This may or may not become a full-on essay, bitches, but I got some beef that's been stewing for a loooong time now, and it's gotta be articulated. SO LET'S DO IT.
Once upon a time, back in the early 2000s, fan culture on the internet was a fairly easy-going place. Like, people would scream at each other if they had different favourite characters but, y'know. What I mean is that you could pretty much like anything you wanted. You weren't policed by your peers (in fact -- the darker the better, in some cases). You were expected to put warnings if you were posting things that might offend, but rarely did anyone get mad at you for writing them -- they just heeded the warnings and moved on. It wasn't perfect, utopia ain't a thing -- but it worked.
Fast forward 10-15 years. The hub of fandom is now Tumblr, also the hub of "SJW"s (social justice warriors) who fight long and hard, generally online, for their supposedly equality-based version of reality. Because fans and SJWs are in close quarters, the cultures start to bleed into each other. You now have a fan culture where 'social justice' is a key component of both discussion and fanworks (fics, art, etc.). Now, this isn't inherently a bad thing -- it's actually massively valuable, and a key part of why I am (and love) teaching. Being critical of what you hear, read & watch is wildly important: don't for a second think I am advocating blind media consumption, at any point, EVER.
But things got a bit...sticky, over in Tumblr land. See, people got annoyed with people saying things they didn't want to hear. They (correctly) realized that fiction can influence and, at times, provide examples and models. They didn't want to be hurt or offended by things that they viewed as unequivocally, objectively, wrong. All of which is fair.
But they stopped saying, "Let's talk about this critically," and instead: they started telling people to stop writing about it. And yelled and screamed at them until they did: "You're racist/homophobic/misogynistic/etc.! There's NO excuse! There's NO debate! You're JUST WRONG." And that movement started snowballing. And soon, being a "good" fan became a question of moral purity -- a very specific moral purity, outlined and dispersed by very reactionary people, people who do not care to educate but would rather you just not do it, okay, and don't you dare question me, because I'm right and whatever you're doing that I disagree with is wrong.
And that's where it gets rough, for me -- as both a lover and a teacher of media.
Now I have to insert a disclaimer before I go any further: my values are very heavily centered on education. I'm a teacher by trade and a learner by hobby. Frankly: I believe that education, not so much in the classroom but in the world, is the most valuable thing we can engage in. I do not think that we learn by reading and discussing the same ideas we already know. We learn by encountering new things. When articulating and expressing our opinions in debate, we layer and refine them. When faced with things we do not know and cannot fathom, things that infuriate and anger us, things that scare and hurt us, we do feel all those negative things -- but we also learn from them.
Now listen: learning is not easy. It is hard fucking work. And think back to the things you've learned that have actually stuck: not high school content, I bet? No. Shit that you struggled with, shit that you cared about, shit that you were challenged on or passionate about. We learn, TRULY learn, when we are faced with extremes ---- not with status quo or safety.
Claire Fox, in what is ultimately a diatribe on the balance (or lack thereof) between freedom of speech and taking offense, doesn't touch too much on this pedagogical point -- but I think, in some ways, it informs her thinking. Fox is staunchly on the "freedom of speech" side of the debate -- calling out today's youth (myself included!), derisively, as the "Snowflake generation."
In brief, her argument:
1. Kids born 1980+ were raised & taught by people who coddled them, emotionally/physically/psychologically. They were also told they were special 'snowflakes', unique & relevant just because they existed.
2. This coddling & cooing led to an entitled generation that never really 'grew up' in the traditional sense, meaning they still sought out and required "homey", safe environments in the real world (including universities). Adult supervision meant kids never learned how to deal with conflict or criticism on their own.
3. Labelling & identity politics became a space where people could define themselves in an otherwise messy, confusing world -- in other words, a safe foothold to latch to.
4. Because the 'Snowflakes' are so easy to offend, and so immature in their conflict resolution, they throw tantrums when they don't get their way. This extends to wanting 'safe spaces' in all places at all times, so they never encounter something that might disrupt their status quo.
