There's too much Amish and not enough Boyfriend going on around these parts...
Jokes aside, this book is... not good. The Amish information is a nice touch, and Shannon's rite of passage story might assist younger readers into further understanding romantic love and learning the perspective of believing you are like the Amish and actually being Amish (which could be applicable to other scenarios), but it just feels kind of heavy handed. The resolution is sweet and all, but it felt rushed, like the author was about to hit a deadline.
Some people may find Shannon to be rather obnoxious, and I honestly agree with them. But she's 16, and a lot of teens around that age are rather shortsighted and immature. I'm surprised she actually was able to think "Dang man, I was infatuated with Ezra. I was never in love with him, just in love with the idea of love." That's not something you typically just realize around that age as far as I know (but considering what transpired before this revelation of hers, it's not as farfetched as it could be). I found Ezra to be far more obnoxious than Shannon, though.
People may say that the romance between Shannon and Ezra is unrealistic, but infatuation to this degree doesn't sound quite as unbelievable as I find it to be (crushes can be very much full-blown unreasonable at times), considering Shannon is still very much new to the whole idea of romantic love as far as we can tell. Certainly can't say the same for Ezra, who I found myself rather disgusted by at times throughout the story.
What I do find to be unrealistic is the whole romantic resolution between Ezra and Rachel. I personally don't see it working out very well post-story considering that Ezra was talking about how much he doesn't like to be Amish and how interested he was in becoming English, was willing to be shunned just to get away from Rachel, was behaving in a way that Rachel found to be undesirable which led to them breaking up in the first place, and was willing to have a short fling with Rachel's cousin, Shannon. A fling, in which, he may have been about to sexually assault Shannon at a party. They have no concrete chemistry portrayed in the story at all, and I can't help but feel like this was shoehorned in just to get some semblance of romantic satisfaction out of the story. I feel like Ezra needs to understand what he wants in life before getting back together with Rachel. As it was mentioned many times before in the book, you cannot be baptized and be Amish solely because you want to marry someone else who is Amish.
Shannon thinking that being told off by Ezra, a man she's met only about a week ago at this point, about how she's pretending to be Amish (true) rather than being Amish and that she doesn't know about being Amish as well as she thinks she does (also true) is worse than her father's death was kind of hilarious. I'll cut her some slack and chalk it up to potentially just being very much in the moment, but it feels very unbelievable and downright bizarre for there to be such a comparison.
That being said, the title My Amish Boyfriend is comically misleading considering that Ezra doesn't end up with Shannon (although that is 100% for the better for both of them). The story feels more like it's about Shannon's mother and Shannon herself than anything, casually tossing aside the romance aspect of the story through the second half of the book.
It's not a good book by any means, but I did enjoy reading it dramatically to my friends.
Would I recommend it though? No. Please don't read this book expecting it to be a seriously good experience. There's nothing of actual value to be gained here that couldn't be obtained anywhere else.