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In many ways, Kristen Elliott is a normal, seventeen-year-old girl. Kristen loves her family. She works hard academically, and tries to please her mother. She takes on the additional responsibility of caring for her twin siblings, Nick and Alison. She idealizes her best friend, Lexus, who not only seems to lead the perfect life, but also catches the attention of John, the boy Kristen secretly loves. However, as is the case with many teenagers, Kristen feels frustrated, isolated, and confused.
In other ways, Kristen is not like other kids her age. She knows something is wrong with her. Kristen feels like an utter failure. She is unable to please her abrasive mother, and scared to confront Jack, her abusive stepfather. She is also unable to protect Nick from Jack, making her fell all the more helpless. Adding to her problems, she knows she will never be as beautiful as her best friend Lexus. Kristen finds solace in self-injury, and the company of Mr. Sharp, her imaginary friend who encourages her feelings of self-loathing.
After a failed suicide attempt, Kristen is placed in the Bent Creek mental hospital, where she is diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. While in the hospital, she meets a group of peers suffering with their own mental illnesses, and a compassionate staff of doctors and counselors. From there, Kristen begins her journey to survival. She discovers the circumstances that brought her to this breaking point, struggles to understand her mental illness, and fights to be a survivor against her own worst enemy: her self-blame.
Kristen’s tale of endurance illustrates the complex illness of Borderline Personality Disorder. Readers – including those suffering from BPD and their friends and family – can glean insight into the illness from Kristen’s humanity. Her story is an example of how, if we try to push the past away, we are either doomed to repeat it or let it haunt us to our graves.
In other ways, Kristen is not like other kids her age. She knows something is wrong with her. Kristen feels like an utter failure. She is unable to please her abrasive mother, and scared to confront Jack, her abusive stepfather. She is also unable to protect Nick from Jack, making her fell all the more helpless. Adding to her problems, she knows she will never be as beautiful as her best friend Lexus. Kristen finds solace in self-injury, and the company of Mr. Sharp, her imaginary friend who encourages her feelings of self-loathing.
After a failed suicide attempt, Kristen is placed in the Bent Creek mental hospital, where she is diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. While in the hospital, she meets a group of peers suffering with their own mental illnesses, and a compassionate staff of doctors and counselors. From there, Kristen begins her journey to survival. She discovers the circumstances that brought her to this breaking point, struggles to understand her mental illness, and fights to be a survivor against her own worst enemy: her self-blame.
Kristen’s tale of endurance illustrates the complex illness of Borderline Personality Disorder. Readers – including those suffering from BPD and their friends and family – can glean insight into the illness from Kristen’s humanity. Her story is an example of how, if we try to push the past away, we are either doomed to repeat it or let it haunt us to our graves.
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First published May 22, 2013
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May 26, 2015
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August 17, 2015
This is my favorite book this year.
I thought that "Her" described the realness of BPD in depth. It could very well have been a true story. I like Mr. Sharp and the way he was used as a personification of what it's like to have an addiction to self harming. He's like the writer, Felicia Johnson had described in a magazine interview as haunting. It was like a seduction. Much like addiction is. I've had this kind of addiction before and it's almost like having someone whispering in your ear telling you to bleed to breath and to accept it. I've never read a story where cutting is described as an addiction and in such a way that is artistic and creative. It's like an old friend who you soon realize is your enemy.
Instead of just describing what it's like to cut, the writer uses Mr. Sharp as a voice or "entity" as she describes it, in her mind. He takes a hold of her and controls her, like a real addiction. Well-written. Beautifully described the addiction of cutting or self harming behavior. Good read.
I thought that "Her" described the realness of BPD in depth. It could very well have been a true story. I like Mr. Sharp and the way he was used as a personification of what it's like to have an addiction to self harming. He's like the writer, Felicia Johnson had described in a magazine interview as haunting. It was like a seduction. Much like addiction is. I've had this kind of addiction before and it's almost like having someone whispering in your ear telling you to bleed to breath and to accept it. I've never read a story where cutting is described as an addiction and in such a way that is artistic and creative. It's like an old friend who you soon realize is your enemy.
Instead of just describing what it's like to cut, the writer uses Mr. Sharp as a voice or "entity" as she describes it, in her mind. He takes a hold of her and controls her, like a real addiction. Well-written. Beautifully described the addiction of cutting or self harming behavior. Good read.
January 25, 2016
I was a cutter and Her by Felicia Johnson is a book about suicide and self injury. It helped me a lot. That's hard to say, but it did. Sometimes you don't even understand it.
I have it on my Kindle and read it in a few days. It's a really good story. It's painful to see that some people go through this kind of sadness, but it is good to know that there is hope for them. I hope that when people read this book they will be able to see the good in the main character that I saw. It's a story you can get hooked on and wrapped up in. It is powerful.
I recommend Her by Felicia Johnson to anyone and everyone who wants to learn more about mental illness and cutting or any form of self injury.
August 2, 2013
Felicia Johnson takes a very real look at the nature of mental illness, trauma, and abuse as it affects the mind and actions of a teenager in her well-written debut novel, HER. The main character, Kristen, suffers from borderline personality disorder, no doubt brought on by horrific trauma that is vividly recounted by Johnson in the first pages of HER.
For anyone who suffers from borderline personality disorder ("BPD"), or who loves someone suffering from BPD, HER offers an enlightening and sympathetic look at what it's really like to struggle with this illness. I could very much relate to Kristen and found her believable and likable. HER should find an audience that will find therapeutic value in reading this novel, and survivors of trauma will find in Kristen's story a blueprint for their own healing.
HER could have benefited from a bit of streamlining in the editing stage, but I highly recommend it!
E.L. Farris
For anyone who suffers from borderline personality disorder ("BPD"), or who loves someone suffering from BPD, HER offers an enlightening and sympathetic look at what it's really like to struggle with this illness. I could very much relate to Kristen and found her believable and likable. HER should find an audience that will find therapeutic value in reading this novel, and survivors of trauma will find in Kristen's story a blueprint for their own healing.
HER could have benefited from a bit of streamlining in the editing stage, but I highly recommend it!
E.L. Farris
December 7, 2015
It's not often that I am required to read a book for my volunteer work with the National Alliance on Mental Illness and end up enjoying it and getting as much out of it as I did with Ms. Felicia Johnson's novel, "Her." Her writing really spoke to me, it was like she was in my head! The only other authors I have felt that connection with have been the late Dr. Maya Angelou, Margaret Atwood, and Robert Graves. This book really hit me where I lived.
