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Love & The Goddess
One woman, one myth, three goddesses
When Cookery teacher Kate Canavan’s perfect life falls apart she moves to nearby Galway City.
Her friend James urges her to love and nurture herself, but mischievous Ella persuades her to dust off her unused dating skills. So Kate explores the world of on- line dating using the name of a Greek Goddess. In the midst of a mad dating frenzy, Kate has a traumatic health scare which convinces her to drop everything and go in search of a guru.
First stop a famous healer's ashram in Brazil followed by a shamanic journey through Peru, where a shaman tells her how to harness the energy of the Goddess and the Divine Feminine. Kate’s journey of self discovery continues apace after she returns home and events unfold in a surprising manner, as she learns to think for herself.
When Cookery teacher Kate Canavan’s perfect life falls apart she moves to nearby Galway City.
Her friend James urges her to love and nurture herself, but mischievous Ella persuades her to dust off her unused dating skills. So Kate explores the world of on- line dating using the name of a Greek Goddess. In the midst of a mad dating frenzy, Kate has a traumatic health scare which convinces her to drop everything and go in search of a guru.
First stop a famous healer's ashram in Brazil followed by a shamanic journey through Peru, where a shaman tells her how to harness the energy of the Goddess and the Divine Feminine. Kate’s journey of self discovery continues apace after she returns home and events unfold in a surprising manner, as she learns to think for herself.
390 pages, Paperback
First published January 30, 2013
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About the author
Mary Elizabeth Coen
1 book91 followersLiving in Ireland, Mary Elizabeth Coen is a former Home Economics teacher and lifestyle journalist.
Though she always dreamed of being a writer, Mary Elizabeth took a rather circuitous route getting there. You could say she has had several incarnations in this lifetime from Home Economics teacher to Fashion Editor of a magazine, along with being mother to three wonderful children, Mark, Janet and Emily. Due to demand from clients she opened her own pr consultancy firm specializing in fashion; - the dream job for a fashionista, availing of great discounts on wonderful shoes and vintage clothing.
Unfortunately the five inch stilettos had to go when Mary’s health deteriorated and she received a diagnosis of fibromyalgia. Work too, had to take a back seat as Mary sought to maintain optimum health and became interested in holistic medicine and personal development.
In the process, she developed a passion for mythology, philosophy and the study of ancient spiritual traditions. As a spiritual seeker, she travelled to Mayan sites in Mexico, visited a famous healer’s ashram in Brazil and undertook a shamanic journey through Peru. Mary’s book Love & the Goddess is based on her travels.
Mary is now in robust good health, working as a full-time author and stress management lecturer, while also running a website called Goddess MECA. The acronym is for Mary Elizabeth Coen Assists the Goddess in everywoman through sharing her love of cookery fashion and mythology. Mary brings her experience from teaching, using tools that are practical and easily integrated into every day busy lives. Her clients range from private individuals and businesses, to larger corporate bodies.
Though she always dreamed of being a writer, Mary Elizabeth took a rather circuitous route getting there. You could say she has had several incarnations in this lifetime from Home Economics teacher to Fashion Editor of a magazine, along with being mother to three wonderful children, Mark, Janet and Emily. Due to demand from clients she opened her own pr consultancy firm specializing in fashion; - the dream job for a fashionista, availing of great discounts on wonderful shoes and vintage clothing.
Unfortunately the five inch stilettos had to go when Mary’s health deteriorated and she received a diagnosis of fibromyalgia. Work too, had to take a back seat as Mary sought to maintain optimum health and became interested in holistic medicine and personal development.
In the process, she developed a passion for mythology, philosophy and the study of ancient spiritual traditions. As a spiritual seeker, she travelled to Mayan sites in Mexico, visited a famous healer’s ashram in Brazil and undertook a shamanic journey through Peru. Mary’s book Love & the Goddess is based on her travels.
Mary is now in robust good health, working as a full-time author and stress management lecturer, while also running a website called Goddess MECA. The acronym is for Mary Elizabeth Coen Assists the Goddess in everywoman through sharing her love of cookery fashion and mythology. Mary brings her experience from teaching, using tools that are practical and easily integrated into every day busy lives. Her clients range from private individuals and businesses, to larger corporate bodies.
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January 15, 2014
First off, I knew that I would enjoy LOVE AND THE GODDESS before I even read the book. And no, it wasn’t only because of the simply amazing cover and the fact that the book’s title caught my attention. I just had this sixth sense about it all. Now that I’ve finished reading, I must admit that Mary Elizabeth Coen did a truly fantastic job of bringing this story alive.
Kate Canavan is such an amazing heroine! She’s the type of character that anyone can not help but root for. After having married early on in life and giving her all to her marriage, Kate is eventually disregarded by her husband. I instantly connected with her heartbreak. She had made Trevor, her rather selfish husband, the sun, moon, and stars of her world. She knew nothing beyond him, after having sacrificed all that she wanted in life to please him. This instantly stood out to me, because Kate is not alone in this world. Many women never really get to know themselves first; moreover, I do believe that we can never truly be happy while living out someone else’s idea of happy. So Kate’s marriage ending paves the way to a wonderful journey of self-discovery.
Personally, I believe that Love and the Goddess is a must read. It is an emotional book, filled with humorous aspects and simply excellent writing. I already have a thing for Ireland, so I further enjoyed the sprinkling of Irish terms. It’s also great for its vivid/colorful details on Kate’s literal and mental journey of self discovery. I connected with this character on her spiritual journey, as well and I appreciate the fact that the romantic undertones were not overbearing. Though there were some rather funny scenes that occurred immediately following her breakup when Kate, with the urging of her best friend Ella, jumped into the dating scene, this book moved beyond a simple romance. That’s about as much that I will say, because I do not give spoilers.
Coen’s writing is fresh and lively. She’s done a wonderful job with this debut novel, and I eagerly await more of her work. Perhaps it is good to reference similar, popular titles as a framework for comparison; however, I do not believe in doing so. Though each writer and their characters might have similar experiences, much like in real life, the journeys are always unique. LOVE AND THE GODDESS is a must read by itself and doesn’t need comparing to any other title.
Kate Canavan is such an amazing heroine! She’s the type of character that anyone can not help but root for. After having married early on in life and giving her all to her marriage, Kate is eventually disregarded by her husband. I instantly connected with her heartbreak. She had made Trevor, her rather selfish husband, the sun, moon, and stars of her world. She knew nothing beyond him, after having sacrificed all that she wanted in life to please him. This instantly stood out to me, because Kate is not alone in this world. Many women never really get to know themselves first; moreover, I do believe that we can never truly be happy while living out someone else’s idea of happy. So Kate’s marriage ending paves the way to a wonderful journey of self-discovery.
Personally, I believe that Love and the Goddess is a must read. It is an emotional book, filled with humorous aspects and simply excellent writing. I already have a thing for Ireland, so I further enjoyed the sprinkling of Irish terms. It’s also great for its vivid/colorful details on Kate’s literal and mental journey of self discovery. I connected with this character on her spiritual journey, as well and I appreciate the fact that the romantic undertones were not overbearing. Though there were some rather funny scenes that occurred immediately following her breakup when Kate, with the urging of her best friend Ella, jumped into the dating scene, this book moved beyond a simple romance. That’s about as much that I will say, because I do not give spoilers.
Coen’s writing is fresh and lively. She’s done a wonderful job with this debut novel, and I eagerly await more of her work. Perhaps it is good to reference similar, popular titles as a framework for comparison; however, I do not believe in doing so. Though each writer and their characters might have similar experiences, much like in real life, the journeys are always unique. LOVE AND THE GODDESS is a must read by itself and doesn’t need comparing to any other title.
June 3, 2013
Kate moves out of the family home when her husband abruptly announces that their marriage is over. Her colleague and good friend James advises her to see this as an opportunity for introspection and self-discovery. Her best friend Ella encourages her to try online dating to build up her self-esteem. Will either approach help Kate find happiness?
