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Finding the Words: How to Talk with Children and Teens about Death, Suicide, Homicide, Funerals, Cremation, and other End-of-Life Matters

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With this compassionate book by respected grief counselor and educator Dr. Alan Wolfelt, readers will find simplified and suitable methods for talking to children and teenagers about sensitive topics with an emphasis on the subject of death. Honest but child-appropriate language is advocated, and various wording and levels of explanation are suggested for different ages when discussing topics such as death in general, suicide, homicide, accidental death, the death of a child, terminal illness, pet death, funerals, and cremation. An ideal book for parents, caregivers, and counselors looking for an easy resource when talking to youths about death, this book can be used for any setting, religious or otherwise.

144 pages, Paperback

First published October 1, 2013

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Alan D. Wolfelt

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April 17, 2022
I wish people talked to me about death like this when I was growing up.
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April 26, 2022
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I enjoyed the book but wished that it also had and audio available for people on the go to be included.
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July 10, 2014
Very useful book for talking the children about these difficult subjects. Wish I would have had this book when my elder son died. Dealing with his younger brother would have been much easier if I had been able to read this first.
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