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Pink Lips & Empty Hearts
An invitation for every woman who’s ever felt like she isn’t good enough, pretty enough, saved enough, content enough or doing enough.
Like millions of women, Heather Lindsey wanted to have it all together. But as life continued to go on, she found herself searching to fill her insecurities with temporary voids and ended up broken, rejected, exhausted and frustrated. Desperate to let God change her from the inside out—she shares her story, struggles and triumphs as she went from having Pink Lips & an Empty Heart to having Pink Lips and a Heart that is completely surrendered to God.
In a society where women are encouraged to portray a certain self-image, Heather challenges women in saying that it is not enough to just get dressed up and portray a “perfect appearance” when deep down, you’re empty. As a result, we try hide who we really are from everyone, including God.
Join Heather Lindsey as she offers witty, fresh advice that you would expect from your best friend over dinner. Compassionate and practical, Pink Lips & An Empty Heart is a step-by-step guide that teaches women how to:
• Be content whether they are single or married
• How to develop a deep, intimate relationship with Christ
• Resist the desire to compare your life to others
• Prioritize their day to day life busy schedule
• Develop in the gifts that God placed inside of you
• BONUS: Practical tips on hair, beauty and other money saving resources
Like millions of women, Heather Lindsey wanted to have it all together. But as life continued to go on, she found herself searching to fill her insecurities with temporary voids and ended up broken, rejected, exhausted and frustrated. Desperate to let God change her from the inside out—she shares her story, struggles and triumphs as she went from having Pink Lips & an Empty Heart to having Pink Lips and a Heart that is completely surrendered to God.
In a society where women are encouraged to portray a certain self-image, Heather challenges women in saying that it is not enough to just get dressed up and portray a “perfect appearance” when deep down, you’re empty. As a result, we try hide who we really are from everyone, including God.
Join Heather Lindsey as she offers witty, fresh advice that you would expect from your best friend over dinner. Compassionate and practical, Pink Lips & An Empty Heart is a step-by-step guide that teaches women how to:
• Be content whether they are single or married
• How to develop a deep, intimate relationship with Christ
• Resist the desire to compare your life to others
• Prioritize their day to day life busy schedule
• Develop in the gifts that God placed inside of you
• BONUS: Practical tips on hair, beauty and other money saving resources
212 pages, Kindle Edition
First published December 28, 2012
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December 24, 2016
I read this book twice as not to be biased based on other people's reviews. It's hard to share an honest review of this book without facing some form of backlash because her followers practically worship Mrs. Lindsey. But I've never been one to fear the opinion of humans, so here it goes.
Her “All in One” book is code for “All over the place”. This book had no central thought whatsoever. It was almost as if she tried to fit every lesson that she’s learned since becoming a Christian into one book just to fill up the pages. And while some of the information was useful and practical, the delivery was not befitting of a woman her age. It was very immature in tone—it sort of reminded me of the ramblings of Lindsey Isham in her “No Sex in the City” book.
There was a major disconnect between the title and the actual content of the book. The chapters worked independently of each other to tell their own story that had nothing to do with the title or the other chapters. Each chapter was its own blog post, and they were all over the place. At the beginning we were talking about Christ, by the end we were discussing hair and flea market finds.
The author makes blanket statements (statements meant to speak for and cover everyone) and creates bizarre scenarios—inspired by her past—meant to warn the reader of what’s going to happen to them…because it happened to her.
That’s so off base.
Her viewpoints and scenarios were more than bizarre, some of them were comical to the point of out loud laughter.
My favorite part of this book was the single mother’s piece that her friend shared. That was an unexpected, sweet touch to the book.
I did not give this book a rating of one because even with all things considered, it helped somebody, just not me. But more than that, I do believe that the author’s intentions are to draw others to Christ…and that’s what important.
I would not read this book again, but I believe that younger women who can find themselves in the author’s story can benefit from it.
Her “All in One” book is code for “All over the place”. This book had no central thought whatsoever. It was almost as if she tried to fit every lesson that she’s learned since becoming a Christian into one book just to fill up the pages. And while some of the information was useful and practical, the delivery was not befitting of a woman her age. It was very immature in tone—it sort of reminded me of the ramblings of Lindsey Isham in her “No Sex in the City” book.
