How to Set Up an FLR

by Georgia Ivey Green

This book is meant to be a definitive guide to Female Led Relationships. If you are interested in starting an FLR this book will help. Though there is no objectionable language used in the writing of this book, it does deal explicitly with various aspects of sexuality including, but not limited to, BDSM. If you have ever thought about trying an FLR, or have tried and failed, you need this book.

It will show both men and women how to approach your partner, how to create an agreement, how to take control, how to maintain control and how to avoid major pitfalls of any relationship, FLR or not, and even have some fun doing it. It will help you overcome fears and guilt of being in charge. Whether you are married, living together, or just dating, the information in this book can help you determine what type of relationship suits you best. Whether that happens to be male or female led, makes no difference. The principles are the same.

You will find, chastity, rewards, punishment & discipline, CBT, milking, fantasies, Cross-dressing, humiliation, bi-sexuality, cuckolding, games you can play, and much more all in this one, concise guide. If you have ever been curious about exactly what an FLR is or what it can do for your relationship, you owe it to yourself, and your partner, to read this book.

“Ms. Green has outdone herself with this volume. Everything is written in easy to read, easy to understand terms. She even teaches you how to use your imagination, to be creative, and to think on your own. Her understanding of D/s relationships goes far beyond anything I have ever read before. She dispels the usual stereotypes and shows you why you don't have to try to live up to them. She teaches you to be yourself and still enjoy all the benefits of an FLR. Through the use of a few simple questionnaires, you will learn what kind of relationship you currently have, what you want, and what will work best for you and your partner.” - Robert Athos

Genres: BDSM, Nonfiction

139 pages, Kindle Edition

First published February 4, 2013

Reviews

[Paulskim · Rating 5 out of 5]

If you believe women should lead their committed, loving relationships, this is your book. Where is it written that women always have to be submissive in their couple? Especially when they are the ones who call the shots or make most decisions in their own couple's life without having their leadership acknowledged. Even a submissive woman can find interest in this book since it helps her to recognize her erotic power. Any man, dominant or submissive, benefits from empowering women in their couple. The book helps opening a trusted communication between partners to make man's sexual libido become the cornerstone of a renewed dynamic between lovers. I find this book useful for all kinds of loving relationships because it helps define what kind of dynamic exists between partners. It promotes how vital communication is to build trust and become vulnerable in the hands of our lover, giving men useful tips to help affirm their wive's self-confidence. Too often, spouses avoid speaking of touchy subjects like sexuality, so this book becomes a worksheet to design a renewed bonding for lovers wishing to put the woman in charge. A book like this one is a gem to empower women and give men tools, and sometimes devices, to make their life fun and kinky.

[Darcknight · Rating 4 out of 5]

It was interesting to read. I had an idea of what an FLR was but never fully considered what was involved. Seems men require more policing due to our being ready to mate at any time, unlike females whose libido is high for a short time each month. I don't know that the chastity and teasing and such would be on the same order / schedule if the dominant were male.

[Magzhan · Rating 5 out of 5]

Good book and fast read. The More empirical approach to build a FLR. She offers various methods to control but majority of them are how to controlling a man by his sexual desires. Kinda like not real female domination but satisfying male sex desires.

[Jessica · Rating 4 out of 5]

Great information. Had borrowed it from a friend and ended up buying it for myself.

[christine snyder · Rating 5 out of 5]

WOW!!!

Loved every chapter, loved every idea and suggestion.
In this “subs” eyes, my wife will learn many things when her pet reads it to her.

[Passolan · Rating 4 out of 5]

The issue with reviewing a book on FLR (or any "lifestyle" book) is that the only "perfect" book would be your own. There were many chapters here that I skipped (cuckolding / CBT / cross dressing / most of chastity - either because I am not interested or I assume my wife wouldn't be keen on). I think I misread the title, and expected it to be more about why the man or woman would want to set up an FLR, when actually it is about some of the nuts and bolts about setting up an FLR and what can make it work, or be fun and dynamic.

Mistress Green makes a point of wanting to dispell many notions and misconceptions regarding FLR's and that it requires the woman to become a leather clad dominatrix. This is definitely the case, what she suggests doing to the submissive male is power / control based but not a dressing up based performance!

At times it was exciting to read, and at others made me wonder what I am getting myself in to!

[robby verrier · Rating 5 out of 5]

Helping to discover eachother

This book really helped me understand and open my eyes to all the possibilities. It's written in a way that makes you comfortable and encourages you to learn and grow with your partner. I think our relationship will flourish and grow as we put our agreement together.

[Faisal AJ · Rating 5 out of 5]

Great book