One of America's preeminent psychiatrists draws on his famous Study of Adult Development to give us an exhilarating look at how the mind's defenses work. What we see as the mind's trickery, George Vaillant tells us, is actually healthy. What's more, it can reveal the mind at its most creative and mature, soothing and protecting us in the face of unbearable reality, managing the unmanageable, ordering disorder. And because creativity is so intrinsic to this alchemy of the ego, Vaillant mingles his studies of obscure lives with psychobiographies of famous artists and others--including Florence Nightingale, Sylvia Plath, Anna Freud, and Eugene O'Neill.
All Buddhists should read this book. The ego is not the source of all your problems, rather, it is how you are able to do Buddhism in the first place. More later.
Interesting book about defense mechanisms and development. Using real life examples, Vaillant shows how it is possible to move from immature defenses to more mature defenses that allow us to live successful lives, finding intimacy, career consolidation and generativity. His work is based on a 50 year survey of real people. A life long study that shows how childhood affected later life in 3 groups of people.
Un libro che può cambiare lo stile di vita di una persona 'disorganizzata', solo perché può dimostrare che la creatività ben si può conciliare con l'organizzazione, anzi la può favorire.
"The human ego,like the human immune system continues to provide us with better therapy than the best-trained physician or the most up-to-date pharmacy. We all must learn to understand and work with this powerful ally." Easier said than done George :)