I do like Kate. She is a naturally creative and nurturing person, essentially optimistic, but she needs to find the strength to move on from negative and tragic events in her past and to recover from her more recent marriage break up.
The theme of the goddess links Kate’s online dating with the reading and travelling she experiences. The author makes an unusual decision to mix the gossipy online dating world with the spiritual dimension in this book, but I think it works. The dating scenes are fun (some of the men are hilariously ghastly) and the spiritual journey that Kate makes to Brazil and Peru is very interesting. I learned a lot from both, as does Kate.
The development of the plot to include Kate’s parents and her sister rounds out the story very well, but elsewhere there are a couple of plot points that are little manufactured. However, they form only a tiny part of the whole story, so if you are looking for something that is both entertaining and thoughtful then this book is a great pick. I also think that anyone who may be feeling in need of a bit of TLC would derive a lot of comfort from joining Kate on her journey.
I’d like to thank the author for sending me a review copy.
I do like Kate. She is a naturally creative and nurturing person, essentially optimistic, but she needs to find the strength to move on from negative and tragic events in her past and to recover from her more recent marriage break up.
The theme of the goddess links Kate’s online dating with the reading and travelling she experiences. The author makes an unusual decision to mix the gossipy online dating world with the spiritual dimension in this book, but I think it works. The dating scenes are fun (some of the men are hilariously ghastly) and the spiritual journey that Kate makes to Brazil and Peru is very interesting. I learned a lot from both, as does Kate.
The development of the plot to include Kate’s parents and her sister rounds out the story very well, but elsewhere there are a couple of plot points that are little manufactured. However, they form only a tiny part of the whole story, so if you are looking for something that is both entertaining and thoughtful then this book is a great pick. I also think that anyone who may be feeling in need of a bit of TLC would derive a lot of comfort from joining Kate on her journey.
I’d like to thank the author for sending me a review copy.
June 4, 2013
***I just have to say that this book is a must SUMMER READ for 2013~~! Don't skip this one. If you love Eat, Pray, Love, and Sophie Kinsella Books, you will devour this one, when your follow Kate on her journey. Mary E. Coen is gifted writer and a deft storyteller with a sense of humor and grace.
Update-Sometimes they say there are such things as in serendipity in the world. You could say that happened to me when I found this book in my hands as a wonderful treat for me to read. I am an avid reader and read many books. So how to rate a book? How do you rate a book? I rate a book on what kind of experience I had while I was reading it. I rate a book on how much I took with me at the end and if when I read the final sentence if I I felt like a sudden fabulous friendship had just ended. When I read books that go this distance for me, I am so inspired because I read a lot and that doesn't happen every time. Well. Well! Well!! I don't want to compare this book to any other because it really doesn't deserve comparison. This is like one of those books you read and now you are glued to that author for life. You know, waiting for the next book to come out because there is that type of connection you felt with the book when you read it.
Kate is the main character. Kate is ditched by her husband of many years and her perfect life has just fallen out from under her. Her only child that is now off to college, is also heartbroken by Trevor's sudden decision to break up their perfect unit.
However, just like in life, when something falls apart some new wonderful things can happen.
Kate's best friend, Ella, is spirited and lively. She offers that sidekick companion for Kate that introduces her to a world of dating via Match.com type sites. She also has a friend named James that balances out the equation. I sometimes found these two side characters just as enjoyable as following Kate on her personal journey on self discovery and learning on how to start over.
There is a fun trip to Brazil and Peru that had exquisite images that register with those that love the ZEN, MEDITATIVE quest. The part of the book felt like a spiritual quest for inner peace, which Kate does not necessarily find right away. The trip isn't perfect, but what she finds more or less is herself emerging as strong and confident woman.
Upon arrival in Dublin, there are family issues to be met when her father is in the hospital. When will Kate have her moment of fun and atonement? What does happen during this period is Kate finds some unanswered questions finally answered regarding her memories with her father. She discovers a family secret that she never knew. By learning this information she is drawn closer to her father again.
I feel as if I am giving away too much here. I don't want to spoil the story. I will just say that when Kate makes it back to Ireland so many choices will need to be made when there are so many new forks in the road. And the on-line dating under the three Goddess names?? (I failed to mention that) How does that work out?
That's what makes this story so much fun to read. Following Kate on her own personal discovery of who she is as a woman is also linked together with mad-cap adventures that are down right hilarious and fun. I found myself laughing and wincing along with Kate when some of these characters she met for a coffee appeared to be more like a shady character from Stephen King book. (You know, at first glance they look like they are nice and normal, but watch out! There could be a Dracula, A Carrie with telepathic powers or an alcoholic with an ax. Kate's dating escapades didn't turn up any serial killers, but sometimes you were wondering as you turned the page...of course in a fun, mild way I am speaking, not a gruesome and scary kind of way. This is after all, a fiction book that reads like a perfect movie script with beautiful scenic settings. If you could make a comparison on books,you might say Eat Pray Love crossed with Shopaholic series by Sophie Kinsella. Coming from me, that's huge compliment. I love Elizabeth Gilbert and Sophie K books. I think that Mary Elizabeth Coen book belongs right up there on the shelf with them..and in the theaters, too.)
You could say that sometimes a book finds us. That sometimes one will find you by a twist of fate that you didn't know was just around the corner. You pick it up. You read it. And your life shifts slightly for the better. You find yourself smiling. You find yourself welling up with tears when certain marvelous moments finally do come together for the character you fall in love with in that particular book.
Yes! This happened to me with LOVE and the GODDESS. I found myself waiting for moments to read it whenever I could. I wanted to read it faster than I did. But Mother's Day weekend full of events pushed me with the final read in one sitting on a perfect, sunny moment in Cardiff by the Sea in California. The breeze was just right. My coffee tasted perfect even when I ran out of my half and half. And there was just me meeting Kate back at the end of her journey in this lovely story that conquers the most important theme of all:
Are you on the right road in your personal quest for happiness?
I look forward to reading Mary E. Coen's next book. I am sure it will deliver with a punch just like this one. A must read, especially for women that love to read about love, dating and looking within to find a deeper meaning than just a tube of red liptstick.
This is an exciting journey with taking. Ask me, I know.
Update-Sometimes they say there are such things as in serendipity in the world. You could say that happened to me when I found this book in my hands as a wonderful treat for me to read. I am an avid reader and read many books. So how to rate a book? How do you rate a book? I rate a book on what kind of experience I had while I was reading it. I rate a book on how much I took with me at the end and if when I read the final sentence if I I felt like a sudden fabulous friendship had just ended. When I read books that go this distance for me, I am so inspired because I read a lot and that doesn't happen every time. Well. Well! Well!! I don't want to compare this book to any other because it really doesn't deserve comparison. This is like one of those books you read and now you are glued to that author for life. You know, waiting for the next book to come out because there is that type of connection you felt with the book when you read it.
Kate is the main character. Kate is ditched by her husband of many years and her perfect life has just fallen out from under her. Her only child that is now off to college, is also heartbroken by Trevor's sudden decision to break up their perfect unit.
However, just like in life, when something falls apart some new wonderful things can happen.
Kate's best friend, Ella, is spirited and lively. She offers that sidekick companion for Kate that introduces her to a world of dating via Match.com type sites. She also has a friend named James that balances out the equation. I sometimes found these two side characters just as enjoyable as following Kate on her personal journey on self discovery and learning on how to start over.
There is a fun trip to Brazil and Peru that had exquisite images that register with those that love the ZEN, MEDITATIVE quest. The part of the book felt like a spiritual quest for inner peace, which Kate does not necessarily find right away. The trip isn't perfect, but what she finds more or less is herself emerging as strong and confident woman.
Upon arrival in Dublin, there are family issues to be met when her father is in the hospital. When will Kate have her moment of fun and atonement? What does happen during this period is Kate finds some unanswered questions finally answered regarding her memories with her father. She discovers a family secret that she never knew. By learning this information she is drawn closer to her father again.
