Sometimes when I give a book a 4 (or a 5) it is because it is an enjoyable and entertaining read which itself infers “it was also well written." Still other times that rating is strictly a measurement of how well the book is written and in no way can you say the book was enjoyable. This book isn't for everyone. I like reading true crime and nonfiction. This particular genre of true crime is disturbing and not at all enjoyable to read, in the sense that the content is difficult to process. No one in their right mind “enjoys” this content. But do you learn something important? Do you walk away a little bit braver or more courageous, maybe more insightful? Hopefully, yes. This book will have triggers for anyone who grew up in homes where they were either grossly neglected, physically or sexually abused, or just totally ignored and therefore put at risk. It isn't a self help book either. So if you are that person and still far from a place of healing, this book may not be for you.
In this book, the authors, one a forensic expert and the other, a seasoned documentarian, both students of avid research, take on a complex and complicated question: Was the young teen apprentice in this case driven by his own inner unmotivated evil or was he turned into a killer by his sadistic mentor? If it were the latter, then isn’t the young apprentice therefore, capable of remorse and emotions experienced by any one of us? In this story, there were two teen apprentices, and the bigger focus was on Elmer Wayne Henley Jr., who is currently still in prison in Texas serving out multiple life sentences, the possibility of parole, diminishing with each passing decade. He says he is sorry. He laments the trajectory of his life. And the early years of his life are certainly indicative of a boy, who before he met "The Candy Man," Dean Corll, might have been set on a different path from the morose and gruesome one in which he spiraled. But how? What events or circumstances were so pivotal in his early life, such that could have projected him somewhere so hellish, where he could and would aid a sadistic and psychopathic murderer in the torture and killing of young boys? And how different would those same events and circumstances have needed to be for him to avoid such a path?
Not only that, but victim after victim in this story, came from homes of dysfunction and neglect. No one, no parent-NO one-seemed bothered by the fact that a grown man who sold candy (or gave it away) preferred the company of young boys (their sons)-and this coupled with Corll’s strange personality, constant changing of addresses, and a disturbing family life. Not to mention, these boys from the same neighborhood kept disappearing -and while the police did absolutely nothing- the parents continued to let their children run amok, smoke dope, party with their friends, and offer very little in the way of accountability or supervision. Much less healthy engagement. These children were as good as the walking dead with a killer among them.
The authors definitely offer a lens through which we can better understand how "good" kids can turn so bad; and the author's lean seems clearly bent toward Henley himself being one of those kids who became victim first, then killer, then victim all over again, until he finally somehow, resurrected the "good" kid from inside of himself, made a correct decision, and ended the mayhem. Likewise, they offer a lens through which we can see how family life circumstances, childhood trauma, neglect, and social media can make our kids vulnerable to criminal exploitation. Hello parents-red flags. Sit up and listen.
Naturally you will need to read this and form your own opinions and insights. But here is THE common denominator over and over and over in this tragic story, among not only the apprentices, Henley and Brooks, but also the victims themselves, and that is this: Time after time, they have absent fathers, dysfunctional and abusive homes, disengaged parent or parents, and/or mothers who exposed their children to boyfriends and husbands who abused both them and/or their child. They gave multiple examples of defendants, child predators, who later told investigators and journalists how easy it was to reel in a child who wanted attention, wanted to belong somewhere, wanted to please an adult, or just wanted to be noticed. These same predators would tell their interviewer just how easy it was to gain the confidence and company of a kid whose family life was off the rails.
This book can’t end, and does not end without a discussion on the effect of social media on children today. In the early 70’s when Henley was being apprenticed by Dean Corll, this wasn’t yet a factor. Imagine the ability and the tools the Dean Corll’s of the world have today at their disposal for reeling in young, naive, unsupervised, and hurting kids, away from the eyes of their parent (s). In a 2018 study cited by the authors, one in five American kids reported unwanted sexual solicitation on the internet. Predators usually encouraged face to face contact. Cell phones have exponentially increased this type of online behavior. And now imagine how a vulnerable kid who wants to be seen and loved, who is desperate for approval from an adult-just imagine how much easier that makes the predator’s job to find their prey.
Not many good notes to end on. Just lessons. Remember and honor the tragic victims and their families. And finally, figure out how we can change our world to make children less vulnerable, to not unwittingly aid predators in their crimes. Education, after school programs, all yes. But MORE than anything, the children of this country need parents and/or adult mentors who have healthy engagement with their kids, who are parents not buddies, who are both loving enough to discipline them, and at the same time, loving enough to have dinner around the table, board, games on Friday nights, and for God’s sake knowing what they are doing online and knowing where they are, and who they are with. And parents -little kids don’t need smart phones. And teens need guidance and boundaries if they are on social media and have a phone in their hands 24-7.