Playground Politics is the first book to look at the neglected middle years of childhood--from kindergarten to junior high--and to help parents understand the enormous emotional challenges these children are facing. In witty, vivid stories, Dr. Greenspan brings to life the major emotional milestones of these years, when children move from the shelter of the family to the harsh rivalries of "playground politics," and toward an independent self image. His empathy for the turmoil children bring home from school, and for the parents who try to help, is deep and reassuring.
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Stanley Greenspan (June 1, 1941 – April 27, 2010)[1] was an American child psychiatrist and clinical professor of Psychiatry, Behavioral Science, and Pediatrics at George Washington University Medical School. He was best known for developing the floortime approach for attempting to treat children with autistic spectrum disorders and developmental disabilities.[2]
He was Chairman of the Interdisciplinary Council on Developmental and Learning Disorders and also a Supervising Child Psychoanalyst at the Washington Psychoanalytic Institute. A graduate of Harvard College and Yale Medical School,[2] Greenspan was the founding president of Zero to Three: National Center for Infants, Toddlers, and Families and former director of the National Institute of Mental Health's Clinical Infant Developmental Program and Mental Health Study Center.[3]
I really enjoyed Dr. Greenspan’s lens on the tremendous emotional growth in children in what is often called the latency period after the growth spurt of early childhood and before puberty and adolescents
Stanley Greenspan is a child psychologist and I base a lot of my therapy at work on his ideas about children with special needs. But this book is about the develpment of all school aged children. I read it over and over again as my step son gets older and it really helps me understand some of the crazy things he does.
I thought this book provided great information on the developmental stages kids go through from ages 5-12, and the kinds of things parents can do to help make kids feel secure enough at home to be able to weather all the things that go on at school in the early schooling years to prepare themselves for puberty and the teen years.
The 5 steps (1. Floor Time, 2. Problem-Solving Time, 3. Understanding Child's Point-of-View, 4. Breaking the Challenge Into Smaller Pieces, & 5. Setting Limits) were consistent. I also liked how this book was not just all-theory, but they went thru several case-studies showing how the steps were applied to differ children dealing with different situations & challenges.
He is a renowned Child Psychiatrist that I saw and heard speak at an Autism conference long ago and I thought his overall philosophy of a child's emotional development was right on. I have been wanting to read this book for years!!
The goal of this book is to give parents tools to understand their children and to aid in their emotional development. It's about twice as long as it needs to be, but I believe in his approach and appreciate the concrete examples.
We spend a lot of time talking to kids about bullying and how to handle it which is great. But, I think we have neglected to teach our children how to simply be kind to one another.