I feel as if I am giving away too much here. I don't want to spoil the story. I will just say that when Kate makes it back to Ireland so many choices will need to be made when there are so many new forks in the road. And the on-line dating under the three Goddess names?? (I failed to mention that) How does that work out?
That's what makes this story so much fun to read. Following Kate on her own personal discovery of who she is as a woman is also linked together with mad-cap adventures that are down right hilarious and fun. I found myself laughing and wincing along with Kate when some of these characters she met for a coffee appeared to be more like a shady character from Stephen King book. (You know, at first glance they look like they are nice and normal, but watch out! There could be a Dracula, A Carrie with telepathic powers or an alcoholic with an ax. Kate's dating escapades didn't turn up any serial killers, but sometimes you were wondering as you turned the page...of course in a fun, mild way I am speaking, not a gruesome and scary kind of way. This is after all, a fiction book that reads like a perfect movie script with beautiful scenic settings. If you could make a comparison on books,you might say Eat Pray Love crossed with Shopaholic series by Sophie Kinsella. Coming from me, that's huge compliment. I love Elizabeth Gilbert and Sophie K books. I think that Mary Elizabeth Coen book belongs right up there on the shelf with them..and in the theaters, too.)
You could say that sometimes a book finds us. That sometimes one will find you by a twist of fate that you didn't know was just around the corner. You pick it up. You read it. And your life shifts slightly for the better. You find yourself smiling. You find yourself welling up with tears when certain marvelous moments finally do come together for the character you fall in love with in that particular book.
Yes! This happened to me with LOVE and the GODDESS. I found myself waiting for moments to read it whenever I could. I wanted to read it faster than I did. But Mother's Day weekend full of events pushed me with the final read in one sitting on a perfect, sunny moment in Cardiff by the Sea in California. The breeze was just right. My coffee tasted perfect even when I ran out of my half and half. And there was just me meeting Kate back at the end of her journey in this lovely story that conquers the most important theme of all:
Are you on the right road in your personal quest for happiness?
I look forward to reading Mary E. Coen's next book. I am sure it will deliver with a punch just like this one. A must read, especially for women that love to read about love, dating and looking within to find a deeper meaning than just a tube of red liptstick.
This is an exciting journey with taking. Ask me, I know.
November 19, 2013
Please note: This review from my daughter, Mel, part of the "Liz Loves Books" reviewing team. Thanks to the author for sending her the review copy.
So, here it is, my first ever full review for the Melissa page, and what a pleasure it has been. I've got to admit, when Liz conned me into the business (okay, I wanted to be there really) I wasn't expecting much interaction from the authors, but Mary Coen has opened my eyes to the online community that surrounds books/book reviewing/publishing and all the rest, and so far it's a great gang to be a part of. I hope that I can cement my place here! Anyway, on with the review.
"One woman, One myth, Three Goddesses.
A woman's voyage of self discovery begins on the internet, leading all
the way to Brazil and onto the Andean highlands of Peru.
Devastated from her divorce, Kate Canavan is
at a loss until she re-discovers a hidden painting of the triple Goddess from
Greek mythology. Her interest in mythology and spirituality is re-ignited. A
voyage of self discovery begins with internet dating using the names of each of
the Goddesses in the triple myth."
"Love & The Goddess" is brilliant at what it's trying to be, which is essentially a mixture of self help, comedy, spiritualism and a touch of romance. I'm not saying it's a psychological masterpiece, or that every person in the world will enjoy it (it has a clear target audience) but personally I am giving it five shining stars.
If you're a female, and you've been having a tough time recently - or perhaps you just need a book that will put life in perspective - then this is the book for you. Despite being twenty years younger than the protagonist, I found that I could relate to a lot of what she was thinking and feeling, and saw my impulsive and often rash personality shine through in her own choices.
Kate will take you on a journey, and it will certainly make you think about embarking on a real life journey of your own. We are taught that life certainly does not end with marriage, or children, or indeed with divorce! The experiences she has with internet dating make for comedy gold, and often had me either cringing or laughing out loud. A must read for those at a crossroads; pick it up on a train, on a plane, on a beach, on your lunch break, and you'll have finished it before you know it.
So, here it is, my first ever full review for the Melissa page, and what a pleasure it has been. I've got to admit, when Liz conned me into the business (okay, I wanted to be there really) I wasn't expecting much interaction from the authors, but Mary Coen has opened my eyes to the online community that surrounds books/book reviewing/publishing and all the rest, and so far it's a great gang to be a part of. I hope that I can cement my place here! Anyway, on with the review.
"One woman, One myth, Three Goddesses.
A woman's voyage of self discovery begins on the internet, leading all
the way to Brazil and onto the Andean highlands of Peru.
Devastated from her divorce, Kate Canavan is
at a loss until she re-discovers a hidden painting of the triple Goddess from
Greek mythology. Her interest in mythology and spirituality is re-ignited. A
voyage of self discovery begins with internet dating using the names of each of
the Goddesses in the triple myth."
"Love & The Goddess" is brilliant at what it's trying to be, which is essentially a mixture of self help, comedy, spiritualism and a touch of romance. I'm not saying it's a psychological masterpiece, or that every person in the world will enjoy it (it has a clear target audience) but personally I am giving it five shining stars.
If you're a female, and you've been having a tough time recently - or perhaps you just need a book that will put life in perspective - then this is the book for you. Despite being twenty years younger than the protagonist, I found that I could relate to a lot of what she was thinking and feeling, and saw my impulsive and often rash personality shine through in her own choices.
Kate will take you on a journey, and it will certainly make you think about embarking on a real life journey of your own. We are taught that life certainly does not end with marriage, or children, or indeed with divorce! The experiences she has with internet dating make for comedy gold, and often had me either cringing or laughing out loud. A must read for those at a crossroads; pick it up on a train, on a plane, on a beach, on your lunch break, and you'll have finished it before you know it.
March 17, 2013
Love & the Goddess
One woman, One myth, Three Goddesses
Resume - One woman's search for love begins on the internet and leads her all the way to Peru.
If you like inspirational fiction which is humorous then take a look inside:-
http://www.amazon.com/Love-The-Goddes...
or for Irish/Uk readers:-
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Love-The-Godd...
Funny, informative, heart-warming and wildly entertaining. This book rocks!
– Ferdia Mac Anna
One woman, One myth, Three Goddesses
Resume - One woman's search for love begins on the internet and leads her all the way to Peru.
If you like inspirational fiction which is humorous then take a look inside:-
http://www.amazon.com/Love-The-Goddes...
or for Irish/Uk readers:-
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Love-The-Godd...
Funny, informative, heart-warming and wildly entertaining. This book rocks!
– Ferdia Mac Anna
August 12, 2016
First of all I want to say a huge thank you to Mary E. Coen for sending me a signed paperback copy of this novel – I was very excited when it arrived and couldn’t wait to start reading it. Mary is such a wonderful person, and I am so glad to have had the pleasure of meeting her and helping promote her work.
Love & the Goddess follows Kate’s journey of self-discovery. It opens with her life being completely derailed when her husband informs her that he wants a divorce as he has fallen in love with his secretary. This comes as a complete shock to Kate, as life with Trevor is all she has ever known. But soon Kate starts to realise just how much of herself she has lost due to Trevor being a control freak. In this moment, everything Kate knew about her life had changed, and she soon realises that she has been living in denial. Mary E. Coen brilliantly connects the reader with Kate’s journey as the reader is by Kate’s side as she starts to learn about herself and realise how much control Trevor had over her. Trevor was very controlling, arrogant and dismissive towards Kate.
Everyone in Kate’s life seems to know what’s best for her. I really felt for Kate when her family were against her, suggesting she was responsible for ruining her relationship with Trevor and that she should be fighting to get him back. Mary E. Coen portrays this sad truth very well, as there are always those who force their opinion on others without knowing the details, and they are simply conforming to what’s deemed as acceptable.