"Her" is the story of Kristen Elliot, a young woman who attempts suicide at the age of 17, and is sent to an inpatient psychiatric hospital, Bent Creek, on the Adolescent Unit. There, she meets other young people with whom she shares the common bond of mental illness, and a difficult home life. She makes friends with some of the other kids on the unit. Together, they learn about themselves, and they support each other. However, some of them are discharged from the unit, and two attempt suicide and are transferred to other facilities, which takes a toll not only on the other patients on the unit, but on the staff, as well.
The staff at Bent Creek are by and large (with one creepy exception) a caring and compassionate team who look out for the young people in their charge. Kristen's first doctor's contract comes to an end, or so she is told, and he stops working in the hospital. She is then assigned to Dr. Pelchat, who diagnoses her with Borderline Personality Disorder, after a careful process of observation and testing. He gives her a book to read about Borderline Personality Disorder, and he educates her on coping skills and managing her thoughts and behavior patterns. He arranges a session first with Kristen and her mother, and then, prior to discharge, with Kristen and her whole family.
After the healing process she experienced at the hospital, Kristen is deemed ready to be discharged. She feels she is ready. However, she experiences a setback and ends up back in the hospital again. However, this time it seems that she has finally conquered her inner demons and she is ready to move on to her life in recovery. She is reunited with her family. It seems that her mother finally knows what to do to help Kristen maintain her recovery, and she is willing to do it, in order to keep all her children safe.
Did I find the ending totally believable? I had my doubts that someone would learn how to get rid of their bad patterns that they've built up over a lifetime all at once, but then again, I'm a middle-aged person, not an eighteen-year old. I would not shut the door on the hopeful possibility that people really can change, once they have insight and know what to do to effect change.
I would recommend this book to anyone who wishes to know more about what it's like to live with a mental illness, specifically Borderline Personality Disorder, or anyone who wants to understand someone who lives with the condition. I would also recommend it to anyone who is looking for an emotionally challenging but fulfilling novel to read!
"Her" is the story of Kristen Elliot, a young woman who attempts suicide at the age of 17, and is sent to an inpatient psychiatric hospital, Bent Creek, on the Adolescent Unit. There, she meets other young people with whom she shares the common bond of mental illness, and a difficult home life. She makes friends with some of the other kids on the unit. Together, they learn about themselves, and they support each other. However, some of them are discharged from the unit, and two attempt suicide and are transferred to other facilities, which takes a toll not only on the other patients on the unit, but on the staff, as well.
The staff at Bent Creek are by and large (with one creepy exception) a caring and compassionate team who look out for the young people in their charge. Kristen's first doctor's contract comes to an end, or so she is told, and he stops working in the hospital. She is then assigned to Dr. Pelchat, who diagnoses her with Borderline Personality Disorder, after a careful process of observation and testing. He gives her a book to read about Borderline Personality Disorder, and he educates her on coping skills and managing her thoughts and behavior patterns. He arranges a session first with Kristen and her mother, and then, prior to discharge, with Kristen and her whole family.
After the healing process she experienced at the hospital, Kristen is deemed ready to be discharged. She feels she is ready. However, she experiences a setback and ends up back in the hospital again. However, this time it seems that she has finally conquered her inner demons and she is ready to move on to her life in recovery. She is reunited with her family. It seems that her mother finally knows what to do to help Kristen maintain her recovery, and she is willing to do it, in order to keep all her children safe.
Did I find the ending totally believable? I had my doubts that someone would learn how to get rid of their bad patterns that they've built up over a lifetime all at once, but then again, I'm a middle-aged person, not an eighteen-year old. I would not shut the door on the hopeful possibility that people really can change, once they have insight and know what to do to effect change.
I would recommend this book to anyone who wishes to know more about what it's like to live with a mental illness, specifically Borderline Personality Disorder, or anyone who wants to understand someone who lives with the condition. I would also recommend it to anyone who is looking for an emotionally challenging but fulfilling novel to read!
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September 11, 2013
Having practiced psychotherapy for over 35 years I found Her, by Felicia Johnson, to be a brilliant window into the mind of one who struggles with Borderline Personality Disorder. The story is so enchanting that I found the characters showing up in my own dreams. Well written and psychologically accurate, the book will take you into the heart and mind of Kristen, a teenage girl who finds herself hospitalized following a suicide attempt. A must read for those learning about personality disorders.
Virginia Felder, L.M.F.T., Atlanta, GA
Virginia Felder, L.M.F.T., Atlanta, GA
December 30, 2013
I received and ARC of Her as a part of a blog tour.
I am not going to lie, I am having a very difficult time trying to find the proper words to use to write this review. I felt so many emotions while reading Her; curiosity, anger, sadness, empathy, distraught, relief, and happiness.Her was raw, real, intense, and seemed so spot on!Felicia Johnson was able to perfectly describe the manifestations of Borderline Personality Disorder(BPD)in a potential real life situation. The story seemed so real, like I was reading someone's diary that personally experienced this journey. Since I cannot find the words to properly describe this compelling read I will sum up the story for you.
Kristen was sent to Bent Creek after a failed suicide attempt. She is 17 years old and relies on Mr. Sharp for comfort, for release, and to breathe. When Kristen is sent to Bent Creek she has no idea what is wrong with her. She does not know why or how she cannot control these urges to hurt herself. Kristen is reluctant, angry, and scared when she first arrives at Bent Creek. However she quickly found that Mr. Sharp was there with her, so she felt comforted. As long as Mr. Sharp never left her, all was right with the world. Kristen was afraid to open up to her doctors and speak truthfully about the issues she was experiencing in fear of being judged. Little did Kristen know that the adolescents in Bent Creek as well as the doctors and counselors would be her main support to help her become a survivor.
As the story progressed Kristen began to open up to her peers, doctors, and counselors. She did not feel as alone when she learned that her peers were, are, and have gone or is going through similar challenges. A failed suicide attempt at Bent Creek really upset Kristen and taught her just how easily life can be taken from you when you do not have the ability to control, overcome, and cope with the manifestations of a condition. Kristen learned that life is valuable. However she was scared to perform a test that her doctor encouraged in order to find out what was really wrong with her. After the test, Kristen learned that she was suffering from Borderline Personality Disorder. She was terrified. Kristen did not want to accept or learn more about the condition. But Kristen learned that in order to survive, she must fight this monster from controlling her life. She started cooperating more and more in hope to one day leave Bent Creek. She felt rejuvenated. The day came where she was finally discharged from Bent Creek. Kristen soon learned that it was much more difficult to overcome the urges and control the condition when living at home in comparison to Bent Creek.
