This is a work that is a part of The Gospel for Real Life Series put out by Presbyterian and Reformed Publishing written by those who are a part of the Association of Biblical Counselors. This particular work addresses the topic of depression. In this review I want to briefly summarize what the author Margaret Ashmore has to say followed by the positives that I found in this book.
I appreciated Ashmore’s point that she makes to the readers that depression and fighting depression is a choice. This provide the structure for her booklet in which she gave six points of what to choose. Among them are the points that we must choose gratitude, we must choose to see God’s sovereign love, we must choose to relinquish rights, we must choose to dwell on Truth, we must choose to move forward, and finally we must choose a Christ-Centered, Not a Self-Centered Life.
Several points stood out to me from this booklet. The author gives us memorable analogies and illustrations to make her point. I appreciated the section “Choose to relinquish Rights” immensely. The expectation that we have deserve certain things and that we have rights to them must not be underestimated as one of the root of our depression. Here the author has a memorable quote: “The sharpest, most effective axe at this virulent root is the relinquishing of rights” (20). Ashmore makes a good observation from the example of Jonah of how a self-entitlement mentality leads one to an attitude of anger and depression and even suicidal tendencies as we see in the case of Jonah. Very insightful from the book of Jonah and also a very helpful section. I also found this booklet was insightful when Ashmore pointed out that there are two kinds of angry people: those who express it outwardly and those who channel it inside internally, with one of the results being depression. Furthermore under the section “Choose to move forward,” I found the author’s practical point of “doing the next thing” as helpful exhortation. Finally since the author is tackling depression from the standpoint of Biblical counseling you see the God-centered approach that is taken when the author identified that our biggest problem isn’t depression but our sins against God. Fortunately because of Christ this bad news should lead us to the Good News that goes beyond merely fixing our depression: “God didn’t come in to our lives to fix our old lives. He came in to our lives to give us his life!” (32). That of course means Christ died for our sins so we won’t be judged by God but be saved from His wrath.
Overall I enjoyed this book and found it a helpful counseling resource for pastors and church leaders.