A very helpful book for pastors, especially younger pastors who will no doubt be shocked by the behavior of certain people within any given church. Written across denominational lines, it shows how pastor abusers are the same no matter what kind of church they inhabit. I certainly don't agree with everything in the book or even some of their suggestions at the end, but I gave it 5 stars because it is unique in describing situations and people that have often ended pastoral ministries. I have given copies to friends, especially those who have been going through trouble in their churches.
Everyone who is a member of a church needs to read this book. Chances are good that you either are or know a pastor abuser. If you're a pastor you need to be aware. If you're a parishioner you need to stand in the way of the abuse of God's servants.
This book was recommended to me by a man who is about 15 years ahead of me in pastoral ministry. I have never been abused during my pastoral ministry; however, I have experienced some abusive treatment that could have developed into formal abuse. Thankfully, the person/people were prevented/stopped in one way or another. I don't think I have read another book that looks honestly at how a pastor can handle abusive treatment; so, that makes me thankful for this book. I'm sure there are others, and I am just not aware of them.
This book is fairly comprehensive and it sites its sources for further study. I think some more attention needs to be given to this topic. In seminary, I don't recall being taught how to have healthy expectations for how a church treats you and what to do about it if you are not being treated properly. Maybe I just have not been paying attention.