The story progresses around Kristen's life at home after diagnosis. It shows the daily struggles that Kristen faces. It shows moments of weakness and also moments or triumph. At times you are able to see just how badly Kristen is affected by BPD and other times where you can see how Kristen is learning to survive and accept the condition. No matter how hard Kristen tries, she feels that her mother will betray her, Allison, and Nick. She is terrified about the fate of her step dad and if her will be release from prison on parole. Kristen has never allowed herself to cope with what her step dad did to her brother when he was eight. On Kristen's 18th birthday she goes and sees her doctor at Bent Creek. He encourages her to face her demons surrounded by Jack the monster. He tells her that the only way to cope is to face her fears.
After Kristen left Bent Creek is when the plot twists and the unexpected happens. However Kristen has now learned that her family is there for her and that she is loved, important, accepted, and wanted.
This is such an amazing story. If you are interested in learning more about BPD, then this is the book for you! I feel that the author has taken the condition and perfectly wrote a story about the challenges one can face that suffers from the condition. Well done! I feel that I have learned a lot about the challenges people face everyday. Please read this book, it is amazing.
I am not going to lie, I am having a very difficult time trying to find the proper words to use to write this review. I felt so many emotions while reading Her; curiosity, anger, sadness, empathy, distraught, relief, and happiness.Her was raw, real, intense, and seemed so spot on!Felicia Johnson was able to perfectly describe the manifestations of Borderline Personality Disorder(BPD)in a potential real life situation. The story seemed so real, like I was reading someone's diary that personally experienced this journey. Since I cannot find the words to properly describe this compelling read I will sum up the story for you.
Kristen was sent to Bent Creek after a failed suicide attempt. She is 17 years old and relies on Mr. Sharp for comfort, for release, and to breathe. When Kristen is sent to Bent Creek she has no idea what is wrong with her. She does not know why or how she cannot control these urges to hurt herself. Kristen is reluctant, angry, and scared when she first arrives at Bent Creek. However she quickly found that Mr. Sharp was there with her, so she felt comforted. As long as Mr. Sharp never left her, all was right with the world. Kristen was afraid to open up to her doctors and speak truthfully about the issues she was experiencing in fear of being judged. Little did Kristen know that the adolescents in Bent Creek as well as the doctors and counselors would be her main support to help her become a survivor.
As the story progressed Kristen began to open up to her peers, doctors, and counselors. She did not feel as alone when she learned that her peers were, are, and have gone or is going through similar challenges. A failed suicide attempt at Bent Creek really upset Kristen and taught her just how easily life can be taken from you when you do not have the ability to control, overcome, and cope with the manifestations of a condition. Kristen learned that life is valuable. However she was scared to perform a test that her doctor encouraged in order to find out what was really wrong with her. After the test, Kristen learned that she was suffering from Borderline Personality Disorder. She was terrified. Kristen did not want to accept or learn more about the condition. But Kristen learned that in order to survive, she must fight this monster from controlling her life. She started cooperating more and more in hope to one day leave Bent Creek. She felt rejuvenated. The day came where she was finally discharged from Bent Creek. Kristen soon learned that it was much more difficult to overcome the urges and control the condition when living at home in comparison to Bent Creek.
The story progresses around Kristen's life at home after diagnosis. It shows the daily struggles that Kristen faces. It shows moments of weakness and also moments or triumph. At times you are able to see just how badly Kristen is affected by BPD and other times where you can see how Kristen is learning to survive and accept the condition. No matter how hard Kristen tries, she feels that her mother will betray her, Allison, and Nick. She is terrified about the fate of her step dad and if her will be release from prison on parole. Kristen has never allowed herself to cope with what her step dad did to her brother when he was eight. On Kristen's 18th birthday she goes and sees her doctor at Bent Creek. He encourages her to face her demons surrounded by Jack the monster. He tells her that the only way to cope is to face her fears.
After Kristen left Bent Creek is when the plot twists and the unexpected happens. However Kristen has now learned that her family is there for her and that she is loved, important, accepted, and wanted.
This is such an amazing story. If you are interested in learning more about BPD, then this is the book for you! I feel that the author has taken the condition and perfectly wrote a story about the challenges one can face that suffers from the condition. Well done! I feel that I have learned a lot about the challenges people face everyday. Please read this book, it is amazing.
June 19, 2013
Wow, have you ever wished someone you cared about would read a book so they would understand the words you aren’t able to say? This is one of those books. I had no idea what to expect when I bought it. I started the first page and instantly knew I might be in over my head emotionally but Felicia kept it real and she wrote this story in a way that anyone could understand.
There are books out there about self mutilation but this one take it a step farther and explains Borderline Personality Disorder. The feelings that come with this disorder can isolate a person from society, especially teenagers. Feelings of abandonment, so they push people away before they can be abandoned. Cutting to be able to breathe again and feel numb. Having people in your head, telling you that if you cut or if you run you will be safe, they will still love you. Feeling like people only see the evil in your so you try to be good so they won’t leave you. Most of all the thoughts of dying and suicide, to end the pain and save others from being hurt at well.
Kristen was a seventeen year old girl who had seen more horror in her few years than most adults would ever see in a whole life time. The actions of one person tore her family apart, the secrets and denial of the other family members just kept the wound open till someone was going to bleed to death. When a suicide attempt sends her to Bent Creek Mental Hospital, she felt she was a failure and going to prison. What she found was more heart-break and pain, but also the right to claim and believe she was a survivor.
Felicia did an awesome job at keeping the story flowing at a steady pace. She introduced characters to the reader and shared their story and life with us. I found myself wanting to take a break from the emotional over load of the story yet I couldn’t put the book down. I needed to know what was going to happen to Janine, Rocky, Daniel, and the other teens we were introduced to at the mental hospital.
