I read Bobos in Paradise because I like David Brooks' columns and I really enjoyed "The Social Animal."
The title is a nod to what Brooks describes as the merging (or rather reconciliation) of Bourgeois with Bohemian cultural values and ways of living and how this reconciliation has transformed middle class culture within the U.S. In fact, he invents the word "Bobos" to label this new educated class of people who embrace key components of both cultural forces that seemed irreconcilable not so long ago. The author does a wonderful job placing spot-on observations about modern consumerist life into the context of this massive cultural blending of previously opposing forces - bourgeois and bohemian. He put into context and provided a plausible explanation for several trends that have become ubiquitous such as the commercial success of the organic and local food movements, the commercial success and normalization of so much of what once was considered rebellious hippie culture, and the changing values that underpin these shifts.
While "Bobos" satisfied in many ways, it also disappointed. I admit that reading it several years after it was written, and reading it after The Social Animal kind of set me up for disappointment because his descriptions of "current" consumerism was rendered prior to the recent recession, making some of the extreme examples he uses as evidence less relevant and certainly not as current. While I don't think the recession has changed the cultural and consumerist shifts Brooks describes, the descriptions are occasionally outdated. I also think the "Social Animal" incorporated many of his Bobos insights into a more coherent package.
My favorite chapter was the treatment of Bobo spirituality. Based on my own experiences and my own study, I think Brooks nails this topic! He observes that Bobo spirituality is far more experience based and far less dogmatic - whether one chooses traditional church/synagogue participation or more humanist pursuits to address your spiritual needs. The church goers are less inclined to us vs. them thinking and more inclined to tolerance toward those of other faiths and lifestyles. Dogmatic rules, ritual, and ceremony are de-emphasized or even rejected while morality and virtuous behavior (especially when it comes to the virtues of tolerance, equal rights, and human dignity as opposed to the virtues of piety, proper manners and dress, etc..) At the same time, he accurately assesses that traditional religions - vehicles for spiritual pursuit - lose much ground when the ritual, ceremony, and community duty are ignored. His descriptions and analysis of these aspects of this modern culture ring true for me and his conclusion that while Bobo spirituality has probably made us a more moral people (less racism, sexism, etc...) it has also potentially un-moored us from the traditional institutions that have informed human spirituality for so long with some likely unpleasant side effects. We've gained much but, we may be in danger of losing much at the same time and there's no telling exactly where this will lead for the future of human spirituality.
The book reads like a series of essays - which in fairness it is, kind of. This led me to be delighted with some chapters, like those devoted to the descriptions and analysis of the forces and timelines of Bourgeois Culture and Bohemian counterculture, and disappointed with some others, such as the descriptions of Bobo intellectual life and Bobo travel. Both of these chapters, while sometimes funny in a snarky way, seemed to focus on a much more narrow subset of the larger bobo experience that the rest of the book describes. In fact, I wondered if these chapters weren't a little more autobiographical than the rest. In fact, the self-deprecating humor (at least deprecating to the Bobo culture that Mr. Brooks self identifies with) was sometimes more annoying than funny as it attempted to both praise and poke fun of the accomplishments of Bobo culture.
I do appreciate Mr. Brook's cultural and sociological observations in the book and his thesis overall that the current generation of educational and financial "elites" in our country have successfully melded the best parts of both Bourgeois and Bohemian sensibilities making much about life in America and the western world better while still reconciling the age old conflict underlying these two movements.