Kate’s friend Ella’s suggests that she tries Internet dating to brush up on her dating skills. This opens a whole new world to Kate and she almost finds herself obsessing over the potential bachelors. Mary E. Coen introduces Kate, and the reader, to some really interesting characters, many of whom leave you cringing and desperate to phone Kate with the ‘there’s an emergency, hurry’ get-out-of-jail-free card to help her escape some of the hideous men. Through these encounters Mary E. Coen brings humour to the novel, with some laugh out loud and cringe-worthy scenes. Her characterisation of the different men Kate meets is excellent as she depicts how easy it is to misread people. Although it is uncertain whether Kate will find any success from Internet dating, it helps her to gain self-confidence and she begins to stand up for herself. As the reader, it is really encouraging to see Kate grow as a character.
When Kate suffers a serious health scare, she re-evaluates the way she is living her life, and thus embarks on her true journey of self-discovery and healing with her travels to Brazil and Peru. Just as Trevor rejected Kate, she had begun to reject herself too. But on this journey she soon realises that she needs to learn to accept herself and her emotions in order to find true peace and happiness, and so we follow her as she works on her self-awareness.
Throughout the novel Kate meets some interesting characters, although the story continues to focus on Kate and her journey - although some may argue this to be a negative point I believe that this works beautifully to highlight the importance of the individual and personal journey that Kate is embarking on. The story touches on some very emotional subjects with regards to manipulative men, a desire for acceptance and approval, heartache from the loss of a loved one and a serious health scare. I really loved Kate’s character – watching her build her strength through the novel, and the way she opened herself up to new experiences showed great determination and courage through a time when most people would find it difficult to even think of getting out of bed!
Mary E. Coen’s style of writing is very easy to read, and although it broaches some sensitive subjects, she does it in such a gentle way that the reader is not left feeling uncomfortable. I think this is a very powerful story, and believe that there are a lot of women out there who could learn something from reading this story and applying some of the values of self-awareness and acceptance to their own lives.
Love & the Goddess is a powerful and emotionally insightful story, with dashes of humour and a dollop of cringe!
Love & the Goddess follows Kate’s journey of self-discovery. It opens with her life being completely derailed when her husband informs her that he wants a divorce as he has fallen in love with his secretary. This comes as a complete shock to Kate, as life with Trevor is all she has ever known. But soon Kate starts to realise just how much of herself she has lost due to Trevor being a control freak. In this moment, everything Kate knew about her life had changed, and she soon realises that she has been living in denial. Mary E. Coen brilliantly connects the reader with Kate’s journey as the reader is by Kate’s side as she starts to learn about herself and realise how much control Trevor had over her. Trevor was very controlling, arrogant and dismissive towards Kate.
Everyone in Kate’s life seems to know what’s best for her. I really felt for Kate when her family were against her, suggesting she was responsible for ruining her relationship with Trevor and that she should be fighting to get him back. Mary E. Coen portrays this sad truth very well, as there are always those who force their opinion on others without knowing the details, and they are simply conforming to what’s deemed as acceptable.
Kate’s friend Ella’s suggests that she tries Internet dating to brush up on her dating skills. This opens a whole new world to Kate and she almost finds herself obsessing over the potential bachelors. Mary E. Coen introduces Kate, and the reader, to some really interesting characters, many of whom leave you cringing and desperate to phone Kate with the ‘there’s an emergency, hurry’ get-out-of-jail-free card to help her escape some of the hideous men. Through these encounters Mary E. Coen brings humour to the novel, with some laugh out loud and cringe-worthy scenes. Her characterisation of the different men Kate meets is excellent as she depicts how easy it is to misread people. Although it is uncertain whether Kate will find any success from Internet dating, it helps her to gain self-confidence and she begins to stand up for herself. As the reader, it is really encouraging to see Kate grow as a character.
When Kate suffers a serious health scare, she re-evaluates the way she is living her life, and thus embarks on her true journey of self-discovery and healing with her travels to Brazil and Peru. Just as Trevor rejected Kate, she had begun to reject herself too. But on this journey she soon realises that she needs to learn to accept herself and her emotions in order to find true peace and happiness, and so we follow her as she works on her self-awareness.
Throughout the novel Kate meets some interesting characters, although the story continues to focus on Kate and her journey - although some may argue this to be a negative point I believe that this works beautifully to highlight the importance of the individual and personal journey that Kate is embarking on. The story touches on some very emotional subjects with regards to manipulative men, a desire for acceptance and approval, heartache from the loss of a loved one and a serious health scare. I really loved Kate’s character – watching her build her strength through the novel, and the way she opened herself up to new experiences showed great determination and courage through a time when most people would find it difficult to even think of getting out of bed!
Mary E. Coen’s style of writing is very easy to read, and although it broaches some sensitive subjects, she does it in such a gentle way that the reader is not left feeling uncomfortable. I think this is a very powerful story, and believe that there are a lot of women out there who could learn something from reading this story and applying some of the values of self-awareness and acceptance to their own lives.
Love & the Goddess is a powerful and emotionally insightful story, with dashes of humour and a dollop of cringe!
July 14, 2013
Love and the Goddess is the story of a woman's journey to greater self-awareness and confidence. The novel begins with Kate pandering to her dominating husband, as she clearly has done for many years, and her world falls apart when he confesses that he has fallen in love with another woman and he wants a divorce. The marriage split sets Kate on a soul searching mission that takes her to South America to spend time with a faith healer and a shaman. She is accompanied by her good friend, James (who is gay), his sister, Maria, and Kate's best friend, Ella.
Kate has subjugated her spiritual side during her many years of marriage, because Trevor didn't agree with what he saw as her hippie leanings. Now that she doesn't have to please him any more, she is free to pursue her interest in the matters of the spirit. After a strict catholic childhood, Kate has some issues to work through regarding spirituality, but she has always had a connection with the Holy Spirit and comes to see the it as the goddess energy that plays a role in the spirituality of all cultures.
While this is happening in an inner level, Kate plays with Internet dating, changing sites and Goddess personas in line with her inner development. It's a clever idea, and entertaining, and it works well. The early dating scenes were most enjoyable.
On one level this is simply good women's fiction, but it is also visionary fiction in its focus on spiritual development. The author has achieved their aims well with this book. The spiritual wisdom is embedded in the novel in a casual, non-dogmatic, and practical way. Kate is a modern woman with the same kinds of stresses as all of us, but instead of letting things go on as they always have, after her marriage falls apart, she does her best to break out of old habits and live her life with more awareness.
Kate's quest to find a mate provides the plot. The question we want answered is, will she find someone and who will it be? She has challenges with her job and her daughter as well, but throughout the story there remains the question of a man. Does she even need one? The pacing is good, generally steady and even but with a few quicker moments.
All the characters are well developed and easy to relate to and the prose is excellent.
The only reason I'm not giving this five stars is that I feel the writing was just a touch too reserved. I would like to have felt Kate's feelings, but the story was mostly about what she did, not what she felt or experienced. The writing was clean, sparse and elegant but it could have gone deeper, and the book would have worked better if it had. As it was, Kate's motivations for her actions didn't come across very strongly, and in some instances seemed a little superficial. The outer reason for her visit to South America was explained, but not the inner reason and in a book about developing self-awareness the inner part is very important. Nevertheless, this is an excellent example of the new wave of independent visionary fiction.
I approve it for addition to the Awesome Indies list of quality independent fiction. http://awesomeindies.net
I received a free copy of this book from the author in return for an honest review.
Kate has subjugated her spiritual side during her many years of marriage, because Trevor didn't agree with what he saw as her hippie leanings. Now that she doesn't have to please him any more, she is free to pursue her interest in the matters of the spirit. After a strict catholic childhood, Kate has some issues to work through regarding spirituality, but she has always had a connection with the Holy Spirit and comes to see the it as the goddess energy that plays a role in the spirituality of all cultures.
While this is happening in an inner level, Kate plays with Internet dating, changing sites and Goddess personas in line with her inner development. It's a clever idea, and entertaining, and it works well. The early dating scenes were most enjoyable.