There was a major disconnect between the title and the actual content of the book. The chapters worked independently of each other to tell their own story that had nothing to do with the title or the other chapters. Each chapter was its own blog post, and they were all over the place. At the beginning we were talking about Christ, by the end we were discussing hair and flea market finds.
The author makes blanket statements (statements meant to speak for and cover everyone) and creates bizarre scenarios—inspired by her past—meant to warn the reader of what’s going to happen to them…because it happened to her.
That’s so off base.
Her viewpoints and scenarios were more than bizarre, some of them were comical to the point of out loud laughter.
My favorite part of this book was the single mother’s piece that her friend shared. That was an unexpected, sweet touch to the book.
I did not give this book a rating of one because even with all things considered, it helped somebody, just not me. But more than that, I do believe that the author’s intentions are to draw others to Christ…and that’s what important.
I would not read this book again, but I believe that younger women who can find themselves in the author’s story can benefit from it.
January 15, 2013
I highly reccomend this book for single christian ladies or recently married. There are things in common with Heather's blog/devotions but the book is worth purchasing. Heather writes like a friend is having a conversation with you and it makes it easy for the pages to keep turning. As a single lady waiting on her "Adam," I loved how honest she was about the trials and struggles of marriage. Marriage isn't a fairytale! The preperation that God is doing NOW in your life can only benefit you later on. I know that I will reread this book because it greatly encouraged me. Worth the read, I "pinky promise!" :)
June 29, 2019
So, I did not really like this book. First of all I don't know if I got a weird version or something but the errors in grammar, syntax, logical flow, and so much more were actually crazy. I'm not sure if anyone proofread this book, and I seriously mean that. The author doesn't even know that you "don't quote like this", but "like this."
I bought this book as a newly-single Christian woman, and unfortunately, there seemed to only be a few nuggets of good advice interspersed throughout a big letter to a girl friend. It really seemed like the whole book could have been a conversation between the author and the reader, which isn't necessarily a bad thing, when done eloquently and logically. However, the author did not organize her thoughts or the flow of the book very well, and the book was overall not very polished off. For those reasons alone, I would not recommend this book to someone. Try reading "Kingdom Single" instead (and that one is written by a man!)
Lastly I did not agree with some of her interpretations of the Word or thoughts on Christianity. My biggest issue is that she reiterated several times that if you still commit sin or aren't haven't fully changed your ways (ways being old, sinful nature), then you are not saved. To me this is completely ridiculous and insulting to new believers, or even prospective believers. There are certainly Christians who are saved but not set free, but I do not believe you can take away someone's salvation because they haven't fully changed their ways and overcome their old troubles/habits. It's in the Word that if you confess with your mouth and believe with your heart that Jesus Christ is your Lord and Savior, then you are Saved. So for her to continue to state that you aren't actually saved and may be worshipping the devil if you aren't set free is just really insane and to me, does not line up with what the Word says it. It makes it sound like you have to be a near-perfect Christian in order to be Saved, which is exactly why people hate Christians and organized religion. With this and other things included, I honestly felt like she was coming from a very negative and judgmental place towards her audience. Just because your audience is single Christian women doesn't mean you need to talk to them like all they do is sin and make bad decisions. Ugh.
I bought this book as a newly-single Christian woman, and unfortunately, there seemed to only be a few nuggets of good advice interspersed throughout a big letter to a girl friend. It really seemed like the whole book could have been a conversation between the author and the reader, which isn't necessarily a bad thing, when done eloquently and logically. However, the author did not organize her thoughts or the flow of the book very well, and the book was overall not very polished off. For those reasons alone, I would not recommend this book to someone. Try reading "Kingdom Single" instead (and that one is written by a man!)
Lastly I did not agree with some of her interpretations of the Word or thoughts on Christianity. My biggest issue is that she reiterated several times that if you still commit sin or aren't haven't fully changed your ways (ways being old, sinful nature), then you are not saved. To me this is completely ridiculous and insulting to new believers, or even prospective believers. There are certainly Christians who are saved but not set free, but I do not believe you can take away someone's salvation because they haven't fully changed their ways and overcome their old troubles/habits. It's in the Word that if you confess with your mouth and believe with your heart that Jesus Christ is your Lord and Savior, then you are Saved. So for her to continue to state that you aren't actually saved and may be worshipping the devil if you aren't set free is just really insane and to me, does not line up with what the Word says it. It makes it sound like you have to be a near-perfect Christian in order to be Saved, which is exactly why people hate Christians and organized religion. With this and other things included, I honestly felt like she was coming from a very negative and judgmental place towards her audience. Just because your audience is single Christian women doesn't mean you need to talk to them like all they do is sin and make bad decisions. Ugh.
