start all the way to the end. I cannot wait to see the next book in this series and see what else happens. Great job to Dee Avila for writing such an amazing story about such real things, that some just don’t want to write about. You definitely need to add this one to your TBR list. Just make sure to have some tissues with you when reading it, I know I went through a few.
October 16, 2013
What an impressive debut!
This is a pretty emotional story dealing with the different types of abuse; sexual, emotional, physical and mental, as well as the death of a loved one/friend but sends a strong message to both teenagers and the adults raising them. This was a reminder, to me especially, to talk to my teen daughter about how to deal with these types of situations should they arise. As a matter of fact this book is probably a great stepping stone to the conversation and I'll be purchasing it for her to read soon.
I don't even think that a description of the story can do it justice. This is just one of those books that need to be read to truly get.
I admit that while reading it I was frustrated at Titus, Reese & Candice for not seeking help sooner or for their sort of blase attitude about the seriousness of what they were dealing with. I had to step back and remember that they are just teens and the way that they reacted was on par with their maturity level...another wake up call.
I did enjoy reading as Titus and Reese discover and explore their feelings for each other. How they finally find strength together. There love story is touching and realistic. Titus is my favorite character because he was the stability of the friendship between the three of them and things might have turned out even worse had he not been there in the way that he was.
I will admit that I am not a fan of cliffhangers but I think that this story ended exactly where it needed to. I will be anxiously awaiting Candice's Story and Falling Behind #2. In the meantime I'll be suggesting this to all the parents of teens that I know.
*I received this ARC from the author/publisher in exchange for an honest review.
This is a pretty emotional story dealing with the different types of abuse; sexual, emotional, physical and mental, as well as the death of a loved one/friend but sends a strong message to both teenagers and the adults raising them. This was a reminder, to me especially, to talk to my teen daughter about how to deal with these types of situations should they arise. As a matter of fact this book is probably a great stepping stone to the conversation and I'll be purchasing it for her to read soon.
I don't even think that a description of the story can do it justice. This is just one of those books that need to be read to truly get.
I admit that while reading it I was frustrated at Titus, Reese & Candice for not seeking help sooner or for their sort of blase attitude about the seriousness of what they were dealing with. I had to step back and remember that they are just teens and the way that they reacted was on par with their maturity level...another wake up call.
I did enjoy reading as Titus and Reese discover and explore their feelings for each other. How they finally find strength together. There love story is touching and realistic. Titus is my favorite character because he was the stability of the friendship between the three of them and things might have turned out even worse had he not been there in the way that he was.
I will admit that I am not a fan of cliffhangers but I think that this story ended exactly where it needed to. I will be anxiously awaiting Candice's Story and Falling Behind #2. In the meantime I'll be suggesting this to all the parents of teens that I know.
*I received this ARC from the author/publisher in exchange for an honest review.
October 21, 2013
Falling Behind
Best friends Titus, Reese and Candice are starting sophomore year at high school, Titus playing for Varsity football team, with Reese and Candice as Cheer leaders. All three are inseparable, until things start to change. Candice starts to pull away from her friends, spending more time with her boyfriend Alex. Reese and Titus know that something is wrong and want to help their friend, but she insists she’s fine and not to worry.
Reese has her own troubles to contend with as well as worrying for her friend, and she doesn’t cope well with things. Luckily she has Titus to help her through and he never leaves her side. Titus has feelings for Reese, he wants to be more than just her friend. This cause’s problems for Reese with her boyfriend Josh, he knows how Titus feels and isn’t happy with him spending so much time with her.
Their Friendship is put to the test this year, can it survive.
This is a very emotional story and I even cried several times while reading this book. It shows that along with all the fun you have at school there can also be dangers. I really felt for the three friends. I wanted to wrap Reese up and hug her and Titus was so strong and supportive for someone so young. They are went through so much.
I really enjoyed reading Falling Behind, it is very well written and I would definitely recommend it.
5 stars
Best friends Titus, Reese and Candice are starting sophomore year at high school, Titus playing for Varsity football team, with Reese and Candice as Cheer leaders. All three are inseparable, until things start to change. Candice starts to pull away from her friends, spending more time with her boyfriend Alex. Reese and Titus know that something is wrong and want to help their friend, but she insists she’s fine and not to worry.
Reese has her own troubles to contend with as well as worrying for her friend, and she doesn’t cope well with things. Luckily she has Titus to help her through and he never leaves her side. Titus has feelings for Reese, he wants to be more than just her friend. This cause’s problems for Reese with her boyfriend Josh, he knows how Titus feels and isn’t happy with him spending so much time with her.
Their Friendship is put to the test this year, can it survive.
This is a very emotional story and I even cried several times while reading this book. It shows that along with all the fun you have at school there can also be dangers. I really felt for the three friends. I wanted to wrap Reese up and hug her and Titus was so strong and supportive for someone so young. They are went through so much.
I really enjoyed reading Falling Behind, it is very well written and I would definitely recommend it.
