This is a beautifully written memoir, one not to be missed.
Yes, it is about rapacious Anti-Semitism, about the Holocaust in Poland, and elsewhere, about mass murder. But it is also about courage, character, and determination called up from somewhere so deep inside a family that it is astonishing.
Children go to school, play, skate, eat well; are secure in the love of family, nuclear and extended; and secure in community. And then, then new laws are written and they and their families, communities, are branded "different": religiously dangerous; humanly inferior; politically anathemas; right to life denied. Yellow stars, paperwork, dragged from homes, herded on trains to labor camps, to death camps. There are still those who deny any of this ever happened; either they are simply misguided, or have their own agendas.
It happened.
But the father in this family said no. NO, we will not be here for the knock on the door.
He took his family on foot, east out of Poland; met other displaced persons on the way; found temporary refuge in the Ukraine. Many in that country thought the Nazis would be liberators - they quickly found out differently. The father, despite his wife's pleas to return home to what they knew, kept them moving, eventually ending up in Siberia. How to make the wife understand that what they knew no longer was remained a constant source of upset, but the father was steadfastly determined and kept his family alive through the war through choices made. Rerouting, post-war, they made their way, separated for awhile, back through Europe - across the ocean, to that mighty lady holding the candle of freedom in New York harbor and a life never imagined through those wretchedly cold Siberian nights.
This is a journey you should take with the author. It is a journey through the nightmare world of the Third Reich; through the viciousness of Anti-Semitism. But, it is a multi-layered tale of so much more.
One of those layers is the role of this father in this family for strength, guidance, protection - as a role model. He simply refused to allow his family to be annihilated by this sick 'final' solution. He is a father to be emulated by other men in these difficult times around the world.
Another important part of this story is what is between the lines: how any group, in any place, in any time can become the group that needs a "solution" to be dealt with as scapegoats for prejudice, avarice, an appetite for "power over" that is both temporal and a sign of personal weakness no matter how much money is, or how many troops are, mustered. It is a story of how the Big Lie, the propaganda, can become the way of life because it is oh so much easier to be brutal to others than honest with self.
It is the story of how a belief, an attitude such as Anti-Semitism can keep rearing its ugly, multi-tentacled head through the ages. It is the story of how the quest for power by businessmen can put a monster they think they can control in place as a head of state.
It is the story of how people seem to think that if they see that all have life, freedom and abundance, somehow their own will be diminished, so they seek to take all for themselves.
True stories like this one have run through history with different peoples, different places, different times, different propaganda, sometimes recurring: slavery, the White Man's Burden, genocide toward Native Americans, Armenians, Cambodians, Vietnamese, African tribes.
The stories show their heads and teeth in witch hunts which resulted in the deaths of millions, in misogyny, in abuse, physical and verbal; they record the horrors of sex trafficking, of intolerant religious dogmas and practices; of governments that keep and profit from shipped hunger aid and let children and families die of starvation with flies swarming on their bodies. They are the stories of mistreatment of immigrants. They are the stories that record munitions dealers who traffic in illegal weapons resulting in mass murder.
The Holocaust of World War II was on a massive scale and included murder of Jews, of Gypsies, of intellectuals, of mentally challenged, of political opposition. Thousands of Russian soldiers sent to fight it never got to go home, but were sent, post-war, to Siberia for political reasons by another vicious, totalitarian state.
This story happened to a Jewish family in Poland in WWII. Her father's and her mother's strength carried them through it on foot, with cold, with hunger, with hope, with loss and with fear no one should ever know. But they held together, they endured, and now have given you their story of outrage, of courage, of victory.
Look around you, take this story to heart, and ask yourself what is happening around you that needs a strong figure to step in and say: No, I will not let horror enter - I will help, I will lead, I will share love to say NO to a knock on the door in the sunshine, in the dark of a night, to a life, to a soul, to a people - indeed, to a nation.