February 22, 2019
Here's who this book is not for: someone who kinda has their love/single life down pack, just looking for little tidbits to help along their walk with Christ/improving their life, and/or already follow Heather Lindsey pretty heavily.
Yes, she does jumps topics but, that's what I like about. To me I was reading it the same way as when I conversing with a friend. We're all over the place but in between those jumps are getting some good food to chew on. I'm a single so those particular chapters really spoke to me.
I don't follow her too much on everything so to me when nothing sounded like a repeated version of her blog, youtube, instagram, etc. And yes, there are some grammatical errors BUT it was her first book you guys. At the time I don't think she had the money to get on with a well known publishing company and editor. I'm not a writer but, I remember writing a few papers, thesis in college and I'll be honest after page 17 things started to run together. lol
Did I agree with every single thing she said in the book? No but, overall I think it's a good read and I don't think you can't walk away from it without taking a gem or two.
Yes, she does jumps topics but, that's what I like about. To me I was reading it the same way as when I conversing with a friend. We're all over the place but in between those jumps are getting some good food to chew on. I'm a single so those particular chapters really spoke to me.
I don't follow her too much on everything so to me when nothing sounded like a repeated version of her blog, youtube, instagram, etc. And yes, there are some grammatical errors BUT it was her first book you guys. At the time I don't think she had the money to get on with a well known publishing company and editor. I'm not a writer but, I remember writing a few papers, thesis in college and I'll be honest after page 17 things started to run together. lol
Did I agree with every single thing she said in the book? No but, overall I think it's a good read and I don't think you can't walk away from it without taking a gem or two.
December 16, 2018
Purchase this book! Excellent Read!
Heather you hit it out the park with this one! This book is enlightening, inspiring and and straight to the point. I like the get all up in your face and bring it to you with no holds barred. This book will make you drop little Johnny and stop chasing things and get more focused on God and his timing. Excellent Read! Heather keep inspiring women to be led by the spirit and not the flesh because the the flesh will fail us every time. God bless you and your "little family." Peace and Grace!
Heather you hit it out the park with this one! This book is enlightening, inspiring and and straight to the point. I like the get all up in your face and bring it to you with no holds barred. This book will make you drop little Johnny and stop chasing things and get more focused on God and his timing. Excellent Read! Heather keep inspiring women to be led by the spirit and not the flesh because the the flesh will fail us every time. God bless you and your "little family." Peace and Grace!
June 6, 2013
This is hands down now my favorite book!! This book gave real life advice for young women trying to live a holy life for Christ. I suggest mothers buy this book for daughter and friends who have read this share the book with their friends. Heather Lindsay also has a text program if you text PINKYPROMISE TO 84464 and then text BEDCHECK to the same number you will receive inspirational messages daily. Such a blessing.
August 26, 2020
This is the first book that I have read by Heather Lindsey and I found it very enjoyable. Heather tells it like it is, and always refers back to the word of God with any point that she is making. I appreciate that she speaks on everyday life and modern day applications of the Living Word. I would recommend this book to both married and single women. Additionally, I like the fact that it is not only about dating and marriage relationships. She talks about the importance of friendships, being planted where you are, being content with who you are and growing and developing as an individual in Christ. Not all points are always easy to accept in our generation, but it is a perspective that is important to be open to. I like how she understands the fact that before you can relate well to other people, you need to relate well to God and yourself. This was well written and an easy read.
December 30, 2019
Get Yourself Together!
Ever since my pastors and their daughter had a special service for single ladies in November, God has been uploading in me specific instructions to work on to develop a better me in this new season of my life. This book "stepped on toes" and challenged me to be more intentional about my relationship with God. The content of this book is Word-based and Pastor Heather repeatedly reminds us of the Divine and proper alignment that's supposed to be represented in our families--God 》Christ》Husband 》Wife. Her advice is raw but presented in love!