5. This, if it continues, will mean the death of free speech -- because everything, at one point or another, particularly when taken out of context, can offend. People will and do live in fear of saying "the wrong thing" in case they start a Twitter war (incidentally -- Black Mirror's got some good episodes about this).
So.
It's an interesting, if not overly original, perspective, though I don't agree with all of Fox's points. For example -- she maligns an entire generation while expressly saying that it's the fault of those who came before. One of her weakest points is when she whines about how bratty and irritating Snowflakes are because they want their way, and their way is the worst, and it's exclusively their way, no one else experienced it ----- but then spends a solid section of a chapter explaining how young people are put on panels as tokens, but all the ideas and actions are really coming from Boomers/Gen X. So, uh...it's NOT actually exclusive to Snowflakes? Everyone in previous generations is also easily offended and pissed off by stuff? I'm confused...
But that said: I picked up this book because I have been seriously fucking frustrated by people on the far left, these days, and I need to start figuring out where I stand. Now I am far left -- I believe people should be free to do what they want and be as they are without judgment, and that we should be kind to and respect each other. But, as I said, I ALSO believe that we should all be able to explore ideas -- all ideas, any idea you want, because you can't really learn unless you do that exploring. You don't have to agree with it; often, you shouldn't agree with it -- but you do have the right to dive in, take a look around, and see what you can bring back and what you would never want. We have to learn to move forward. We will not do that if every potentially offensive word or option is closed to us. We will definitely not learn if texts, ideas, and history are destroyed because they retroactively offend.
It seems to me that, at the core, what most SJWs advocate is stasis: a world where people see and think the same fundamental things, where words & ideas are policed and authority (not patriarchal, of course, but in reverse: the words of those with the LEAST privilege, the most vulnerable and the most hurt, are often considered most valid in these circles, regardless of argument) is held in the highest regard.
But as I said: utopia ain't a thing.
It is literally impossible to create a world where everyone thinks and believes the same things. It will certainly never happen by telling people who disagree with you to shut up because they're privileged. Privilege absolutely exists -- white, cis, male, straight, all of it -- that's not what I'm saying. But you won't get rid of it by telling people they're horrible for having it. What I'm saying is that how these arguments take place -- with massive hurt and offense, with no regard for educating and respecting others, without understanding the fundamental truth that humanity will ALWAYS disagree with itself -------
It is so deeply counterproductive.
Claire Fox articulates some of this in her book (with no regard for giving offense, of course), and she doesn't do a phenomenal job. At times, she is articulate and convincing. But there is no love in this book -- no desire for anything better, just the hope of protecting 'freedom of speech' without really explaining why it matters. This battle seems personal for her, which is fine -- but she obviously doesn't like young people, and in that, she's falling into the exact line that the people she argues against take. You can't scream at people, tell them they're stupid, wrong, pathetic, and expect them to listen.
I do not want to live in a mindless, safe utopia. But I don't want to live in Claire Fox's world, either, where people make rude, crass jokes and spew hate speech just because they can, because their rights are protected.
There has to be another way.
Wait.
There is a place where you can explore all the things you don't get to in real life. That place where you can freely encounter offensive and confusing ideas and sit with them, privately, for awhile -- try to figure out where they fit with your self, how you could discuss them if someone asked. Where you meet people and see inside their heads, their backstories and contexts -- can even empathize with some of those who live lives you'd consider horrendous. Where anything is game, where worlds are created and destroyed and possible and it all happens in that rich emotional space where you learn best.
Fiction matters.
Stories matter.
Talking about and criticizing these things matters.
Encountering other ideas matters, as much as being kind to each other, as much as being angry with each other, as much as running the whole gamut of human emotion, including stress and fear and rage ------ because we will not truly improve, we will never actually change, as a race or as individuals, without it.
I want to be loving and respectful, but I do not want to be safe.
Feel free to take offense.