On one level this is simply good women's fiction, but it is also visionary fiction in its focus on spiritual development. The author has achieved their aims well with this book. The spiritual wisdom is embedded in the novel in a casual, non-dogmatic, and practical way. Kate is a modern woman with the same kinds of stresses as all of us, but instead of letting things go on as they always have, after her marriage falls apart, she does her best to break out of old habits and live her life with more awareness.
Kate's quest to find a mate provides the plot. The question we want answered is, will she find someone and who will it be? She has challenges with her job and her daughter as well, but throughout the story there remains the question of a man. Does she even need one? The pacing is good, generally steady and even but with a few quicker moments.
All the characters are well developed and easy to relate to and the prose is excellent.
The only reason I'm not giving this five stars is that I feel the writing was just a touch too reserved. I would like to have felt Kate's feelings, but the story was mostly about what she did, not what she felt or experienced. The writing was clean, sparse and elegant but it could have gone deeper, and the book would have worked better if it had. As it was, Kate's motivations for her actions didn't come across very strongly, and in some instances seemed a little superficial. The outer reason for her visit to South America was explained, but not the inner reason and in a book about developing self-awareness the inner part is very important. Nevertheless, this is an excellent example of the new wave of independent visionary fiction.
I approve it for addition to the Awesome Indies list of quality independent fiction. http://awesomeindies.net
I received a free copy of this book from the author in return for an honest review.
November 17, 2013
“Living in the now is the path to healing. Only past regrets and future fears unsettle the mind.”
Kate, a dutiful wife, arrives home carrying the olive branch in another attempt to mend her stale marriage. Her efforts are in vain when her husband tells her he wants a divorce. He proceeds to lay blame on Kate’s shoulders and accuses Kate of not being the women he married 20 years ago. The real reason – he is having an affair with his personal assistant.
Everything Kate knew had changed and Kate’s world seemed to be falling apart. In a dark moment of her own thoughts, Kate remembers a painting she once bought which her husband disliked. She proceeds to find the painting of 3 Goddess’s – Persephone, Demeter and Hekate. Here we catch our first glimpse of what Kate enjoyed before. We share a glimmer of hope that Kate will rediscover something she loved. Staring at the painting, Kate realizes that she will have to dig deep within her soul and find the courage within herself to move on.
Kate’s 2 best friends, Ella and James, are like opposite poles in Kate’s life.
James is conservative and very much in touch with his feminine self. He believes in spiritually healing and invites Kate to join him on a journey of self-discovery to South America. With all that is happening, will she go?
Ella is the fun, live and let live character and encourages Kate to “get back on the horse” and try dating again. Ella introduces Kate to the scene of internet dating and together they learn to question the type of men they attract; as well as the how and why their choice of men change. Is there such a thing as Mr Right?
Kate narrates her story of having the “magic carpet” of married forever ripped out from under her feet and we join her on her journey through the heartache; the questions; the self-discovery of “who she really is; the tears and the laughter. We learn that our soul and mind will clash. Our mind - designed to keep us safe through the boundaries of what we were taught. Our soul - designed to grow us into who we are destined to be. Kate learns through her journey that the choice is hers, to follow her mind or her soul, and we as the reader become infinitely aware that we too have this choice.
The story is written with an easy and even flow of words that seem to come from the soul. There are paragraphs and phrases scattered throughout the book that will tweak a thought, deliver a message or leave you in an AHA moment. This is a book to share with your girlfriends, grab a great bottle of wine and chat about the things that really matter in life.
Mary Elizabeth Coen captures the key aspects of a phase in Kate’s life with ideas and information that will tantalize your taste buds (literally and figuratively). This book will add color to your world as you take a spiritual journey with Kate to finding the Goddess within.
Kate, a dutiful wife, arrives home carrying the olive branch in another attempt to mend her stale marriage. Her efforts are in vain when her husband tells her he wants a divorce. He proceeds to lay blame on Kate’s shoulders and accuses Kate of not being the women he married 20 years ago. The real reason – he is having an affair with his personal assistant.
Everything Kate knew had changed and Kate’s world seemed to be falling apart. In a dark moment of her own thoughts, Kate remembers a painting she once bought which her husband disliked. She proceeds to find the painting of 3 Goddess’s – Persephone, Demeter and Hekate. Here we catch our first glimpse of what Kate enjoyed before. We share a glimmer of hope that Kate will rediscover something she loved. Staring at the painting, Kate realizes that she will have to dig deep within her soul and find the courage within herself to move on.
Kate’s 2 best friends, Ella and James, are like opposite poles in Kate’s life.
James is conservative and very much in touch with his feminine self. He believes in spiritually healing and invites Kate to join him on a journey of self-discovery to South America. With all that is happening, will she go?
Ella is the fun, live and let live character and encourages Kate to “get back on the horse” and try dating again. Ella introduces Kate to the scene of internet dating and together they learn to question the type of men they attract; as well as the how and why their choice of men change. Is there such a thing as Mr Right?
Kate narrates her story of having the “magic carpet” of married forever ripped out from under her feet and we join her on her journey through the heartache; the questions; the self-discovery of “who she really is; the tears and the laughter. We learn that our soul and mind will clash. Our mind - designed to keep us safe through the boundaries of what we were taught. Our soul - designed to grow us into who we are destined to be. Kate learns through her journey that the choice is hers, to follow her mind or her soul, and we as the reader become infinitely aware that we too have this choice.
The story is written with an easy and even flow of words that seem to come from the soul. There are paragraphs and phrases scattered throughout the book that will tweak a thought, deliver a message or leave you in an AHA moment. This is a book to share with your girlfriends, grab a great bottle of wine and chat about the things that really matter in life.
Mary Elizabeth Coen captures the key aspects of a phase in Kate’s life with ideas and information that will tantalize your taste buds (literally and figuratively). This book will add color to your world as you take a spiritual journey with Kate to finding the Goddess within.
May 29, 2013
Kate Canavan had everything. Perfect husband, perfect daughter, perfect marriage, perfect life. And one day her perfect life just fell apart. Her husband found another woman. Kate had to leave her husband’s house.
Was this turn-over in her life for better or worse?
Kate finally has to discover what she really wants. She has a beautiful painting of three Greek Goddesses in the myth of Persephone, Demeter and Hekate. Her friend suggested on-line dating, so Kate used their names in different times on different sites to find her Mr. Wonderful. But, first of all, she has to find herself.
The journey of self-exploring takes Kate across the world. She travels in different places (I won’t reveal where) to find the cure for her wounded soul. With a little help from her friends, Kate starts to live again and finally make her dreams come true.
Love and the Goddess is a story for human strength. Having everything, then losing everything and starting all over is a fight of a lifetime. You are so lucky if your friends are there to catch you when you fall. I can’t imagine what it’s like to lose a child or being diagnosed with breast cancer, but I admire Kate for finding strength to move forward.
I really liked Kate as a character. Coping with so much on her shoulders, she is a great person. I also liked her friends Ella and James, they are always there for each other, for crying on the shoulders when bad things happen and celebrate when good things happen. I have friends like that and I’m really lucky for having them
Everything starts with a myth. With a painting of three Goddesses. Who gave her hope when there wasn’t and helped her to move on.
I did a little research for the three Goddesses and I’ve found an interesting story. If you are curious, here’s the full story for Persephone, Demeter and Hekate. Just to mention, I borrowed it from Witchvox.com.
Some people compare this story to Eat, Pray and Love. I didn’t find that much similarity. But, I enjoyed both. You don’t have to seek the love across the world. First, you have to find the magic in yourself. Don’t worry, it has always been there.
Was this turn-over in her life for better or worse?
Kate finally has to discover what she really wants. She has a beautiful painting of three Greek Goddesses in the myth of Persephone, Demeter and Hekate. Her friend suggested on-line dating, so Kate used their names in different times on different sites to find her Mr. Wonderful. But, first of all, she has to find herself.
