What I liked about HERO:
It is motivating and inspirational. Open any page in the book, and you will get something to uplift you. Think of any ingredient to success, and you will probably find a section devoted to it. Motivation, vision, gratitude, never quitting etc.
What i did not like about HERO:
- The book lacked coherence. There are no complete stories of the Heroes featured in the book. In stead, it is more like a book of quotations from the featured Heroes. Rhonda did not have very much to say throughout, rather than give a few examples from her life supporting the topic discussed.
- The book contradicted itself at a few places, and went against some of the ideas presented in The Secret (Focusing more on the concepts of hard-work, competition, consistency, determination than effortlessness, abundance etc.).
While the section on intuition encourages us to go by our gut feeling, and trusting the first insight we receive from our Universal Mind, on page 66 we are told to "think things through more carefully before taking big action".
While Rhonda talks about someone who, after committed to his dream, saw amazing effortless co-incidences within just 2 weeks, on page 139 one featured Hero says "it's a cinch by the inch, it's hard by the yard". And on page 132 another Hero implies that we should not believe in instant gratification and "if it hasn't happened yet, keep trying". Doesn't that mean that life is tough and we need to work hard to get to our dreams? Doesn't this go against the Law of Attraction and The Secret, that teach us to believe in abundance and instant manifestation if we are aligned with the Source?
- Maybe this is just a personal thing. But I did not relate to any of the Heroes featured in the book. It might be because of the lack of continuity. If the book told complete stories of these heroes, it would have made a more inspirational read, and also helped us get a bigger picture of the lives of these people.
Also (maybe it is just my bad general knowledge), I had not heard of many of these contributors. No doubt they are very successful in their careers. But I think one of the reasons they were chosen was because they all have foundations and charities to which a part of the revenue from the sale of this book is contributed. This is in lines with the final step of a Hero's journey where they help others who are less fortunate.
- There were many ideas that I did not agree with. According to the book, every HERO has to face a final Supreme Ordeal before success. And that ordeal is the biggest challenge we all face. "On the Hero's journey there is a final challenge you will face before the reward of success". This might be true for some people, and true in super-hero movies, but does not necessarily apply to every hero's journey.
- Rhonda implies that at the end of journey when we finally "arrive" at our destination, with all the fame, glory and money (The Reward) a final step remains. And that is to help others less fortunate. "Something colossal happens to you on your Hero's journey. You undergo a transformation, and through that transformation you are driven to take one more step on the journey. It's the final step. In taking this final step you become a true hero, and the Hero's Journey is complete"
But does helping someone always have to happen at the end of the journey? Is it another "step"? Shouldn't helping others happen all along the journey? And does the journey ever end? Do we ever really arrive? I don't think so.
Overall, while inspirational, this book has not lived up to my expectations. If you are young, just starting out on your journey, HERO will have a lot of golden nuggets of advice. But if you are already on your journey, the book will just be a refresher of things that you already probably know.