Ever since my pastors and their daughter had a special service for single ladies in November, God has been uploading in me specific instructions to work on to develop a better me in this new season of my life. This book "stepped on toes" and challenged me to be more intentional about my relationship with God. The content of this book is Word-based and Pastor Heather repeatedly reminds us of the Divine and proper alignment that's supposed to be represented in our families--God 》Christ》Husband 》Wife. Her advice is raw but presented in love!
October 17, 2019
Decent
I am a big fan of Heather, but have found that her books are poorly written. I know she is very proud of the fact that she is self published but as an avid reader I was distracted by poor punctuation and run on sentences.
The message was very clear and relatable but since I’m a very big fan of hers it all sounded like things I’ve heard her say before. If this is your first time reading any of her products it’s a good place to start.
I am a big fan of Heather, but have found that her books are poorly written. I know she is very proud of the fact that she is self published but as an avid reader I was distracted by poor punctuation and run on sentences.
The message was very clear and relatable but since I’m a very big fan of hers it all sounded like things I’ve heard her say before. If this is your first time reading any of her products it’s a good place to start.
March 17, 2020
This book is a good read, and I’d recommend it for singles. I’m married so a lot of the information in this book was common knowledge for me, but it did shed some light on some things and made me question some things that I have been doing. Been reading this book with a book club, and I finished it. There were times I didn’t want to read any more because like I said before common knowledge and sometimes it was a little extreme in some examples given.
July 30, 2018
I learnt a lot!
She isn't afraid to lay God's truth on the table without sugar coating it to make us "feel more comfortable" for whatever we may be doing that we shouldn't. I wish I read this hook a year earlier. But again, every in God's timing. Thank you for listening to God and allowing Him to show His grace through your writing.
She isn't afraid to lay God's truth on the table without sugar coating it to make us "feel more comfortable" for whatever we may be doing that we shouldn't. I wish I read this hook a year earlier. But again, every in God's timing. Thank you for listening to God and allowing Him to show His grace through your writing.
August 8, 2019
This book was good, it was refreshing to have some spiritual advice on what to do while being single. The book is good for young women in particular. While i was intimidated abut some of the realness of the spiritual in relationship, it made me realize in order to find my Boaz i must follow the ways according to the bible.
January 31, 2017
Pink Lips & Empty Hearts by Heather Lindsey has truly been a blessing to me & she is nothing short of brutally honest in this book. It will certainly force you to look inside of yourself and desire to make corrections. Great for single, engaged/courting, and married women.
January 11, 2020
I follow Heathers ministry and this book is as authentic and real as she is when she preaches on stage. It's like my big sister talking to me about the realities of this world, I appreciate her for this token of love.
May 20, 2020
Nothing beats reading a book relevant to your season. This book takes you on all kinds of roller coasters while reminding you of your humanness. Read the synopsis, if you think you should read this book then you probably should 😉
January 21, 2018
Great Book, there are some things you have to fliter out. but I would give it a 3.5/ 5. its it worth the read.
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June 29, 2019Amazing. Helped me with my loneliness and creating my relationship with christ and loving myself.
October 24, 2020
Great book loved it
That book is a meal in itself! It is very insightful and resourceful! It is a great inspiration,that speaks to all groups of women!!
That book is a meal in itself! It is very insightful and resourceful! It is a great inspiration,that speaks to all groups of women!!
January 5, 2025
Great read for Christian women!
May 25, 2016
I think this book is great for single ladies or newly married ladies. I think that Heather does a good job of sharing her story of how she matured in Christ. I've been following Heather on Instagram for a while now but I am just now getting around to reading her books. I find her to be beautiful on the inside and out and she seems to really care about helping her sisters in Christ love Him more. I've read a few reviews that say that this book was "all over the place." Maybe it was and maybe the phrase "all-in-one Book" probably shouldn't have been used, but her words were sincere. This was not entertainment nor was it a scholarly reference manual. It was an account of personal experiences turned into lessons backed up by Biblical truths. She is an author just by virtue of having written a book, but I do not think writing is her calling...ministry is. Sometimes ministering will have to come through writing. I acknowledge that some of the book seemed a bit amateurish, but it was good for a first effort. I expect that as I continue to read the rest of her books, the writing style will mature.