The journey of self-exploring takes Kate across the world. She travels in different places (I won’t reveal where) to find the cure for her wounded soul. With a little help from her friends, Kate starts to live again and finally make her dreams come true.
Love and the Goddess is a story for human strength. Having everything, then losing everything and starting all over is a fight of a lifetime. You are so lucky if your friends are there to catch you when you fall. I can’t imagine what it’s like to lose a child or being diagnosed with breast cancer, but I admire Kate for finding strength to move forward.
I really liked Kate as a character. Coping with so much on her shoulders, she is a great person. I also liked her friends Ella and James, they are always there for each other, for crying on the shoulders when bad things happen and celebrate when good things happen. I have friends like that and I’m really lucky for having them
Everything starts with a myth. With a painting of three Goddesses. Who gave her hope when there wasn’t and helped her to move on.
I did a little research for the three Goddesses and I’ve found an interesting story. If you are curious, here’s the full story for Persephone, Demeter and Hekate. Just to mention, I borrowed it from Witchvox.com.
Some people compare this story to Eat, Pray and Love. I didn’t find that much similarity. But, I enjoyed both. You don’t have to seek the love across the world. First, you have to find the magic in yourself. Don’t worry, it has always been there.
September 16, 2013
This book is really, really good. It has elements of 'Eat, Pray, Love' by Elizabeth Gilbert (one of my favourites) and is all about Kate and what happened to her after her husband said 'I want a divorce'. I couldn't put it down and wanted more after I finished it.
Kate has a steady job and a long marriage. As far as she is concerned there's comfort in familiarity and she has become used to her life and how she is treated. Kate's husband Trevor is a man who likes control. After she spends years pandering to him, he decides to have an affair and announces he wants a divorce. Kate, who has lost herself and all her confidence during her marriage, is thrown into life alone. Some of her friends encourage her to try online dating, others say she should enjoy her freedom. Kate does both and embarks on a trip to South America in an attempt to find her inner goddess. Back home in Ireland she has some tough decisions to make as her personal and work life change dramatically but Kate has changed too and is no longer the woman Trevor left.
This is such a 'feel good' book and I loved the well researched mythological aspects. Following Kate's journey to South America was a joy and has made me even more determined to go there myself one day.
Mary Elizabeth Coen has nailed the writing and I can't fault it. The storyline flows and sweeps you up with its female solidarity. This is definitely one for the girls and is the perfect weekend read.
Kate has a steady job and a long marriage. As far as she is concerned there's comfort in familiarity and she has become used to her life and how she is treated. Kate's husband Trevor is a man who likes control. After she spends years pandering to him, he decides to have an affair and announces he wants a divorce. Kate, who has lost herself and all her confidence during her marriage, is thrown into life alone. Some of her friends encourage her to try online dating, others say she should enjoy her freedom. Kate does both and embarks on a trip to South America in an attempt to find her inner goddess. Back home in Ireland she has some tough decisions to make as her personal and work life change dramatically but Kate has changed too and is no longer the woman Trevor left.
This is such a 'feel good' book and I loved the well researched mythological aspects. Following Kate's journey to South America was a joy and has made me even more determined to go there myself one day.
Mary Elizabeth Coen has nailed the writing and I can't fault it. The storyline flows and sweeps you up with its female solidarity. This is definitely one for the girls and is the perfect weekend read.
July 25, 2016
This book could have easily moved into the realm of cliche, but didn't. A woman in her 40s -- married young, molded by her husband, then dumped for a newer model -- goes on a journey of self-discovery.
But Mary Elizabeth Coen transcends all stereotypes in Love & The Goddess, including those you'll find in Eat, Pray, Love. Because we're rooting for her character Kate Canavan all the way. Kate doesn't voluntarily leave her marriage and go on a quest (as Elizabeth Gilbert did) -- she's jettisoned into the terrifying unknown.
Luckily, she has two exceptional guides, her extroverted best friend Ella and James, the gay co-worker at her cookery school. Both are confident and creative, and help Kate nurture her artistic sensibilities. James coaxes Kate to South America, where she meets an intriguing shaman. Ella supports Kate in her grand experiment of dating online, where Kate adopts the personas of three iconic Greek goddesses -- Persephone, Demeter, and Hekate.
But the goddesses each have a lesson to impart -- and Kate doesn't always heed it. She learns the hard way. In the end, though, she revives that part of herself her marriage almost suffocated, listens to the goddess(es) within, and ... I'll leave the exact ending for you to enjoy.
Highly recommended, especially for women who love art, mythology, and the spiritual aspects of cuisine.
But Mary Elizabeth Coen transcends all stereotypes in Love & The Goddess, including those you'll find in Eat, Pray, Love. Because we're rooting for her character Kate Canavan all the way. Kate doesn't voluntarily leave her marriage and go on a quest (as Elizabeth Gilbert did) -- she's jettisoned into the terrifying unknown.
Luckily, she has two exceptional guides, her extroverted best friend Ella and James, the gay co-worker at her cookery school. Both are confident and creative, and help Kate nurture her artistic sensibilities. James coaxes Kate to South America, where she meets an intriguing shaman. Ella supports Kate in her grand experiment of dating online, where Kate adopts the personas of three iconic Greek goddesses -- Persephone, Demeter, and Hekate.
But the goddesses each have a lesson to impart -- and Kate doesn't always heed it. She learns the hard way. In the end, though, she revives that part of herself her marriage almost suffocated, listens to the goddess(es) within, and ... I'll leave the exact ending for you to enjoy.
Highly recommended, especially for women who love art, mythology, and the spiritual aspects of cuisine.
June 2, 2013
Kate Canavan’s life falls apart when her husband tells her that he wants a divorce. Kate’s friend, Ella, encourages her to give on-line dating a go but after a serious health scare, Kate decides to visit a spiritual healer in South America to turn her life around.
In my opinion this book has similarities to “Eat Pray Love”, a book that I thoroughly enjoyed and if I am honest I loved Love & the Goddess even more. I felt that there was a lot more content and storyline to Love & the Goddess than there was in Eat Pray Love.
Mary creates such an interesting journey for her main character Kate. Almost all of the time I felt as if I was a part of Kate. Although I didn’t fully agree or believe in the things the guru in Brazil does, I loved the spiritual base of the book.
I really enjoyed the way the online-dating fiasco was described. Some of these “dates” were hilariously described and set the perfect mood for the beginning of Kate’s self discovery.
The fact, that the author used different names of different goddesses to describe Kate’s journey to self-discovery added hugely to the storyline.
I loved, loved, loved this book. It is amazing and truly inspiring! I cannot wait for more of Mary’s books.
In my opinion this book has similarities to “Eat Pray Love”, a book that I thoroughly enjoyed and if I am honest I loved Love & the Goddess even more. I felt that there was a lot more content and storyline to Love & the Goddess than there was in Eat Pray Love.
Mary creates such an interesting journey for her main character Kate. Almost all of the time I felt as if I was a part of Kate. Although I didn’t fully agree or believe in the things the guru in Brazil does, I loved the spiritual base of the book.
I really enjoyed the way the online-dating fiasco was described. Some of these “dates” were hilariously described and set the perfect mood for the beginning of Kate’s self discovery.
The fact, that the author used different names of different goddesses to describe Kate’s journey to self-discovery added hugely to the storyline.
I loved, loved, loved this book. It is amazing and truly inspiring! I cannot wait for more of Mary’s books.
January 16, 2014
I'm giving this book 5 stars because the author accomplishes what she set out to do: she provides a funny, sparkling book, loaded with personality, and indeed this book lives up to the billing as an Eat, Pray, Love, meets Sex and the City type of novel.
Although there are serious episodes of reflection and considerable thoughtfulness, the general feeling is that this book is a delicious read! Everything seems delicious, not only the food, the local and exotic locations, the variety of characters that the protagonist, Kate, encounters, but also the fashions! The latter was most interesting to me.