I also needed to know if Kristen was going to be able to survive going back home with scars on her wrist and arms, her best friend getting married to the boy who Kristen had feelings for. Would she be able to mend the fence with her mother and twins and really start a new life? Would the one person who tore this family apart be allowed back in at the risk of Kristen’s sanity? This book takes you from the moment her brother finds her barely breathing, bloodied and unconscious, through her stay at the mental hospital, and then back home struggling to find a place to fit in and be accepted. She was going to have to let go of Mr. Sharp, the man in her mind that comforted her and also encouraged her to cut so she could breathe. She was going to have to answer questions as to why she did it, and try to explain why she doesn’t think like others. So many times people would tell her to just stop thinking like that, stop cutting, stop getting upset, but what they don’t understand is Kristen couldn’t. This was how her mind worked and what she needed was for people to be patient and help her through the hard times when she was struggling, not remind her of how she was making it hard for others and hurting their feelings. If Kristen could have stopped it she would, but she couldn’t and now she has to deal with feeling like a failure and having others remind her that she is difficult to be around.
Felicia did an outstanding job at explaining Borderline Personality Disorder and making sure it was clear that this disorder does NOT make the person, it is the person living WITH this disorder. I suggest all teachers, counselors, and anyone working with teens read this book. I also think if you have someone in your life with BPD, read this. They don’t have the words to explain what they feel or how they think, and even if they did the fear is to great in many cases to be able to express it. I think many will be thanking Felicia for giving them a voice after their loved ones read HER and understand what torment BPD causes.
There are books out there about self mutilation but this one take it a step farther and explains Borderline Personality Disorder. The feelings that come with this disorder can isolate a person from society, especially teenagers. Feelings of abandonment, so they push people away before they can be abandoned. Cutting to be able to breathe again and feel numb. Having people in your head, telling you that if you cut or if you run you will be safe, they will still love you. Feeling like people only see the evil in your so you try to be good so they won’t leave you. Most of all the thoughts of dying and suicide, to end the pain and save others from being hurt at well.
Kristen was a seventeen year old girl who had seen more horror in her few years than most adults would ever see in a whole life time. The actions of one person tore her family apart, the secrets and denial of the other family members just kept the wound open till someone was going to bleed to death. When a suicide attempt sends her to Bent Creek Mental Hospital, she felt she was a failure and going to prison. What she found was more heart-break and pain, but also the right to claim and believe she was a survivor.
Felicia did an awesome job at keeping the story flowing at a steady pace. She introduced characters to the reader and shared their story and life with us. I found myself wanting to take a break from the emotional over load of the story yet I couldn’t put the book down. I needed to know what was going to happen to Janine, Rocky, Daniel, and the other teens we were introduced to at the mental hospital.
I also needed to know if Kristen was going to be able to survive going back home with scars on her wrist and arms, her best friend getting married to the boy who Kristen had feelings for. Would she be able to mend the fence with her mother and twins and really start a new life? Would the one person who tore this family apart be allowed back in at the risk of Kristen’s sanity? This book takes you from the moment her brother finds her barely breathing, bloodied and unconscious, through her stay at the mental hospital, and then back home struggling to find a place to fit in and be accepted. She was going to have to let go of Mr. Sharp, the man in her mind that comforted her and also encouraged her to cut so she could breathe. She was going to have to answer questions as to why she did it, and try to explain why she doesn’t think like others. So many times people would tell her to just stop thinking like that, stop cutting, stop getting upset, but what they don’t understand is Kristen couldn’t. This was how her mind worked and what she needed was for people to be patient and help her through the hard times when she was struggling, not remind her of how she was making it hard for others and hurting their feelings. If Kristen could have stopped it she would, but she couldn’t and now she has to deal with feeling like a failure and having others remind her that she is difficult to be around.
Felicia did an outstanding job at explaining Borderline Personality Disorder and making sure it was clear that this disorder does NOT make the person, it is the person living WITH this disorder. I suggest all teachers, counselors, and anyone working with teens read this book. I also think if you have someone in your life with BPD, read this. They don’t have the words to explain what they feel or how they think, and even if they did the fear is to great in many cases to be able to express it. I think many will be thanking Felicia for giving them a voice after their loved ones read HER and understand what torment BPD causes.
January 16, 2014
3.5 Stars!
I feel that by me reading and rating this book is not really fair. This book touched way to close to home for me. Everything that happened in this book (well almost everything) I went through with someone very close to me. That being said, I will admit that the author was DEAD ON with her description of what a residential treatment center was like and what happens beyond those four walls.
In this book we meet Kristin who is a very tortured soul who also has a mental illness. We follow her journey through a botched suicide attempt, her treatment in residential care, and a small peek of her life afterwards. She felt alone in her grief and suffering and used cutting as a method to deal with this. I know there are tons of teenagers that also go through this and my heart breaks every time I hear or read about one. I feel this would be a great read for a younger girl who may be dealing with these emotions or a parent who is new to this sort of thing. I felt that maybe the beginning of the book was too preachy, as in describing everything that goes on in the treatment center and such, and didn't focus enough on how Kristen was really feeling. To be honest, in the beginning, I had a really hard time getting into this book. That is why I feel it wasn't fair for me. I knew all this stuff already having gone through it. I am sure someone who has not been through this would find it very interesting and would hold their attention. The one thing I did want to hear more about wasn't really explained as well and that was Borderline Personality Disorder. It interested me enough to do some research about it on my own however.
I found it troubling that it seemed all of Kristin's friends were so perfect. But then I thought, maybe it was the disease that made her mind make them so perfect? Everything I thought I understood sort of went out the window once she was diagnosed and made me wonder if her idea of what was reality was a bit askew.
"Lexus and I lived on the same planet, but we were from different worlds."
I did enjoy watching Kristen open up to her doctors and the counselors slowly over her course of treatment. The author also didn't use the "oh she is getting help so everything is all sunshine and rainbows now." She had deep troubles and one week and a new medication wasn't just going to help her. Another thing I wish had been explored further was the abrupt leaving of Dr. Cuvo. It was alluded at as to why he had to leave however I guess I just needed it spelled out for me. Overall, I think this is a great read for a younger group. I would definitely classify it as young adult to a point although it deals with some deep subjects. But overall, we learn that what really matters is the will to live.
"Now I see what being a survivor really is. It's not giving up. It's not running away. It's getting through whatever it is you have to get through to make it."
