Elfrida (alternate spelling: Ælfthryth) is mostly remembered as the woman who had her stepson, King Edward the Martyr, murdered so her son Ethelred could take the throne. She's the archetype wicked stepmother. She was much more than that. She was the first crowned and anointed queen of a united England. She had beauty, wealth, brains, and power in her own right.
Her father Ordgar was a powerful and wealthy man in Cornwall and the west country. She was educated along with her brother, gifted in languages, and was her father's favorite so much so that he relied on her advice. She was well-propertied with booklands (properties that were hers alone and not subject to being taken by the crown), and her dowry was extensive.
Ethelwold, son of the most powerful Ealdorman in England, was sent by King Edgar to see if she was as beautiful as reported. He was already married but intended to put his wife away to marry Elfrida. Ethelwold lied to the king, married her himself, and quickly got her pregnant. When the child was born, Ethelwold asked the king to be godfather, to make a relationship in church law to Elfrida that would bar him from marring her. Edgar finally barged into their house to get a look at her. According to legend, they fell in love at first sight. A short time later, Ethelwold was killed in a hunting accident, and Edgar married her. So says legend, but there is absolutely no evidence of any of it, including Ethelwold's murder. This is the pattern that follows Elfrida around, even today. There are lots of accusations, not one bit of evidence.
What we do know is that Elfrida and King Edgar married two years after the death of Ethelwold. Edgar was a controversial man. He had several wives and many mistresses before he married Elfrida. Afterward, we don't know. What we do know is that both Edgar and Elfrida were very involved in the church reform movement along with Bishop Ethelwold (lots of people with the same names in this book, so make notes). The Catholic faith was in crisis in England. Viking raids had destroyed a good many churches and monasteries and practically killed its practice in the north of England. Priests married, lay clerics held the power in most monasteries, and none of the houses followed any rule.
On the continent, Benedictine Rule was used, and Edgar, Elfrida, and Bishop Ethelwold all took up the cause of church reform, which created powerful enemies. Edgar called a council, and they adopted church reform designating Elfrida as "protectress and fearless guardian of the monasteries." Then, they removed the powerful lay clerks and enforced the Rule of St. Benedict, and founded new monasteries and convents based on the Benedictine Rule. Elfrida even put her kinswomen in charge of the new convents - a decision that came back to bite her later as some of the most outlandish and damaging stories about her were started and spread by these same women!
After 14 years as king, the 30 year old Edgar decided to be crowned again in Bath in 973. He had made all religious houses submit to the Benedictine Rule, and considered it time to give the country another show of his power. Along with his coronation, Elfrida was also officially crowned Queen of England, though she had already been consecrated. The ceremony was magnificent. Now he considered himself as an Imperial power as he had the Scots, Cambrian, and the eight petty kings swear allegiance to him. Then, he standardized the currency, weights and measures, and lawcode. In the charters of this period, you will find Elfrida's signature right at the top, after the King and Bishop Ethelwold.
It was then, at the height of their power, catastrophe struck on July 8, 975 when Edgar suddenly died. The crown was now in contention between his elder son Edward, by his first wife, and his younger son Ethelred, by Queen Elfrida. Edward was about 14 or 15; Ethelred was about 7. At this time there were no hard and fast rules about succession. Preferred were the Æthelings, meaning son of a king, or more loosely throne-worthy. No one wanted a regency, so Edward was the clear choice, and he was crowned a year after Edgar died. Contemporary sources reported him as having a cruel and foul temper, so Elfrida took her young son to her stronghold at Corfe.
Strangely, there were many bad omens during his short reign. First, a comet appeared in the sky. Then the second floor council room floor collapsed, killing or maiming all of his councilors. Luckily, he was not there. But his luck ran out on March 18, 978, when he was assassinated in front of the Corfe residence of Queen Elfrida. This was also the beginning of the horrible rumors spread about her.
The death was horrible. Edward was stabbed, his arms broken, and as he slid from his saddle his foot got caught and the horse dragged him, breaking his legs and ribs. Mercifully he was already dead before the horse took off. Who struck the blow? We know that Ealdorman Elfhere, kinsman to Elfrida, was there and there was bad blood between him and King Edward. He later did public penance for the murder. The question is what, if anything did Elfrida know? There is no hard evidence for any involvement by her. But it happened in front of her house, and they did not give Edward a proper burial as befit a king.
After weighing the hard evidence, or lack thereof, Norton concludes Elfrida was guiltless. Her arguments are good ones too. Regardless a regency was set up for young Ethelred with the Queen and Bishop Ethelwold foremost in it. She refused to give it up when Ethelred reached 16, the age of majority at that time and he resented it greatly. When Bishop Ethelwold died in 984, Ethelred took power and banished his mother to Corfe. He quickly married and began having copious children. Tellingly, we don't even know his wife's name, and he kept her out of power.
As his children came and he got older, he did put the education of his children in Elfrida's hands, and she did an excellent job of it. In 993, the king allowed his mother back at Court after 9 years of exile and did her honor by calling her a wonderful mother and thanking her. But times were bad. The Vikings began not only raiding but demanding Danegeld to be paid to stop the devastation, every year demanding more and more money, until they stopped raiding and started conquering territory. England would never be the same, and Anglo-Saxon England would disappear forever.
Elfrida did not live to see the mess Ethelred made. She died around 1000 or 1001, aged in her mid 50s, considered very old. Her son honored her, but the monasteries and convents continued to blacken her reputation, naming her as a murderer and slandering her in any and every way. They wrote the chronicles, and they elevated Edward to martyrdom and sainthood by influencing the king to do so officially after his mother died. King Edward became Edward the Martyr, the name he still has today, and Elfrida is still called the archetype wicked stepmother and a murderer.
I know this is probably one of the longest of my reviews. The funny thing is the book is one of the shortest, at just shy of 200 pages of text, about a woman the author herself says doesn't appear in many contemporary sources. There are the charters she signed and one complete letter written by her to the courts hearing a property case. It is the first letter written by a queen of England in any archive. But there is a lot of downright slander about her in later chronicles, and the later they were written the more lurid they are - kind of like a written game of telephone with the most outrageous winning the prize.
Did she do it? Did she have her stepson murdered? As an American, I believe in innocent until proven guilty beyond a shadow of doubt. There are shadows and doubt in the written records.