The dialogue is witty and the conversations flow as one eavesdrops on special moments. Mary E. Coen manages to have the reader wrapped up in the details so there's always this good feeling about keeping on reading till the end. And then, the reader can write another sequence mentally...
I personally have an issue with something in the plot, so if it were available, I would give the book a 4 & a half star rating.
But overall it lives up to its promise of love and fun, and it's a treat to read, so 5 stars it is!
Although there are serious episodes of reflection and considerable thoughtfulness, the general feeling is that this book is a delicious read! Everything seems delicious, not only the food, the local and exotic locations, the variety of characters that the protagonist, Kate, encounters, but also the fashions! The latter was most interesting to me.
The dialogue is witty and the conversations flow as one eavesdrops on special moments. Mary E. Coen manages to have the reader wrapped up in the details so there's always this good feeling about keeping on reading till the end. And then, the reader can write another sequence mentally...
I personally have an issue with something in the plot, so if it were available, I would give the book a 4 & a half star rating.
But overall it lives up to its promise of love and fun, and it's a treat to read, so 5 stars it is!
January 21, 2014
This is a story about finding yourself. In essence it is a journey. There is humour and inspiration throughout the book. The author develops characters that are not only likeable, but easy to relate to. Kate Canavan, (the main character's) world is turned upside down - her husband leaves her after many years. Subsequently, she struggles to manage her feelings. Then follows an adventure. Trekking with a friend, Ella, Kate's thinking is challenged and she follows a new path in South America through spiritual healers and guidance. Basically this book is a lesson about life. If you take heed of the struggles you face as an individual - you will take away from this author that just about anything is possible, with a positive outlook. This really is a very brief summary of the plot because I don't want to tell the whole story like many reviewers often do - but in my opinion it is well worth a read, I really enjoyed it and would recommend 100%.
April 27, 2014
This is one of my favourite reads this year. In her mid-forties, Kate finds that her life is suddenly turned upside down when her marriage ends. She then agrees to accompany her friend on a trip to South America, and she meets healers and spiritual teachers. She ends up learning a lot about herself. Her love of Greek mythology leads her down an interesting route on her search for a new partner when her friend suggests that she try Internet dating.
It's an entertaining and fascinating read that has a sprinkling of magic between the pages.
The novel is full of interesting and realistic characters. It's fast paced, very well written, and packed with insightful observations about life. The book kept me interested all the way to the end and I'm looking forward to reading more from this talented author.
It's an entertaining and fascinating read that has a sprinkling of magic between the pages.
The novel is full of interesting and realistic characters. It's fast paced, very well written, and packed with insightful observations about life. The book kept me interested all the way to the end and I'm looking forward to reading more from this talented author.
September 7, 2013
This is a book that I would recommend to all my friends. It's one that shows a woman's journey through self awareness. It was a bit like Eat Pray Love which is a book that I love. Love and the Goddess was chalk full of great characters and an amazing plot. But I would have liked to see a bit more of Kate's feelings and emotions as she went through each thing. I really connected with the characters though so it didn't take too much away from the plot. As I read thought this book I felt like I was there watching Kate go through the story, like watching a movie.
Mary's writing flowed and the way her descriptions are in this book really draws you into the storyline. I would diffidently recommend book lovers to read this one!
Mary's writing flowed and the way her descriptions are in this book really draws you into the storyline. I would diffidently recommend book lovers to read this one!
September 20, 2013
What a way to spend the week! From the very beginning to the end was a roller-coaster ride! While trying to please everyone, especially her husband who is OCD to the max, character Kate Canavan's life goes topsy tervy in every way possible.
Well she pick herself up and start all over, well she stay where she is and hit things head on. Or does she move ahead and follow the advice of her dear friends. My heart ached for her and I was pulling for Kate from the beginning to the end.
Author Mary Elizabeth Coen has hit it out of the ball park on her first book. I want her next book now. Her style of writing is epic. One minute you are yelling the next your crying, then throwing the book at who ever is near you just because they are the only ones in your site.
Well she pick herself up and start all over, well she stay where she is and hit things head on. Or does she move ahead and follow the advice of her dear friends. My heart ached for her and I was pulling for Kate from the beginning to the end.
Author Mary Elizabeth Coen has hit it out of the ball park on her first book. I want her next book now. Her style of writing is epic. One minute you are yelling the next your crying, then throwing the book at who ever is near you just because they are the only ones in your site.
October 27, 2013
What a powerful book of a middle-age woman, Kate, learning about self enlightenment, becoming one with herself, letting go of the past which held many painful life events, and last but not least finding spiritual awareness so she could start living each day in the present and forging a new and better life for herself. Kate's journey was quite a remarkable one in this book. The spirituality that came through reading this book and the inner peace you find upon further reflection of some of the pivotal moments that occurred are quite remarkable. I thoroughly enjoyed this book and the spiritual journey it held.
January 11, 2014
I came across this book via a friend's recommendation on Facebook. The title drew me into buying it as I am a pagan and love anything to do with Goddess and myths.
The story is well written, and even though it's written from a woman's perspective, I think that men can find much to relate to.
I think we are all looking for love, have endured the pitfalls and perils of Internet dating and have found spiritual quests to be empowering and enlightening.
This novel explores all these things with great empathy and humour.
If someone is looking for something to read then I would recommend this book without hesitation.
The story is well written, and even though it's written from a woman's perspective, I think that men can find much to relate to.
I think we are all looking for love, have endured the pitfalls and perils of Internet dating and have found spiritual quests to be empowering and enlightening.
This novel explores all these things with great empathy and humour.
If someone is looking for something to read then I would recommend this book without hesitation.
February 3, 2014
The story had promise but failed for me for a few reasons one was because of the editing which, whole not awful made me rather impatient for the story which brings me to the next part, the story at times dragged. I wanted to shake Kate when she would say one thing and then do the opposite and while I know getting completely in touch with your spiritual side takes time I didn't want it to take that much of my time. For me the best part of the book came from the food, sights and smells that Kate encountered - at that Ms. Coen excels and it was in those moments that I felt the story move in a positive direction.
September 5, 2013
OH MY GOODNESS!! I dove head first into this book and did not want to come up for air. This book grabbed my attention and held it all the way through. And my emotions went all over the place... No I Am Not Kidding!!
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January 7, 2014Love and the Goddess was quite a fun book and every time I picked it up I read more than I planned because I found it such a quick easy read that kept my interest. From pretty much halfway through the book I was convinced I knew how it would end but I was wrong and when it came the ending surprised me. All in all an enjoyable read.
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August 9, 2016
I was delighted to have read this excellent book after a recommendation from a friend. Love & the Goddess has a real substance and passion about it, i found the central character Kate quite an amazing person and found myself willing her on through her various trials & tribulations.
In summary i think that this is a first class debut novel which is beautifully written, i eagerly look forward to future works from Mary Coen.
In summary i think that this is a first class debut novel which is beautifully written, i eagerly look forward to future works from Mary Coen.
October 26, 2013
I enjoyed this book, even though it was different from what I normally read. I decided to step outside the box and take a chance with this book, and I was pleasantly surprised. Healers and shamans would have turned me off, but I'm happy I kept an open mind, this book didn't disappoint. It was a cleverly well written story of self discovery that can teach us all something along the way!
February 7, 2014
Don't even bother! This was the most drawn out book I ever read in my life. It could have been a good book if the author hadn't drawn the storyline out so much. It was extremely boring and by halfway through I was over it. I literally had to force myself to finish and I wasn't impressed with the outcome. Two thumbs down!
November 15, 2013
Different than I expected, and not as good as I had hoped. Too much introspection and wishy-washy main character.
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December 4, 2013A fun, quick read about betrayal, self discovery, enlightenment and internet dating lol, worth a read
June 9, 2013
Book Info
Paperback, 390 pages
Published February 6th 2013 by GoddessMECA
ISBN 9781909483
edition language English
original title Love & the Goddess
Source:Book from author in exchange for honest review
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One woman, one myth, three goddesses
When Cookery teacher Kate Canavan’s perfect life falls apart she moves to nearby Galway City.