Reviewed by Mystery Reviewer for Crystal's Many Reviewers
*ARC provided for honest review*
I feel that by me reading and rating this book is not really fair. This book touched way to close to home for me. Everything that happened in this book (well almost everything) I went through with someone very close to me. That being said, I will admit that the author was DEAD ON with her description of what a residential treatment center was like and what happens beyond those four walls.
In this book we meet Kristin who is a very tortured soul who also has a mental illness. We follow her journey through a botched suicide attempt, her treatment in residential care, and a small peek of her life afterwards. She felt alone in her grief and suffering and used cutting as a method to deal with this. I know there are tons of teenagers that also go through this and my heart breaks every time I hear or read about one. I feel this would be a great read for a younger girl who may be dealing with these emotions or a parent who is new to this sort of thing. I felt that maybe the beginning of the book was too preachy, as in describing everything that goes on in the treatment center and such, and didn't focus enough on how Kristen was really feeling. To be honest, in the beginning, I had a really hard time getting into this book. That is why I feel it wasn't fair for me. I knew all this stuff already having gone through it. I am sure someone who has not been through this would find it very interesting and would hold their attention. The one thing I did want to hear more about wasn't really explained as well and that was Borderline Personality Disorder. It interested me enough to do some research about it on my own however.
I found it troubling that it seemed all of Kristin's friends were so perfect. But then I thought, maybe it was the disease that made her mind make them so perfect? Everything I thought I understood sort of went out the window once she was diagnosed and made me wonder if her idea of what was reality was a bit askew.
"Lexus and I lived on the same planet, but we were from different worlds."
I did enjoy watching Kristen open up to her doctors and the counselors slowly over her course of treatment. The author also didn't use the "oh she is getting help so everything is all sunshine and rainbows now." She had deep troubles and one week and a new medication wasn't just going to help her. Another thing I wish had been explored further was the abrupt leaving of Dr. Cuvo. It was alluded at as to why he had to leave however I guess I just needed it spelled out for me. Overall, I think this is a great read for a younger group. I would definitely classify it as young adult to a point although it deals with some deep subjects. But overall, we learn that what really matters is the will to live.
"Now I see what being a survivor really is. It's not giving up. It's not running away. It's getting through whatever it is you have to get through to make it."
Reviewed by Mystery Reviewer for Crystal's Many Reviewers
*ARC provided for honest review*
September 20, 2013
Her by Felicia Johnson is a magnificently, raw depiction of 17 year old Kristen, who is living with Borderline Personality Disorder. After a suicide attempt she enters Bent Creek psychiatric hospital, where powerful scenes detail adolescents navigating the complex world of learning to survive mental illness.
Ms. Johnson successfully brings out the human frailties and emotional demands also on Kristen’s mother, as she responds to her daughter’s thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. In addition, Ms. Johnson’s accurate tone of storytelling enables the reader to understand how important mental health support is, not only for the victims of sexual abuse, but the impact on the siblings who may also blame themselves.
I walked away from this powerful story with an intimate window into Kristen’s life and the effects of her BPD on her family and friends. This is definitely a page turner to the very end. I look forward to reading Felicia’s next book!
Debra @ Loving1withmentalillness
Ms. Johnson successfully brings out the human frailties and emotional demands also on Kristen’s mother, as she responds to her daughter’s thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. In addition, Ms. Johnson’s accurate tone of storytelling enables the reader to understand how important mental health support is, not only for the victims of sexual abuse, but the impact on the siblings who may also blame themselves.
I walked away from this powerful story with an intimate window into Kristen’s life and the effects of her BPD on her family and friends. This is definitely a page turner to the very end. I look forward to reading Felicia’s next book!
Debra @ Loving1withmentalillness
October 16, 2014
This book did STUFF to me!
I picked up this book knowing exactly what I was getting myself into, but omg I wasn't prepared to be sitting on my couch for almost 2 days straight with only a few breaks to take care of basic self care needs. My muscles ache from not being able to pull myself away from the couch and actually stop reading!
I cried my eyes out!
I laughed so hard my stomach hurt. I just kept on reading until finally there were no more pages left. Oh dear god! There is a movie soon? Will need tissues for days...Want to see.
I'm tired. I need to rest now. Thank you for the ride.
I picked up this book knowing exactly what I was getting myself into, but omg I wasn't prepared to be sitting on my couch for almost 2 days straight with only a few breaks to take care of basic self care needs. My muscles ache from not being able to pull myself away from the couch and actually stop reading!
I cried my eyes out!
I laughed so hard my stomach hurt. I just kept on reading until finally there were no more pages left. Oh dear god! There is a movie soon? Will need tissues for days...Want to see.
I'm tired. I need to rest now. Thank you for the ride.
October 29, 2014
This book was probably one of the best I've read in a while. It grippingly takes the reader through the mindset of a person with BPD. Having BPD myself, it was amazing and strange to almost read my own thoughts and processes. It made me feel like I'm not alone and stronger for it. It's an extremely well written book, that can give someone the understanding (or as close to it) of what it's like to live everyday with this ghost, person, devil thing inside your body.
I highly recommend it to BPD sufferers, people who are friends and family of sufferers or anyone who's interested in psychology.
An incredibly accurate book.
I highly recommend it to BPD sufferers, people who are friends and family of sufferers or anyone who's interested in psychology.
An incredibly accurate book.
May 17, 2016
Did I just read a book about my life? I felt like I knew everything that was happening in this book because it felt so much like it was about me! I could relate to this girl from the depression to the self harm and even the stay at the hospital. It was really like eveyrthing I had been through! Heartbreakingly real and it's not an easy read. I had to keep putting it down and then pick it back up again. It is not for those who need a light read. Go in with a box of tissues.
January 17, 2018
Wow just wow
This book made me feel so many strong emotions, many I can personally connect too.
This book had me smiling and crying at times.
There were so many little twists and turns which made this book a strong read
Anyone with a mental illness or wants to know more about metal illness should read this.
This book has had a strong impact on me and my way of thinking for the better
A truly amazing read
This book made me feel so many strong emotions, many I can personally connect too.
This book had me smiling and crying at times.
There were so many little twists and turns which made this book a strong read
Anyone with a mental illness or wants to know more about metal illness should read this.
This book has had a strong impact on me and my way of thinking for the better
A truly amazing read
December 10, 2015
While reading this book I can't help but ask myself, "Why am I reading this? It's too much. It's affecting me." But these type of books are helping me to understand how having a mental disorder feels like and they should be taken seriously. This book was everything to me. Not a light read I must say.
