The House of Lim: A Study of a Chinese Family While published in the '60s, this book will always help poinantly explain why girl children are considered bad luck for Chinese families. This isn't the real theme of the book which follows the dynamics of the Lim farm family in Taiwan, how family members interact and how influence is passed on through the generations. However, every part of the book reflects how women are treated and why. As soon as girls are born they are considered people who consume a family's food and give nothing back.
Many years ago when I was a surly grad student I remembered seeing this work come up repeatedly in various books, and had never actually read it. So I'm, like, 20 years overdue. It's definitely dated, but still an interesting read.
Rather entertaining, but as the writer stated in the foreword of this book, this should not be considered as an anthropological work. In my opinion, Margery Wolf inserted too many personal judgments in her writing. She could have went deeper to explain the wonderful and dramatic family episodes backed with some theoretical discussions. And I can see gender is very important to discuss in this book.
As much as the author denies either qualification or intent, some of the finest anthropological writing I've ever read. For the first half anyway. Though the later anecdotes begin to insert a slightly less objective tone, the work is no less a fascinating look at a traditional Taiwanese family and farming community during the mid-20th century.
This was required reading for my anthropology class. It was the best out the list of 100 that I had to chose from and the best book that the class read as they had the same 100 choices.