5 stars
August 21, 2013
As a teacher I am continually looking for YA books I can recommend to students who are suffering emotionally; but, do not for whatever reason seek traditional forms of help. "Falling Behind" is s great resource for teens dealing with physical abuse by their boyfriends and/ or date rape. In addition, the author includes website information and names of organizations that can assist teens with these issues.
"Falling Behind" is the story of three best friends, Titus, Reese and Claire, who have been together since they were babies and how their lives have evolved during this time. Ty is in love with Reese but cannot pursue it because of a promise he made to Claire. So, he must endure watching her be with her Josh, her jerk of a boyfriend. On the other hand, Claire attempts to keep her physical abuse by her boyfriend, Alex, a secret until her friends finally intervene.
It seems Reese is carrying around her own secret that threatens to destroy her emotional stability if she doesn't deal with it soon. I will not say any more because I do not want to give any details away. However, for me this book had the added bonus of having one of the settings taking place in Riverdale, which is where I teach.
If you would like a book to educate, inform and assist in the healing of a teen (boys included), "Falling Behind" is the book for you.
"Falling Behind" is the story of three best friends, Titus, Reese and Claire, who have been together since they were babies and how their lives have evolved during this time. Ty is in love with Reese but cannot pursue it because of a promise he made to Claire. So, he must endure watching her be with her Josh, her jerk of a boyfriend. On the other hand, Claire attempts to keep her physical abuse by her boyfriend, Alex, a secret until her friends finally intervene.
It seems Reese is carrying around her own secret that threatens to destroy her emotional stability if she doesn't deal with it soon. I will not say any more because I do not want to give any details away. However, for me this book had the added bonus of having one of the settings taking place in Riverdale, which is where I teach.
If you would like a book to educate, inform and assist in the healing of a teen (boys included), "Falling Behind" is the book for you.
October 13, 2013
(ARC provided by author in exchange for an honest review. Blog tour stop can be found http://obsessionisabook.blogspot.com/...)
Falling Behind looks at a subject that is not highly publicised and should be. There are more and more girls/boys of high school age who are suffering from domestic violence from a boyfriend/girlfriend and they are not speaking out about it. This is a sensitive subject to tackle and especially in a book. The author has done a really good job writing this sensitively, giving you the very real shock factor of the extreme consequence of not speaking out and balancing it with the road to recovery of someone who has spoken out. Dee has written this book so that it makes you stop and think about this very real issue and highlights the signs of abuse and the behaviours of those who are in denial about being abused.
The book centres around 3 best friends; Candice, Reese & Ty. Ty being the only male in the group. The two girls both find themselves in abusive relationships which breaks down the relationships between the three friends for one reason and another. You experience their denial and struggle to come to terms with the abuse and try and live through it.
This isn't a book that I can really write a review on and do the book justice. This is a book that needs to be experienced.
Falling Behind looks at a subject that is not highly publicised and should be. There are more and more girls/boys of high school age who are suffering from domestic violence from a boyfriend/girlfriend and they are not speaking out about it. This is a sensitive subject to tackle and especially in a book. The author has done a really good job writing this sensitively, giving you the very real shock factor of the extreme consequence of not speaking out and balancing it with the road to recovery of someone who has spoken out. Dee has written this book so that it makes you stop and think about this very real issue and highlights the signs of abuse and the behaviours of those who are in denial about being abused.
The book centres around 3 best friends; Candice, Reese & Ty. Ty being the only male in the group. The two girls both find themselves in abusive relationships which breaks down the relationships between the three friends for one reason and another. You experience their denial and struggle to come to terms with the abuse and try and live through it.
This isn't a book that I can really write a review on and do the book justice. This is a book that needs to be experienced.
October 16, 2013
Steph’s Review
Hmmmmm…..This was a difficult review for me. It was hard to express my love for FB without giving away too many spoilers. But I shall try.
When I initially started Falling Behind, I must admit I was a little skeptical about the synopsis. Shit, I was SO wrong! I was instantaneously drawn into the lives of 3 best friends: Candice, Reese, and Ty. I connected with these 3 amigos from the get go. Their friendship knows no bounds….it is unconditional. But with all friendships, there are always bumpy patches.
This not a typical teenage book full of over the top drama. Dee dives into the sensitive topic of domestic violence, all the denial that surrounds it, and the brutal consequences that ensue when nothing is done to stop it. My heart shattered.
Falling Behind is an amazing (very well written) book that can help teens to recognize the signs and stop the violence that occurs in a lot of young relationships. I will be insisting that my 16 yr old daughter read this immediately.
I give Falling Behind 5 Stars!
I LOVED FALLING BEHIND!!! I can’t recommend this book enough!
Hmmmmm…..This was a difficult review for me. It was hard to express my love for FB without giving away too many spoilers. But I shall try.
When I initially started Falling Behind, I must admit I was a little skeptical about the synopsis. Shit, I was SO wrong! I was instantaneously drawn into the lives of 3 best friends: Candice, Reese, and Ty. I connected with these 3 amigos from the get go. Their friendship knows no bounds….it is unconditional. But with all friendships, there are always bumpy patches.