Her friend James urges her to love and nurture herself, but mischievous Ella persuades her to dust off her unused dating skills. So Kate explores the world of on-line dating using the name of a Greek Goddess. In the midst of a mad dating frenzy, Kate has a traumatic health scare which convinces her to drop everything and go in search of a guru.
First stop a famous healer's ashram in Brazil followed by a shamanic journey through Peru, where a shaman tells her how to harness the energy of the Goddess and the Divine Feminine. Kate’s journey of self discovery continues apace after she returns home and events unfold in a surprising manner, as she learns to think for herself.
As someone whose love of mythology is only surpassed by my love of a good recipe this book manages to engage both my mind and gastronomic tastes quite well. The character of Kate Canavan embodies in a way many women as she shows both their frailty and their strength in her actions and reactions throughout the book.
There is nothing quite like the mixture of realism and fantasy that author Mary Elizabeth Coen has so craftily combined to keep her reader's attention while allowing them to experience Kate's highs and lows as she learns to cope day by day with her newfound life. After being married for over 20 years that new life does not start off on a high note when her older husband decides that they no longer belong together as he has fallen in love with someone else.
Kate is of course devastated, married at 22 then at 44 to find out the man she has built her life with, catered to every whim of, borne children with, turned herself into the kind of woman he demanded she become and then all these years later after all the time energy and effort she has put into it her marriage is just over.
A person would think that a story revolving around the divorce of one 44 year old Irish woman would not really be a fun type of read, in this instance though the gentle humor mixed with mystical wisdom and general common sense approach to handling a life changing event make it very easy and fun for the reader.
What I liked most about Kate's character is the fact that she allows herself to be human, she has moments of self pity, she has thoughts of why me, she worries that what has happened between she and her husband will forever taint their daughter's feelings toward them but the best thing is that even with all that Kate never stops moving forward as she heals one day at a time.
Kate enters the online dating world soon after she and her husband's split, the first persona that she uses is that of Persephone as she is still very much in a vulnerable state of mind. The results that she gets are mixed and eye opening for a woman who has only ever been involved with one man in her life, her former husband.
Time goes on and Kate actually becomes quite obsessed with the online dating world, finding it both daunting and enticing at the same time, ultimately to come to her senses after starting a relationship with one of the men she finally hooks up with. Kate then has a bad health scare which leads her on the first of her journeys on the way to self healing and self enlightenment.
The author does not try to convert her reader to a belief in holistic medicine nor does she try to make light of just how hard Kate's personal journey really is, from divorce to a health scare to worry over her elderly father to mishaps while trying to find a relationship with a man she can feel herself with it all boils down to being able to finally come to grips with what Kate herself feels comfortable and happy with. That is something all of us struggle with and something that we very seldom ever totally manage in our own lives and reading along as Kate finds her way at the age of 45 is both a revelation as well as a chance to reexamine what is really necessary or important when it comes to personal validation.
The book Love & The Goddess is a tale about one woman's path to starting over, it is full of the emotional upheaval one feels when a life you love is changed in ways you never dreamed, it is a testimony to human courage, it is also a story that will shake the boundaries of what some of us believe about spiritual healing and the power of faith but most of all it is a story that we can all in some way identify with whether we are male or female because at some time in our lives we too face adversity and how we meet our trials with either determination or despair is only a small part of all that Kate's character went through. It was a true pleasure to watch how Kate persevered and triumphed at the end, finding not only her sense of self worth returned but a new beginning to a new and better life as well!
Thought provoking, humorous and totally engaging characters and stories meshed together.
Paperback, 390 pages
Published February 6th 2013 by GoddessMECA
ISBN 9781909483
edition language English
original title Love & the Goddess
Source:Book from author in exchange for honest review
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BOOK SYNOPSIS
One woman, one myth, three goddesses
When Cookery teacher Kate Canavan’s perfect life falls apart she moves to nearby Galway City.
Her friend James urges her to love and nurture herself, but mischievous Ella persuades her to dust off her unused dating skills. So Kate explores the world of on-line dating using the name of a Greek Goddess. In the midst of a mad dating frenzy, Kate has a traumatic health scare which convinces her to drop everything and go in search of a guru.
First stop a famous healer's ashram in Brazil followed by a shamanic journey through Peru, where a shaman tells her how to harness the energy of the Goddess and the Divine Feminine. Kate’s journey of self discovery continues apace after she returns home and events unfold in a surprising manner, as she learns to think for herself.
My Thoughts
As someone whose love of mythology is only surpassed by my love of a good recipe this book manages to engage both my mind and gastronomic tastes quite well. The character of Kate Canavan embodies in a way many women as she shows both their frailty and their strength in her actions and reactions throughout the book.
There is nothing quite like the mixture of realism and fantasy that author Mary Elizabeth Coen has so craftily combined to keep her reader's attention while allowing them to experience Kate's highs and lows as she learns to cope day by day with her newfound life. After being married for over 20 years that new life does not start off on a high note when her older husband decides that they no longer belong together as he has fallen in love with someone else.
Kate is of course devastated, married at 22 then at 44 to find out the man she has built her life with, catered to every whim of, borne children with, turned herself into the kind of woman he demanded she become and then all these years later after all the time energy and effort she has put into it her marriage is just over.
A person would think that a story revolving around the divorce of one 44 year old Irish woman would not really be a fun type of read, in this instance though the gentle humor mixed with mystical wisdom and general common sense approach to handling a life changing event make it very easy and fun for the reader.
What I liked most about Kate's character is the fact that she allows herself to be human, she has moments of self pity, she has thoughts of why me, she worries that what has happened between she and her husband will forever taint their daughter's feelings toward them but the best thing is that even with all that Kate never stops moving forward as she heals one day at a time.
Kate enters the online dating world soon after she and her husband's split, the first persona that she uses is that of Persephone as she is still very much in a vulnerable state of mind. The results that she gets are mixed and eye opening for a woman who has only ever been involved with one man in her life, her former husband.
Time goes on and Kate actually becomes quite obsessed with the online dating world, finding it both daunting and enticing at the same time, ultimately to come to her senses after starting a relationship with one of the men she finally hooks up with. Kate then has a bad health scare which leads her on the first of her journeys on the way to self healing and self enlightenment.
The author does not try to convert her reader to a belief in holistic medicine nor does she try to make light of just how hard Kate's personal journey really is, from divorce to a health scare to worry over her elderly father to mishaps while trying to find a relationship with a man she can feel herself with it all boils down to being able to finally come to grips with what Kate herself feels comfortable and happy with. That is something all of us struggle with and something that we very seldom ever totally manage in our own lives and reading along as Kate finds her way at the age of 45 is both a revelation as well as a chance to reexamine what is really necessary or important when it comes to personal validation.
The book Love & The Goddess is a tale about one woman's path to starting over, it is full of the emotional upheaval one feels when a life you love is changed in ways you never dreamed, it is a testimony to human courage, it is also a story that will shake the boundaries of what some of us believe about spiritual healing and the power of faith but most of all it is a story that we can all in some way identify with whether we are male or female because at some time in our lives we too face adversity and how we meet our trials with either determination or despair is only a small part of all that Kate's character went through. It was a true pleasure to watch how Kate persevered and triumphed at the end, finding not only her sense of self worth returned but a new beginning to a new and better life as well!
Thought provoking, humorous and totally engaging characters and stories meshed together.
[copy from author in exchange for honest review]
December 18, 2017
Good book
You people should just read this book yourselves and write your own review on this novel yourself and I really enjoyed reading this book very much so. Shelley MA
You people should just read this book yourselves and write your own review on this novel yourself and I really enjoyed reading this book very much so. Shelley MA
July 26, 2019
Great reminder of living well.
Very fulfilling read. I'll read it again. This book came to me at the right time in my life. Please give it a read.
Very fulfilling read. I'll read it again. This book came to me at the right time in my life. Please give it a read.
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