I have to say that I pretty much hated this book. I only gave it that extra star because the actual writing is pretty good. She spins a good tale, and pretty much the only person you like in the book is Janie, her best friend. Kate, the main character, is pretty much one of the most selfish people I have ever read as a main character. You just feel sorry for her husband, whom she doesn't really love, but thought was suitable to marry because he was "nice", and you really feel sorry for her kids. She does love them, but she tends to drop them off at day care and other people's houses for playdates a lot (never actually hosting one herself). She complains constantly about not having time to take care of herself - I'm not saying she needs to be impeccably groomed like the other Moms at the playground - but at least clean clothes would be a step in the right direction. She also compares constantly that everyone else is wearing or using much more expensive clothing than her and her children have - but it's from choice, really. The author states how much money her husband makes, and with the neighborhood they chose to live in, if she wanted to care enough to dress more nicely, or have her kids in better clothes, or even have them eat better food, she could. She complains about not having time to do any of those things, yet she makes time to do all this investigating. It just shows that while she is resentful of the other moms because they take time to make snacks for their kids instead of feeding them processed food, and because they dress better and look better - she has no desire to apply any change like that into her own life. She has the money, the means, and apparently the time that she thinks she doesn't have (until she makes time to do investigative work, that is). She just likes to complain and feel sorry for herself more. And that bugs the crap out of me.
On a personal level, she made it sound like the moms who tried to do alternative or green parenting were robots or aliens at best. That normal people just couldn't or wouldn't want to try to make their kids eat healthily (or at the very least, not prepared, processed, or frozen food all the time). I mean, her kids all got the stomach flu, and the first thing she gives them when they're better is freaking Rice Krispie Treats! And then she feels a mixture of guilt, but also defiance that she is not like those other moms. Excuse me, I work up to 4 jobs at a time, and don't make a lot of money. We live very simply, and I take care of my appearance, as well as my daughter's - even if she is in second hand clothes, at least they're clean most of the time - and we cloth diapered and she eats mostly a diet of organic food. It's not rocket science. It's a desire to keep your kids healthy, and to take care of yourself. Not that hard to do.
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So, why did I read this book when I hated the main character so much? Well, like I said, that extra star up there is for plot development. You may not like the characters, but the plot does keep it moving. You want to find out who did it, and why. You also want to find out what happens with her relationships. Is she doing to leave her nice husband and go back to her old flame, the only man she ever really loved? Even though it was unrequited until she became unavailable - which seems to be his thing. Only wants what he can't have. And for her? It was frustrating because the story kept jumping back and forth between the past and present, and you're wondering how she loved this other man so intensely and ended up where she is now. About halfway through the book, you finally find out what caused the big rift and falling out between her and Evan, the man she really loved. And it was lame. He got drunk, they made out, he felt guilty because he had a fiance, and did she stay and fight for him? Bare her soul? Tell him how she felt? Other than a whisper of love when he was passed out - NO. She didn't. She ran away. Then she met her husband, decided he was nice and suitable, and married him. Even did nothing really to deserve her mirth. He acted with honor by NOT cheating on his (cheating) fiance. You think for a while that Kate is going to go ahead and cheat on her husband with Evan, and other than a couple of kisses and heavy groping, she doesn't. Because that would have been the last straw in trying to find anything likable about her character. But she constantly lies to her husband, and goes behind his back, even to a point of almost getting him fired. He puts up with her, genuinely loves her, and really makes an effort to salvage their relationship. So, you're wondering, how is this going to end? What will become of this intense desire within her to investigate? Will she open her own PI Business? Become a cop? (doubtful). What is going to happen with her and her husband? With Evan? Will she finally run away from her life and take off with Evan, leaving 3 kids and a devastated husband behind? I wouldn't put it past her. She's utterly selfish. But, you don't even get the satisfaction of finding out. She does solve the mystery - of who murdered Kitty, that is (not who fathered Kitty, which is what it was more about it seemed) - she almost gets her kids killed in the process, even. But then what does she do? Runs away. Again. Leaves her husband, moves her kids and mother into a house in Cape Cod, and ignores the rest of the world. Her husband sells their old house and rents a condo nearby, coming out every weekend to play with the kids and try to save their marriage. After he did nothing wrong in the first place. Even still calls her, trying to get her to run away with him. She lies in the ocean and ignores everyone. The End. How unsatisfying is THAT?!