June 15, 2014
4.75 stars.
Gosh, where to start with this review?
I don't usually do them but quotes seem like a good place to start:
I think I loved this book. I read it very quickly and probably would not have put it down if my body hadn't hurt from sitting/lying and reading for so long.
As someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder, I was interested to see how this book was going to play out. I wasn't 100% impressed with its portrayal, hence the lack of .25 stars. I feel like Kristen had to have had something else along with the BPD, just because some of it was soo extreme...then again BPD is "all-or-nothing"/extremes. Anyway, sometimes it just seemed too exaggerated, maybe it is just because I don't have the same Borderline traits nor to the extreme that Kristen did. Also, her near constant crying irritated me a lot, however, that can be prominent in most people with BPD (I'm the opposite where it is very difficult for me to cry even if I want to), so I just dealt with it.
Overall I am glad that I read this book. It just struck a cord with me and I doubt I will ever forget it. <3
**Warning** there are some pretty graphic scenes.
Gosh, where to start with this review?
I don't usually do them but quotes seem like a good place to start:
The Mirror
By Kristen Elliott
"The mirror
Made of shattered glass and full of veins
Disfiguring her maimed beautiful image.
Inside and out
A reflection bears the burden
Of who she is
What she has become
And what will forever be.
One side Her-self
The other side just Her."
"Nobody knows how this feels. Do they? No. They don’t know what it is like when you feel like God has put a two-ton bag of bricks on your shoulders and He tells you that you have to stand up straight with your head erect, and you have to point your chin to the sky and keep a big smile on your face. Then you feel like you’re being forced to walk like that with those bricks strapped to your back for the rest of your life. They can’t even imagine how that feels! You feel like you are so alone and that there is nobody who can relate or understand. They all think you’re crazy! That’s why you are here, right?"
"Maybe she’d been stuck. She’d been stuck by herself, clinging too much to people who couldn’t carry her."
"The need for attention. The fear of being alone. Pushing family and friends away and avoiding new contact in fear of being abandoned."
“Did you know that when you save someone’s life, it makes you their hero? Did you know that, even if that person is mad at you for saving their life, another person who may have been watching or who may have heard about it could be affected by what you did for that other person, and you could be a hero to them, too?”
I think I loved this book. I read it very quickly and probably would not have put it down if my body hadn't hurt from sitting/lying and reading for so long.
As someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder, I was interested to see how this book was going to play out. I wasn't 100% impressed with its portrayal, hence the lack of .25 stars. I feel like Kristen had to have had something else along with the BPD, just because some of it was soo extreme...then again BPD is "all-or-nothing"/extremes. Anyway, sometimes it just seemed too exaggerated, maybe it is just because I don't have the same Borderline traits nor to the extreme that Kristen did. Also, her near constant crying irritated me a lot, however, that can be prominent in most people with BPD (I'm the opposite where it is very difficult for me to cry even if I want to), so I just dealt with it.
Overall I am glad that I read this book. It just struck a cord with me and I doubt I will ever forget it. <3
**Warning** there are some pretty graphic scenes.
July 24, 2013
CAUTION: SPOILERS
Eye contact is well-known social norm. It signals attention, and can communicate a feeling of understanding and honesty. Kristen, who has awoken in a mental health institute after a suicide attempt, misconstrues and abhors eye contact. In the novel Her, by Felicia Johnson, Kristen feels a heavy negative connotation when people look at her, and lashes out at them for “staring” at her. Through her interactions with facility staff and patients, and eventually family and friends, it is found that Kristen suffers from a condition known as Borderline Personality Disorder, or BPD. Recommended for those with BPD or those living with them, Her is a perfect window into the mind of someone with a mood disorder.
Although it is eventually the actions of an abusive step father that send Kristen to the point of suicide, it is clear that cumulative damage has been done by her mother over the years. Although not technically seen as abuse, a child forced into responsibility in a single-parent household is trauma in its haziest form. Appeals to support the family, and the sensory odor of threatening coffee breath call up all-to-familiar a memory from my own past and make me sad to realize that the conditions facilitating a BPD diagnosis are all too prevalent and are prone to repeat themselves.
For instance, Kristen’s stepfather abused his son because he had himself been abused. The histrionic behavior of Kristen’s mother is exhibited in Kristen herself, but is exaggerated by abusive conditions. This book deals honestly and openly with these hard subjects, and can certainly help a survivor of abuse to come to terms with what happened in an easily digestible manner. Any person would benefit from the anger management and coping skills classes described in depth in the book, and if practiced widely, maybe less abuse would exist in the first place.
Regardless of the current preference to only diagnose those 18 or older, this book talks about the importance of mental health at even an early age, as it is the youth that is affected greatest by domestic violence, mental or physical. The greatest tool we have in safety of our children is education for prevention. In the end, hope prevails, and her doctor provides a motivation to her and to thousands of others. “Now that you are aware of what it is – your illness, which is Borderline Personality Disorder – you have to think about what you know and use it for your survival.”
Eye contact is well-known social norm. It signals attention, and can communicate a feeling of understanding and honesty. Kristen, who has awoken in a mental health institute after a suicide attempt, misconstrues and abhors eye contact. In the novel Her, by Felicia Johnson, Kristen feels a heavy negative connotation when people look at her, and lashes out at them for “staring” at her. Through her interactions with facility staff and patients, and eventually family and friends, it is found that Kristen suffers from a condition known as Borderline Personality Disorder, or BPD. Recommended for those with BPD or those living with them, Her is a perfect window into the mind of someone with a mood disorder.
Although it is eventually the actions of an abusive step father that send Kristen to the point of suicide, it is clear that cumulative damage has been done by her mother over the years. Although not technically seen as abuse, a child forced into responsibility in a single-parent household is trauma in its haziest form. Appeals to support the family, and the sensory odor of threatening coffee breath call up all-to-familiar a memory from my own past and make me sad to realize that the conditions facilitating a BPD diagnosis are all too prevalent and are prone to repeat themselves.
For instance, Kristen’s stepfather abused his son because he had himself been abused. The histrionic behavior of Kristen’s mother is exhibited in Kristen herself, but is exaggerated by abusive conditions. This book deals honestly and openly with these hard subjects, and can certainly help a survivor of abuse to come to terms with what happened in an easily digestible manner. Any person would benefit from the anger management and coping skills classes described in depth in the book, and if practiced widely, maybe less abuse would exist in the first place.
