Ancient Mesopotamia was predominantly in the middle east, and also one of the most populated civilizations.. EVER!! How could they be prudish at all? Polytheistic West Asia was very queer too. I'm so interested in finding out how that's changed and how religion's exemplified that change. I have certain lineage ties the Arabic diaspora, and many distant family members carry traditionally middle eastern values. Some fun dinner conversations arose from that..
I heard the night clubs in Dubai are barely used and mainly only there for tourists. How do afro-asiatic civilizations even go about courtship? I heard that marriage is preliminary to getting to know someone, and the courting phase is essentially just contractually bound until it isn't.
Arranged marriages are common there, but they're common in South Asia and China too.. that isn't the surprising bit to me. What's intriguing is how Islamic values often inform most romantic dynamics in Arabic speaking countries. Some of them follow Sharia law which may also change social dynamics regarding marriage, divorce, marital feuds and economic factors.
There's this hilarious stereotype that all Arab elites are sugar daddies too. I genuinely wonder where that comes from. From the very doting comments I hear from the distanced relatives I inquire, I've heard that there's a lot of respect surrounding personal autonomy and mutual reciprocity in Muslim marriages.
I like hearing about how respectful the marriage proposals are, the beautiful ceremonies they hold (did you know that Muslims use different vows, and that marriage contracts go beyond court proceedings?), the very ethical and giving code couples tend to oath.. it's all really heart warming.
It truly is a beautiful culture that I'd like to step into with an open mind.