If Men Are Like Buses, Then How Do I Catch One?: When You're Standing Between Hope and Happily Ever After

by Michelle McKinney Hammond

Readers have asked for more from Chicago talk show cohost Michelle McKinney Hammond -- especially women from her huge following of Christian singles. Buses will pick them up where two previous bestsellers left off, with counsel that is both enjoyable and instructional. "The mood of the book is conversational, scriptural, with a touch of humor," Michelle says. "It's the kind of book I wanted, but couldn't find, so I had to write it!" Singles have been waiting too long to be caught up by human love. When they halt their pursuit and let God's love catch their hearts, they'll be on board for the greatest discovery of all -- His true purpose for them.

Genres: Relationships, Nonfiction

192 pages, Paperback

First published March 14, 2000

About the author

From her official website:

As a bestselling author, speaker, singer and television co-host, Michelle has authored over 30 books (selling over one million copies worldwide), including best-selling titles The Diva Principle, Sassy, Single and Satisfied, 101 Ways to Get and Keep His Attention, and Secrets of an Irresistible Woman. A gifted vocalist, Michelle has recorded two CD’s, It’s Amazing and Let’s Go In and co-hosted the Emmy Award-winning television talk show Aspiring Women.

She has appeared on countless television shows including Bill Maher’s Politically Incorrect, E Channel’s “Soap Talk,” NBC’s The Other Half, The 700 Club, and BET’s Oh Drama! as well as a regular relationship segment on WGN Morning News. She has graced the cover of magazines such as Today’s Christian Woman Precious Times, The Plain Truth and Gospel Today. She has been a contributing writer for Spirit Led Woman, Discipleship Journal and has been featured in articles in Shine, Essence, Ebony, Jet, Black Enterprise Magazine, The Chicago Tribune, The Associated Press and The New York Times.

Following several successful years in an award-winning advertising career as an art director/writer/producer (her clients included Coca-Cola USA, McDonald’s, Procter and Gamble, GMC and Ford Motor Company), Michelle suffered a devastating leg injury after being hit by a car. For her the accident was a spiritual turning point, a wake up call to embrace her purpose and fulfill her destiny. These bedridden months gave birth to her first bestseller, “What to Do Until Love Finds You.” Since then Michelle has emerged as a highly-respected author, speaker and singer, reaching a diverse audience nationally and internationally. Crossing denominational lines, addressing secular audiences, as well as addressing men and women from every walk of life, Michelle is known for “keeping it real.” She addresses real-life issues with candor and wit, and the hard questions with sensitivity and empathy. This merits her reputation as a relationship and life empowerment coach, crossing the great divide and sharing keys that lead to reconciliation between the sexes.

Michelle’s underlying message is “get yourself in spiritual order and your natural life will come together.” Her passion is to give relevant and workable solutions to people’s questions based in timeless spiritual truths. Sharing solid, effective principles that will help her audience to navigate through the journey of life and reach the ultimate destination of living and loving to their fullest potential.

Reviews

[Christy · Rating 5 out of 5]

I don't know if there's a greater book that connects a woman's relationship first to God, then to men. It's all about fulfilling your true love first in order to find your mortal love. The great thing about reading this book: a friend in my Bible group told us gals about it and shortly after finishing the book, she was dating a great guy who she is now married too. So I bought the book believing on some level that it would bring me a great guy immediately. Unfortunately not immediately, but less than a year later, I met the man of my life who knew immediately he loved me, and we're married today. On some level, I still believe the book helped me out :)

[Jessica · Rating 5 out of 5]

This books is very inspirational for women who find themselves in the season of singleness. It reminds them of who their one and only true love is, Jesus Christ. This book will make you laugh, cry, and seriously think about the choices you have made in the past in regards to me. Not only will it make you think about the things you need to change, but it will draw you closer to the one and only man who will never leave you, break your heart, judge you, or not have time for you. This is a must read for all women seeking to find true inner peace in this season.

[Reader007]

Read it a long time ago.
Michelle is humorous, godly and realistic.
You will enjoy her books.

[Amy Taylor · Rating 4 out of 5]

I enjoyed this as an audiobook. Great reminder not just for singles but anyone in a relationship. What I loved most about the book besides scripture references is the author used biblical stories in detail to use as comparison to related her view points.
I personally have gone to re-read the book of Judges and really study the relationship of God vs Samson vs Delilah

I think it would be a great book read for a ladies group discussion.

Favorite line in the book: Sometimes the thing you think you will die without is the very thing that will kill you.

[Lucy · Rating 3 out of 5]

Nice story, funny characters, but super weird ending. I really don't like the huge lack of communication which causes problems, and how the main character is treated.
The end is for me no happy ending but a stupid one were everything in a personal development of the main character is tossed into the bin for a guy.

[Crystal Lewis · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book is hilarious! I thank Michelle for her transparency in writing this book. It really helped me to learn to enjoy the single season.

[Dawn Wise · Rating 4 out of 5]

This helps the single focus more on who they are than what they want in the other person. Good read.

[Ruth · Rating 5 out of 5]

I enjoyed reading this book immensely. I have learned so much about my relationship God and how he is my first Husband. :)

[Jaymee · Rating 5 out of 5]

Michelle goes directly to point. It's like listening to an old friend, or a very close aunt, maybe even one's mom ~ this book is definitely speaks to a woman's heart.

[Bear · Rating 2 out of 5]

Oy vay.

[Lashonta · Rating 4 out of 5]

I was surprised this book actually had a sense of humor considering it was a christian book! I really enjoyed it

[Jenni · Rating 5 out of 5]

It's make me realized how powerful when you single.. GOD really bless you a lot when you have single.. Just enjoy having relationship with GoD..

[Ebony · Rating 3 out of 5]

The title of this book is what caught my attention. I enjoyed reading it.

[Jennifer · Rating 5 out of 5]

Hilariously funny. Love this book.

[Dania · Rating 4 out of 5]

Great book that gives some great insight!

[Sheila · Rating 4 out of 5]

A delightful read full of noteworthy insights and solid biblical backing.