Regardless of the current preference to only diagnose those 18 or older, this book talks about the importance of mental health at even an early age, as it is the youth that is affected greatest by domestic violence, mental or physical. The greatest tool we have in safety of our children is education for prevention. In the end, hope prevails, and her doctor provides a motivation to her and to thousands of others. “Now that you are aware of what it is – your illness, which is Borderline Personality Disorder – you have to think about what you know and use it for your survival.”
January 17, 2014
So I read Her by Felicia Johnson and was like
This book is so real! Knowing the background of how the story came about made me want to read this story. The author's best friend had Borderline Personality Disorder and had committed suicide when they were teenagers. She wrote the book in homage to her friend. That touched my heart. I had to read it after watching the book trailers for it. Definitely watch.
Kristen's story is told in a way that I felt myself feeling every emotion she felt and I could see everything that she saw. It was like I was in her head. I learned a lot about Borderline Personality Disorder and what it does to the person who is suffering. "Her" is the voice of the BPD sufferer.
I like how it was so well written. Her was written in three parts. In the beginning, we meet Kristen after a failed suicide attempt and she is in the hospital. She starts off really depressed and resistant to her treatment, but as the story goes on we journey with her through a change and her mind, the way she thinks, and expresses herself matures. There's a real transformation in her character.
I really do hope that there is a movie made from this book becauwe it's something that a lot of people need to be made aware of. I couldn't even describe the emotional rollercoaster I was on reading this book. I got into Kristen's story, her friends that she made in the hospital stories, and even her stupid mother's problems. I do want to know what happened to Dr. Cuco. He was there then he was gone. You think that you know what happened because it was hinted at, but then you're not sure.
Even though I knew that I should have taken a break at times from reading, I just kept on reading even though I was crying and screaming at the book. I laughed. I cried. I died a little inside with Nick's story. But OMG I couldn't put the book down! When I got to the end I was so happy for Kristen and Nick. It's not like happy rainbows and sunshine and unicorns in the end. It is REAL. Everything described in this book seems so real. I recommend Her by Felicia Johnson to people who may know someone who is suffering from depression, self harm or cutting, borderline, bi-polar disorder, and anorexia. It may be hard to read because of the subject matter and it does get a bit graphic in some parts, but it's going to captivate you. It's a story that in the end made me feel hope, even for myself.
This book is so real! Knowing the background of how the story came about made me want to read this story. The author's best friend had Borderline Personality Disorder and had committed suicide when they were teenagers. She wrote the book in homage to her friend. That touched my heart. I had to read it after watching the book trailers for it. Definitely watch.
Kristen's story is told in a way that I felt myself feeling every emotion she felt and I could see everything that she saw. It was like I was in her head. I learned a lot about Borderline Personality Disorder and what it does to the person who is suffering. "Her" is the voice of the BPD sufferer.
I like how it was so well written. Her was written in three parts. In the beginning, we meet Kristen after a failed suicide attempt and she is in the hospital. She starts off really depressed and resistant to her treatment, but as the story goes on we journey with her through a change and her mind, the way she thinks, and expresses herself matures. There's a real transformation in her character.
I really do hope that there is a movie made from this book becauwe it's something that a lot of people need to be made aware of. I couldn't even describe the emotional rollercoaster I was on reading this book. I got into Kristen's story, her friends that she made in the hospital stories, and even her stupid mother's problems. I do want to know what happened to Dr. Cuco. He was there then he was gone. You think that you know what happened because it was hinted at, but then you're not sure.
Even though I knew that I should have taken a break at times from reading, I just kept on reading even though I was crying and screaming at the book. I laughed. I cried. I died a little inside with Nick's story. But OMG I couldn't put the book down! When I got to the end I was so happy for Kristen and Nick. It's not like happy rainbows and sunshine and unicorns in the end. It is REAL. Everything described in this book seems so real. I recommend Her by Felicia Johnson to people who may know someone who is suffering from depression, self harm or cutting, borderline, bi-polar disorder, and anorexia. It may be hard to read because of the subject matter and it does get a bit graphic in some parts, but it's going to captivate you. It's a story that in the end made me feel hope, even for myself.
May 31, 2016
Finally getting around to reviewing this fantastic piece of writing. Sorry that it has taken me so long!
Her is a very real portrayal of mental ill health, strength, hope and everything in between.
I don't even know where to begin to describe how this story made me feel. It has stuck with me ever since I read it back in January. While reading the emotional rollercoaster that I was stuck riding was pretty intense but in a good way. Actually in a great way. It really made me think about my own life and others around me.
So well written and very informative. From someone that doesn't know much about BPD this really helped open my eyes.
So thank you for writing this wonderful book. I can't wait to read more from you. Highly recommend to anyone, not only those suffering from BPD/any mental illness really but to those close to someone suffering/surviving through an illness such as this and to anyway that just wants a great book to read that will help inform them in a very real but fictional way. So go go go. Read, enjoy and possibly learn something new.
Her is a very real portrayal of mental ill health, strength, hope and everything in between.
I don't even know where to begin to describe how this story made me feel. It has stuck with me ever since I read it back in January. While reading the emotional rollercoaster that I was stuck riding was pretty intense but in a good way. Actually in a great way. It really made me think about my own life and others around me.
So well written and very informative. From someone that doesn't know much about BPD this really helped open my eyes.
So thank you for writing this wonderful book. I can't wait to read more from you. Highly recommend to anyone, not only those suffering from BPD/any mental illness really but to those close to someone suffering/surviving through an illness such as this and to anyway that just wants a great book to read that will help inform them in a very real but fictional way. So go go go. Read, enjoy and possibly learn something new.
November 20, 2013
Truly inspiring and insightful!
By C. Osborn on November 18, 2013
This is as extraordinary book that insightfully depicts the life of a teenage girl with borderline personality disorder (BPD). This little known and widely misunderstood mental disorder afflicts many and has a profound impact on them, their families, and their loved ones. This book, written from the girl’s perspective, provides a discerning window into the thoughts, feelings, and struggles of someone with BPD. It is a great read for everyone and holds one’s attention throughout the book. The reader cannot wait to find out what is going to happen next. It is also a great inspiration to anyone who has faced challenges in his or her life. For family members of someone with BPD, it provides a true window into the life of their loved one and helps them understand what their loved one experiences on a daily basis. As a therapist, I highly recommend this book for families of individuals who have BPD.