August 13, 2015
I really liked the content of the book. Heather is honest and real and she isn't afraid to tell the truth. No sugarcoating. Also, it's always nice to see a true testimony of how God acts in the life of someone that truly pursues Him. It makes us rethink the way we interact with Him and the place He actually has in our lives. I shows us what to change in our way of being to truly see Him in action in our lives.
Although I loved what Heather had to say in this book, I thought it lacked structure. I felt like in the same chapter she was touching on many different subjects. Not that this is bad, but I could always see the connection between the different topics. It didn't feel like there was a logical flow between chapters.
Despite that, I'll still buy her 2 other books.
Although I loved what Heather had to say in this book, I thought it lacked structure. I felt like in the same chapter she was touching on many different subjects. Not that this is bad, but I could always see the connection between the different topics. It didn't feel like there was a logical flow between chapters.
Despite that, I'll still buy her 2 other books.
June 14, 2016
There were times when I couldn't stop rolling my eyes as I read this book. A lot of the subjects I feel like I didn't really need assistance on and was wandering why I was reading the book at all. There were some chapters that really stirred me, this book was convicting at times, but I did feel like a lot of the stuff she wrote about was obvious. I think it needed to go a bit deeper, but maybe it's a great book for those new to the faith. I'm really glad I read it, it's helped me view certain areas of my life differently, but it wasn't an earth shattering amazing book. Still, well done Heather!
February 17, 2014
This book. It has opened my eyes about my relationship with God. And I think that every woman can relate to this book. Whether your married or single Heather Lindsey shows us how when we look to Christ we can be the woman he ought us to be. It focuses on our relationships, friendships and overall being a woman. I loved reading this book, every time I spent reading this book I gained something and most importantly what I gained from this was submission to God first, submitting to God first means that everything in our life will fall into place. Great read.
January 17, 2016
Life Changing
I've read this book twice, it has helped me understand what a personal relationship with Christ looks like & it has given me great pints in how to just go to God and ask for more of him & ask for his heart. The Holy Spirit definitely speaks through This book & it has reminded me, you can change, you don't have to stay the same, God still loves me & I will still be used for Gods purpose here on earth. <3
I've read this book twice, it has helped me understand what a personal relationship with Christ looks like & it has given me great pints in how to just go to God and ask for more of him & ask for his heart. The Holy Spirit definitely speaks through This book & it has reminded me, you can change, you don't have to stay the same, God still loves me & I will still be used for Gods purpose here on earth. <3
December 26, 2014
Heather's voice and personality are crystal clear in this book, along with her convictions about how a single/married woman should walk with Christ regarding relationships. I personally resonated with chapters 8 and 14, and I appreciated her transparency. Overall I felt this was a good 'introductory' book to how women should reflect inwardly and check themselves and their walk with God.
January 4, 2014
I really enjoyed this read. It was so encouraging and not only focuses on finding a man but being content on working on you and your relationship with Christ to find peace while you're 'waiting' on your Adam. Heather's voice is fun, conversational and uplifting. She stays positive but manages to keep it real without being condescending. I will be buying a couple of copies for friends and family.
April 14, 2015
I loved the book! It's a very helpful "tool" for women no matter the status, if single, married, divorced, etc. I'm married and didn't skip any chapter. There's really good info in every single chapter. Many times are things that we already know but need "someone else" to tell us. The book is easy to read and feels like Heather is talking directly to you. Definitely recommend it.
February 8, 2013
This book...left me speechless. It is awesome to know that no matter where we are...we are not alone. God's timing is perfect and we only need to learn to seek His heart and He will handle the rest. Heather's insight is amazing! A must read!
April 2, 2013
The book was good enough. Its for those ladies who are stuck in a particular circle and settle for less in their relationships, the book gives the ladies hope that there is a better future and God has the best plan for them.
August 12, 2013
I really loved this book! It was great and I passed it on as soon as I was done. Heather gives amazing advice in the book that I loved. It is full of helpful and encouraging tips on yourself, worth, friends, family, men -- IT ALL as well as beauty tips! Every girl should read this book.
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