It was odd to read this book, first published in 2013, in 2021. So many people back then were saying that Hillary Clinton could be president, would be president in 2016. Well, we know how THAT turned out. So 7 years later, what will it take to make a woman president? We're a little bit closer with a female vice-president and there are probably more women in Congress now than there were in 2013. And that's really the key: in order for a woman to hold the highest office, we need more women in the lower-level positions to go through the pipeline and gain the experience needed.
The book is organized into conversations with different women and men, with each conversation consisting of the same set of questions. (Depending on how the conversations go, some people get different questions.) I kind of wasn't ready for this format, so it wasn't really my favorite as I got started. I was hoping for more of a researched book as opposed to straight-up interviews.
So yes, this book is still timely. I learned about a lot of women and organizations that I didn't know existed, and I'm certainly going to do more research on my own about how to get involved. Because if there's anything my recent reading has taught me (Raising the Resistance, Rethink) it's that women need to be involved. We are capable. We are needed.
Favorite quotes:
"...setbacks are always an opportunity for a comeback." - Mary Fallin
"I don't want us to, in our eagerness for men to finally put an oar in and row their share, become openly grateful, which is a woman's tendency. There's no reason to be grateful to people who are doing what they should have already been doing all along." - Robin Morgan
"...we live these very Judeo-Christian values on the one hand, but on the second hand, the capitalism that drives our culture is so loaded with gender inequities and use of sexual behavior and sexual innuendo in this supposed Christian culture...The hypocrisy of our culture sometimes...we talk about being fair and just, but we are sexist and homophobic." - Don McPherson
"I always say that boys who are raised by women...there comes a point when they are told, explicitly, that what your mother does is beneath you. And what she does is less than what your father does, or has less value, and you're not to do those things...My daughters put on my shoes and clog around the house, but if I had a son, would he put on his mother's shoes and clog around the house? Our homophobia tells that boy, "No, that's wrong."...For a lot of boys, it's troubling. It's like, What do you mean? This is the woman who bathed me, who fed me, who does all these things-still does all these things-and I'm being told that who she is, is less than." - Don McPherson
"...culturally we still tell women that they need to be mothers, first and foremost, above all else, and if you're not a mother first and if you don't put your identity as a mother first, then you're doing it wrong, and I think that's scary to a lot of women-no one wants to be thought of as a bad mother. And obviously of what that means culturally: Being a mother first means staying at home. It means not putting your kid in daycare. It means not taking a promotion. And I just don't buy into that. I think that we need to change the way we talk about motherhood." - Jessica Valenti
"Everyone is essentially brought up not to be a girl, right? I think from the time all of us - women, men, boys, and girls - are born, we're taught that the worst thing you can be is a girl. That to be a leader you should never be a "girl". To be a man, you should not be a "girl". To be a woman, you can't be a "girl". So it must be pretty powerful to be a girl if everyone's taught not to be one. What is it about being a girl that everyone's so scared of?" - Eve Ensler