This was book was a turning point in my practice. A retreat with Kim Allen, and this book, were perfectly timed for me. After many years of struggling with complicated relationships with all types of sticky life patterns, this book, and Kim's words over the years of meditating with her, provided guidance for how to develop a balance of healthy renunciation. For fans of Bhikku Anālayo's books, you'll feel at home here, though this is perhaps a bit lighter on the scholarly style.