Contemplating a career change, I recently consulted a career/life coach. She recommended this book after one of our discussions.
So, I'll start by saying that I'm an atheist, non-theist, agnostic (whatever you want to call someone who doesn't subscribe to a particular religion) who leans toward a predetermined universe. This being my starting point, I simply replaced the word God with "wonder and awesomeness of the universe," the word "prayer" with "self reflection and self forgiveness" and "faith" with "trust that the good guy really does win (even when he loses)."
About halfway through the book, I was reminded of a conversation I had when I first realized that although I was brough up a Christian, I no longer identified as one. The conversation was inspired by a slew of "what ifs," that went something like this. What if "God" just really represents some higher level of energy, an enlightened state, a perfect equilibrium? And what if the purpose of life is to eventually reach that perfect equilibrium? And what if in order to transcend through the levels, we have to first learn a series of valuable lessons that if and only when mastered will allow us to move on? And what if we are destined to make the same mistakes over and over again, until we learn that lesson? And what if after death, our energy force is recycled either moving on or being forced to repeat the process again and again? And what if it is none of the above?
According to Williamson, each failure or rather perceived failure should be seen as an opportunity. It's only then that we will see the possibilities that have always surrounded us. In that sense, the world, the universe, and/or "god" has already provided us with all the tools we need to succeed, but it's up to us to open our eyes.
And while not an earthshattering revelation, it is certainly an enlightened one.
In that sense, attitude is everything. How we choose to behave, to react, to act can either help us realize our full potential or guarntee we will never reach it.
She talks a lot about the power of positivity and the pitfalls of negativity. She talks about love, love, and even more love.
Basically, she seems to be saying that in order to be successful we need to do a few things:
1. love ourselves (warts and all)
2. love others (even the mean ones)
3. seek to fulfill your potentional by doing that which makes you happy rather than that which you think will make you rich
4. if you do #3 well, you'll never have to worry about money because the money will take care of itself
5. don't confuse money with happiness, but also don't demonize the making of it
6. money is nice only so far as it is a necessity for allowing us to reach our full potential thus enriching the world
7. be true to yourself and your gifts, find your greatness
8. and finally, take care of your physical, mental and spiritual health through good nutrition, exercise, and meditation
Unlike Williamson, I don't believe in God. I'm also not sure what if any purpose the universe has for little ole me. But I do believe that life, the here the now, is the only thing that we know for certain. For this reason, I think we need to seize the moment. Find meaning and true joy in each day. I can't imagine a better way of doing that than to do what you love, that thing that excites you, the work that doesn't feel like work. I mean, imagine if we all supported ourselves doing things that made us happy? Talk about a win-win.
At one point Williamson says something to the effect that we need to stop asking kids "what they want to be" and instead ask them "who they really are." I find that a rather empowering distinction. What makes you happy? What would you do even if you didn't get paid? What do you value and is what you're doing in all areas of your life honoring your values?
The book is certainly inspirational in much the same way that a sappy Mitch Albom book is inspirational. I think religious undertones aside, much of what she says resonates because they are universal truths, the make-you-feel-good kind to boot. Unfortunately, the real challenge we all face is how to make these truths a reality in our lives. She makes it sound so simple. Just exude love. Just place your trust in God or the universe or the flying spaghetti monster or whatever. And that's great for the ten minutes the buzz lasts. In that sense, it's more a starting point for changing thought processes than anything else.