Okay Full Review is here (too many times I've said full review coming then never posted again)
A cute dialogue on complex philosophical discussion between our narrator and AA Milne’s famous creations. Overall the tone of the book complemented the teachings well and left me as a reader excited to conduct my own research on the subject matter from its source material to come to my own conclusions. It’s difficult to not enjoy something with such a charismatic ensemble and the overall thesis of this work was so compelling and unique it was difficult to put down.
With Pooh, I think the primary take away from this book is life is fun when you want to live. Not when you try to put your existence in a box or define how you’re supposed to live, but when you let the walls dissolve and just exist. We physically go through our days but it’s how we mentally interpret it that leaves an overall Impression. Complaining about not having enough time to study or not getting enough work done shouldn’t take away from the rewarding feeling of restarting an exercise routine or picking up a new language. For so long with writing I focused on all the stories I hadn’t written yet that I neglected the positive reviews of the work I had put out. It doesn’t change where I am physically but mentally I feel completely new. I enjoy how this book pushes the power of the mind because that can take you much farther than the muscles in your body. But it can also take you exactly where you need to be if you just let it.
Sometimes the simple explanation is the right one. There’s an old saying of when you hear hooves think horse before zebras and it means even what can appear to be a complex problem could actually be one you’re familiar with presenting itself differently. Over complicating solutions will often keep you stuck in the same place getting more overwhelmed by the second. One of the satisfying beliefs in taoism came early in this book when the narrator told us the tale of the vinegar which represents the primary three eastern philosophies. Three men dip their fingers in vinegar and have a different expression on their face. While Confucianism believe the universe is out of whack and needs order restored, and while Buddha believes life is suffering and we need to detach our bodily existence to achieve nirvana, Lao Tzu believed the universe was in perfect harmony and we just had to let out instincts guide us. In other words, Buddha believed we needed to return to the dust of the universe while Taoism believes we already are.
A bird can fly but a fly can’t bird sometimes things just are as they are. We aren’t able to change everything and we don’t even necessarily have to try. Why does it matter that a square peg doesn’t fit in a round hole? New Orleans will always deal with hurricanes and for most of my life the Bills would always lose. I can’t control these things so why would I stress about changing their course? It makes far more sense to focus on the things I can control like preparing an evacuation plan and buying booze to make it through a game. In the book when Pooh and the gang are lost and trying to find their way home they couldn’t magically wish their way home but they could change their approach by walking in a different direction.
Share what you know for the sake of sharing. Hoarding knowledge is ego driven to create a distance in wealth of intellectual currency. Someone who learns for the sake of accumulating knowledge with no plans of making it accessible to others is not actually solving problems they’re just appeasing their ego.
Never stop asking why, this question included. It’s what feeds our curiosity and by extension our creativity. Asking why accesses our childlike nature and returns us to that beautiful time where the world was limitless wonder. A development of man in the tale was infant, child, adult, then enlightened child because it’s that wonder that keeps you youthful, healthy, and wise.
A weakness is a strength when you acknowledge it’s a weakness (one disease long life, no disease short life). If you know what you aren’t good at you can focus on fortifying it or find someone in your life who’s strength is your weakness. This was fascinating because it fits so perfectly into all walks of life. In business when I know something is wrong I feel a sense of comfort because now we can fix it. I’ve heard similar stories of people with undiagnosed ailments finally getting diagnosis and even if it’s a serious one they felt a sense of relief because they finally could start a road to recovery.
This was then followed up by the importance of perspective because later in the book they discussed how it’s less work to change a negative to a positive than it is to erase a negative. In other words, reframing your weaknesses will get you further than trying to eradicate them. The best example I can think of off the top of my head is if you’re a constant snacker you’re not going to stop but you can change what you’re snacking on. Also just try this exercise. Draw a negative sign on a piece of paper. What takes more time, erasing it from the page or adding a perpendicular line to make it a positive?
We don’t need to know things to work with them. While the inventor wants to take things a part and understand every small detail of how it works, some things don’t need to be dissected or are too vast to even begin to do so. I think of the movie drumline with this when Nick Cannon is told you don’t need to be able to read restroom to know how to use a toilet. While understanding things can create an enriching experience you shouldn’t get lost in the details. At first I struggled to agree with this piece of advice until I tried to apply it to my own life. While I’m not an engineer I have been bogged down by details in the past and a perfectionist mentality which has stunted development. My dear friend Brandy told me sometimes good enough is good enough and it’s all you need to do.
Authenticity is difficult because we have brains and brains can be tricked into liking things our instincts don’t like. I’ve been trying to articulate this point for years! The worst advice a social media guru can give, but it’s always their favorite, is just be authentic. DUDE! That’s so fucking difficult. I didn’t know who I was for years. I had allowed my brain to be rewired to like things I had no interest in but I convinced myself I liked it and convinced myself it was good. I know this sounds kind of pathetic, but as long as we are constantly consuming material we are told is good, we will be tricked into thinking it is. Brains can be tricked, and the biggest mistake we can make is thinking ours is always right. It’s our greatest tool but it’s also one of our most susceptible.
“Music and living are the same thing” the image in the book that was used was someone banging on the keyboards isn’t making music, but removing the keys from the piano doesn’t make music either. Our every day actions are playing notes and some people compose more beautiful symphonies at times but we don’t remove the keys of everyone else.
courage compassion comes courage. Piglet is afraid but when his friends are in trouble he’s the first to run after them to help. You don’t have to be brave for the sake of being brave, love breeds bravery and the more you love the braver you will naturally become because truly caring about something else will train your instincts to protect it at all costs.
My final point is I think we’ve all practiced taoism in our lives even if we didn’t know it. Have you ever been on a winning streak where you find your spontaneous actions are just always right but you’re not putting any effort in? Maybe you just didn’t feel like going out and it turned out the there was a huge electrical storm and the event lost power anyway, or you were supposed to go to school but instead you take a road trip to Atlanta to see rap legends perform. Taoism promotes instinctual decisions and spontaneity. I think it’s perfectly captured in this quote from the book: You can’t save time but you can spend it