This not a typical teenage book full of over the top drama. Dee dives into the sensitive topic of domestic violence, all the denial that surrounds it, and the brutal consequences that ensue when nothing is done to stop it. My heart shattered.
Falling Behind is an amazing (very well written) book that can help teens to recognize the signs and stop the violence that occurs in a lot of young relationships. I will be insisting that my 16 yr old daughter read this immediately.
I give Falling Behind 5 Stars!
I LOVED FALLING BEHIND!!! I can’t recommend this book enough!
October 21, 2013
Falling Behind by Dee Avila was a very good read and deals with a lot of heavy topics. Reese is a sophomore in high school and best friends with Candice and Titus. It’s always been the three of them, but this school year brings lots of changes. Reese has always had feelings for Titus, but she doesn’t know that he has had the same feelings for her. Candice made Titus promise not to date Reese this year and he hates it when Reese starts dating Josh who is very controlling of her. No matter what, Titus will be there for Reese and she definitely needs him this year. As I said, this book deals with a lot of heavy topics….sex, drugs, rape, abuse, and death and I think the author handled them very well for her young adult readers. I give Falling Behind 4.5 stars. ~Kendra
April 8, 2014
Young adult novels have been known to deal with some heavy issues, but Dee Avila’s Falling Behind really focuses on some big ones, including abuse (both physical and emotional) and rape. From reading the blurb, and then the first chapter, I must admit that I didn’t realise just how dark the book would get… until it did. It is a nice juxtaposition to how the same thing can happen in real life – things can get out of control, before the victim even realises how bad it has got...
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August 11, 2013
A terrific read that shows you with pure emotion the struggles of growing up. You will get involved with their lives and the story line will lead you into cheering the good and crying with the bad.
October 16, 2013
A good story just a little to deep for my tastes.
October 3, 2013
This book really touched me... and my review will come later on this month while on the book tour!
October 6, 2013
One word to describe this book is WOW. Dee executed this story with absolute finesse.
October 27, 2013
Falling Behind is the story between Titus, Reese, and Candace. They are best friends and sophomore's in high school. Titus is in love with Reese but can't do anything about it because of a promise he made to Candace. Reese and Candace are in relationships. Titus sits by and watches his friends become consumed by their boyfriends. They grow a part during the year. Reese is in a relationship with Josh who is threatened by Titus and tries to control everything that Reese does. Candace is in a relationship with Alex who abuses her. Her friends see it and do their best to help her. They all make some bad choices. They are all just learning as they go. Everything comes crashing down and their friendship is tested. Candace becomes a victim to Alex's repeated abuse. Reese becomes lost and Titus is just trying to be what they both need.
This story was heart wrenching for me. They are all so young to be subjected to so much pain and loss. It shows you the strength of true friendship. I was hoping to get more from the growing change in Titus and Reese's relationship, as well as a pov from Candace. It did get a pretty well crafted story. It's message was a little discerning. I can say that a lot of friendships I had when I was in high school I thought I would have forever. People change and life goes on. They were so important though at the time. It shaped my adolescence and I wouldn't want to change it for anything.
I really thought this was a pretty unique story. I definitely am looking forward to reading more from this author and from this series.
This story was heart wrenching for me. They are all so young to be subjected to so much pain and loss. It shows you the strength of true friendship. I was hoping to get more from the growing change in Titus and Reese's relationship, as well as a pov from Candace. It did get a pretty well crafted story. It's message was a little discerning. I can say that a lot of friendships I had when I was in high school I thought I would have forever. People change and life goes on. They were so important though at the time. It shaped my adolescence and I wouldn't want to change it for anything.
I really thought this was a pretty unique story. I definitely am looking forward to reading more from this author and from this series.
October 17, 2013
Dee wrote a book about a real, painful subject that normally doesn’t get talked about. People avoid the signs and act like they don’t see the abuse happening. We turn away and make up a story in our minds that make us feel better. To make us believe that what we saw isn’t true. Verbal, physical, and emotional abuse happens everyday and abuse doesn’t matter what color you are, what age you are or if you are a boy or a girl. It happens and no matter your age it still hurts and makes you feel lost. Dee wrote this book very well and really made me open my eyes on abuse. If you know someone who you think is getting abused this is a great short read to recommend to them.
Ty, Reese and Candice were all best friends and did everything together. Until boyfriends came around and the 3 started pulling apart. What do you do when you can tell your friend is in danger but keeps making excuses that everything is ok. That the bruise on her wrist was an accident. Do you keep quiet? Do you tell someone? Do you risk losing your friend by opening your mouth? Read this story and find out what decisions these 3 friends have to make.
I give this book 3.5 stars!
-Harper
Ty, Reese and Candice were all best friends and did everything together. Until boyfriends came around and the 3 started pulling apart. What do you do when you can tell your friend is in danger but keeps making excuses that everything is ok. That the bruise on her wrist was an accident. Do you keep quiet? Do you tell someone? Do you risk losing your friend by opening your mouth? Read this story and find out what decisions these 3 friends have to make.
I give this book 3.5 stars!
-Harper
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