Gavin McLeod was born Allan George See on Feb. 28, 1931. He was raised in Pleasantville, 30 miles north of New York City. He has a younger brother, Ronnie. Their father co-owned a gas station. During the hard times of the depression, Gavin went around town with his dad to collect money from people who hadn’t paid for gas during the week.
Gavin was overweight as a kid and earned the nickname “Tubber.” His brother was also overweight and received the nickname “Tubber2.”
Gavin’s mother raised him and his brother in the Catholic faith. Their father attended the Episcopalian Church.
When Gavin was four, he acted in a pre-school play. The first time he heard applause, he was hooked.
In high school, Gavin played football for a short time. “One day the coach told two of us kids to really take down the other team’s quarterback. So we did—and we broke the kid’s leg. I didn’t like that. I didn’t like it one bit. I was really upset and I said I wanted to quit, and a lady who was there on the sidelines said, ‘Hey, Allan, why don’t you join the school play instead. They need another boy.’ I jumped at the chance.”
Alcoholism played a large part in Gavin’s family, affecting his father, his mother’s father, and his father’s father. Then, when Gavin was 13, his father died of cancer.
As a senior in high school, Gavin earned a scholarship to Ithaca College to study drama. He went for a couple of years, quit to put an act together, and tried to make it in show biz, but couldn’t find work. He went back to school and graduated. He moved to NYC where a friend got him a job at Radio City Music Hall.
Money was very tight, but Gavin did have some exciting moments. Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz rode the elevator he was operating one day. He couldn’t believe he was in the company of such stars!
Gavin’s problem in NYC was that he couldn’t get an agent because he had gone bald after college and in NYC there wasn’t much call for young bald actors. Eventually Gavin got a $600 hairpiece for $125. After that he got work. He also attracted the attention of one of the Rockettes whom he eventually married.
Hollywood was the next step. Gavin got an agent quickly and worked right away. His ability to play bald or with the hairpiece was an asset because he could play two different character types. He and his wife moved from NY to Hollywood in 1957. By the 1960’s Gavin had become a drinker, which adversely affected his marriage. He and his wife had two daughters, one in 1964 and another in 1965. He auditioned for the part of Archie Bunker but he didn’t like the character or script and was glad the part went to Carroll O’Connor.
From 1970-1977 Gavin played Murray Slaughter on the Mary Tyler Moore Show. Ted Knight (aka Ted Baxter) was an old friend whom Gavin was pleased to act with on the show. In 1973 Gavin divorced his first wife and in 1974 he married Patti Steele who was also divorced and in show business. Gavin quit drinking. He and Patti explored New Age Spirituality.
After the Mary Tyler Moore Show, Gavin was cast in the part of Captain on The Love Boat. Gavin preferred live theater. Aaron spelling shot around Gavin’s theater schedule so he could do both the series TV show and plays. In the summer of 1981 his marriage to Patti began to fall apart. Gavin was working all the time. After their divorce Gavin didn’t call Patti for three years.
In September 1984, Gavin’s mother had a cyst in her brain. Gavin realized his non-stop work and his New Age Spirituality couldn’t put him in control of her health problem. He prayed for the first time in many years. “Jesus, if you give my mother more time, I’ll turn my life over to you. I don’t care if I act anymore. Just give my mother more time.” His mother survived the surgery and Gavin gradually became a devoted Christian.
Soon after that prayer, Gavin visited Patti. She said she had been “born again,” and explained what it meant.
“At the age of 52, I was starting over—with Patti at my side—determined to make the most of every bit of this gift I had been given.”
Gavin and Patti remarried in June 1985.
In Spring 1986 Love Boat finished its last show. Shortly after, Gavin became spokesperson for Princess Cruises.
Gavin and Patti became hosts on Trinity Broadcast Network of a show called “Back on Course.” It was an interview show about couples and individuals who had overcome extraordinary troubles in life with the help of Jesus. They did the show for 17 years.
Afterward, Gavin continued doing plays and being spokesperson for Princess Cruises. Then he got a part in a Christian film released in 2002 called Time Changer. In 2008, he was asked to do another Christian film by the same director – The Secrets of Jonathan Sperry. The film was very moving and had given Gavin a role with real purpose – Ambassador for Christ. He soon gave up doing guest roles on TV shows. He was 80 years old. Now, in 2018, he is 87 years old. The last public appearance noted on Wikipedia was the 2015 Rose Parade where he appeared with several members of the Love Boat cast.
The story of Gavin McLeod differs from many biographies of Hollywood stars in that it never disappoints. Through Gavin’s ups and downs, his mistakes and his redemption, the story uplifts the reader and brings a new understanding of the man many only know as Captain of the Love Boat.