By C. Osborn on November 18, 2013
This is as extraordinary book that insightfully depicts the life of a teenage girl with borderline personality disorder (BPD). This little known and widely misunderstood mental disorder afflicts many and has a profound impact on them, their families, and their loved ones. This book, written from the girl’s perspective, provides a discerning window into the thoughts, feelings, and struggles of someone with BPD. It is a great read for everyone and holds one’s attention throughout the book. The reader cannot wait to find out what is going to happen next. It is also a great inspiration to anyone who has faced challenges in his or her life. For family members of someone with BPD, it provides a true window into the life of their loved one and helps them understand what their loved one experiences on a daily basis. As a therapist, I highly recommend this book for families of individuals who have BPD.
November 23, 2015
I found this book hard to read because I saw a lot of the main character in someone that I care about. It was recommended to me by that person to help me better understand them because they seemed to not be able to talk to me and tell me clearly how they felt. After reading this book I am haunted by some of the words that she used to describe what it's like to be depressed and angry and want to hurt yourself. I better understand this person that I care about because Her by Felicia Johnson has spelled it out clearly and in a way that readers can understand especially if you've never felt this way before. I'm thankful because now I can talk to the person I care about and listen with understanding when they do talk to me. Some parts were a bit detailed and graphic. I little hard for me to read some of the domestic violence parts in the book. I recommend to people who won't be too disturbed by some of the hard to read parts.
March 30, 2016
Moving story about a girl who is struggling with her own sanity after suffering the trauma of childhood abuse. I purchased this book at a conference from the speaker/author when she gave a presentation of her keynote speech about mental health advocacy and standing up against child abuse. Felicia Johnson is a very gifted speaker as well as a talented writer. I enjoyed this book so much that I could not put it down. I finished reading "Her" in a matter of days instead of weeks like I thought it would be originally when I saw how thick the book is. Felicia was nice enough to sign the book for me in person and she wrote a personal note inside which simply states "Be strong and never lose your inner light of love and joy."
November 13, 2013
5 stars of truth. Kristen is a strong individual facing BPD and this book is an insight of her struggle. Most of the time when we read a book its for entertainment and never really has a meaning. This book emotionally drained me but made me appreciate those facing BPD. It makes you realize that even though life may be hard others have it harder. Thank you, Felicia Johnson for writing a book that not only touched my heart but inspired me to appreciate every aspect of my life! ~Raquel~
April 3, 2015
Her is a must-read for anyone, especially those who need help in understanding the complexities of life with mental illness or trauma of any kind. I found the story both heart-wrenching and inspiring - and could relate to the main character on many levels. From the sickening smell of hospitals to the self loathing and self destructive behaviors - but most importantly - the tenacity and the desire to be a survivor - Her is a victorious story of endurance and perseverance.
March 1, 2016
I've never read a book that felt so REAL to my own emotions. Nothing was sugar coated and everything just made sense. The struggles Kristen deals with every day is what so many people feel they must do silently because of the huge stigma mental illness has, especially illnesses like BPD. Being able to relate so much to the main characters feelings and how honest the author made this book feel is what made me give it 5 stars.
July 2, 2015
I read this book right before I became very ill. I thought I wrote a raview on my website. But I did not. However all the feelings it brings up you have to write a review fresh from when you have read it. But I am sure all of you have read a book SOOO good you read it again. That is what I am doing. I will do a proper review when I am done.
September 25, 2015
4 Stars.
What a book!
This book left me wanting more.
1. I liked this book. Well written, well plotted.
but
2. I want to know more, e.g Dr. Cuvo, what happened to him? I have a lot of...y'know about what was going on but still, it's not clear. Also, the ending...her mom, duh..suddenly she was being so kind to Kristen, but why? tell me about it.
What a book!
This book left me wanting more.
1. I liked this book. Well written, well plotted.
but
2. I want to know more, e.g Dr. Cuvo, what happened to him? I have a lot of...y'know about what was going on but still, it's not clear. Also, the ending...her mom, duh..suddenly she was being so kind to Kristen, but why? tell me about it.
June 23, 2013
This is an amazing book. I could not put this thing down. I suggest that everyone on the planet read this book. Mental is sure a growing topic of conversation. This needs to but on every T.V. and radio morning show and newspapers and magazines.
May 22, 2017
I found this book to be excellent, but very disturbing. I didn't know much about borderline personality and reading it made me feel depressed for the main character and what she went through in dealing with an undiagnosed mental illness. There was a lot of dialogue of the main character among her family members and at the rehab center she stayed at for the majority of the story. I can only imagine this dialogue is actually what goes on in mental institutions among patients, counselors, doctors, and family members.
This book gave me a clearer understanding about those suffering from BPD, abuse, etc. and made me feel compassion for how difficult a mental illness is to live with by not only the person who has it, but also by family members and those who wish to help the individual. There were many times a feeling of futility and I wanted to fix things for the characters. It was maddening to me to see the choices the characters made. But this story lets you know it is not easy; and that there are many layers and complexities involved in a mental illness.
This book may give you more empathy for those who suffer from mental illness and give you a better understanding of BPD.
Like some other reviewers, I also wanted to know what happened to Dr. Cuvo. He just seemed to disappear, yet played a prevalent role in the story.
I received this book from the publisher in exchange for a review. I have also chosen to interview the author on my radio show.
This book gave me a clearer understanding about those suffering from BPD, abuse, etc. and made me feel compassion for how difficult a mental illness is to live with by not only the person who has it, but also by family members and those who wish to help the individual. There were many times a feeling of futility and I wanted to fix things for the characters. It was maddening to me to see the choices the characters made. But this story lets you know it is not easy; and that there are many layers and complexities involved in a mental illness.
This book may give you more empathy for those who suffer from mental illness and give you a better understanding of BPD.
Like some other reviewers, I also wanted to know what happened to Dr. Cuvo. He just seemed to disappear, yet played a prevalent role in the story.
I received this book from the publisher in exchange for a review. I have also chosen to interview the author on my radio show.
July 2, 2017
A terrific story! This novel reveals an authentic insight into the emotions and thought patterns of one person's BPD crisis. The flow between chapters, past and present, is smooth and draws you deep into this characters life. A page turner, however if you have some kind of emotional disorder, be aware of triggers and plan for breaks to ground yourself.
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