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How to Stand Up to Bullying
Bullying. Something that is done every second, daily. Don't need a statistic to be told otherwise. Many don't even realize they are a constant victim of bullying, as it tends to get buried as an underlying emotion. Many don't realize they are actually a bully themselves. There are several references for parents to go to in order to help their children stand up against it, but there's not much for adults or depicting in why a bully is a bully in the first place. That's the first step. Before we all can stand up to bullying, we must first understand why a bully bullies to begin with.
76 pages, Paperback
First published July 3, 2023
2 people want to read
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M.C. Ryder
7 books19 followersAward-winning author M. C. Ryder has been composing stories, poems, and lyrics from the beginning of time when reading became a hobby. The sky is the limit but enjoys exploring off the beaten path both figuratively and literally. Resides in the Keystone State with a clowder of felines who rule the house. Enjoys long trail walks during the cozy tinge of Autumn, appreciates music with deep lyrical meaning, and relishes in reading a variety of genres.
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July 9, 2023
"How to Stand Up to Bullying" written by the author M.C. Ryder is a must read book. The author has explained what a bully is. A bully is someone who treats us with disrespect in order to rise above. The author has explained why bullies bully. Even bullies crave love and they want to be seen.
A bully doesn't get the love he/she needs that's why they start troubling other people. This book would help the readers to realize if they are being bullied or are a bully themselves.
This book is not just for kids. It's for adults as well as we face bullying many times even in the corporate world. The author has written this book well. It has increased my awareness of bullying a lot. Now, if I come across a bully, I can stand up for myself very well. It is an insightful read and I am glad to read this book. Looking forward to reading more books by the author. I strongly recommend it to my fellow readers.
A bully doesn't get the love he/she needs that's why they start troubling other people. This book would help the readers to realize if they are being bullied or are a bully themselves.
This book is not just for kids. It's for adults as well as we face bullying many times even in the corporate world. The author has written this book well. It has increased my awareness of bullying a lot. Now, if I come across a bully, I can stand up for myself very well. It is an insightful read and I am glad to read this book. Looking forward to reading more books by the author. I strongly recommend it to my fellow readers.
October 17, 2023
Through this book, the author aims to educate readers how to deal with bullies. We all must have been bullied multiple times in our lives. This book helps us to know who the bully is, why the bully does whatever he does, what they want?, etc.
Break the cycle
Stand tall and firm
Say no
Bullying is abuse
They are the thunder
You are the lightning
Strike them down with your voice
Easy to run your mouth
From the protection of a screen
Easy to feed your ego
By tearing someone down
The above poem tells us that bullying is abuse and we shouldn't be afraid of bullies. Instead, we should stand tall, firm and strike the bully with our bold voice. The way to deal with bullies is kindness. It would take a lot of warm words to break through their ice.
The author teaches us to be kind to ourselves as we can't love others without loving ourselves. The author has mentioned that kindness is sunshine. To chase away the dark, we need kindness.
The author has written this book after facing bullying herself multiple times. She reminds us that we should stand up against bullying and in the end, love wins. This book is written in a simple language so more people could read it and protect themselves from being abused by bullies.
Break the cycle
Stand tall and firm
Say no
Bullying is abuse
They are the thunder
You are the lightning
Strike them down with your voice
Easy to run your mouth
From the protection of a screen
Easy to feed your ego
By tearing someone down
The above poem tells us that bullying is abuse and we shouldn't be afraid of bullies. Instead, we should stand tall, firm and strike the bully with our bold voice. The way to deal with bullies is kindness. It would take a lot of warm words to break through their ice.
The author teaches us to be kind to ourselves as we can't love others without loving ourselves. The author has mentioned that kindness is sunshine. To chase away the dark, we need kindness.
The author has written this book after facing bullying herself multiple times. She reminds us that we should stand up against bullying and in the end, love wins. This book is written in a simple language so more people could read it and protect themselves from being abused by bullies.
October 17, 2023
"How to Stand Up to Bullying" written by the author M.C. Ryder is a must read book. This book is for kids as well as adults. In the corporate world, I have seen powerful seniors bullying juniors. People who don't have the courage to stand up for themselves get bullied again and again.
This book helps us to understand who the bully is. The bully is a person who treats others with disrespect to rise above. A bully enjoys inflicting pain on others or they don't realize they are being cruel. Bullying is a form of hate. No one is born hating another person. People learn to hate so they can be taught to love too.
The author has given an example of how she stood up to bully. Bullies always prey on the weak. Bullies wanted to be seen, loved, appreciated, etc. A person becomes a bully after being hurt. They believe they are undeserving and they start to feed on hate.
This book is well written. It provided me with an amazing level of understanding regarding bullying and being bullied. Now, I understand why the people who bullied me did it. This is a must read book by kids, parents, corporate employees, students, etc. Looking forward to reading more such books by the author.
This book helps us to understand who the bully is. The bully is a person who treats others with disrespect to rise above. A bully enjoys inflicting pain on others or they don't realize they are being cruel. Bullying is a form of hate. No one is born hating another person. People learn to hate so they can be taught to love too.
The author has given an example of how she stood up to bully. Bullies always prey on the weak. Bullies wanted to be seen, loved, appreciated, etc. A person becomes a bully after being hurt. They believe they are undeserving and they start to feed on hate.
This book is well written. It provided me with an amazing level of understanding regarding bullying and being bullied. Now, I understand why the people who bullied me did it. This is a must read book by kids, parents, corporate employees, students, etc. Looking forward to reading more such books by the author.
July 27, 2023
Another amazing book by M.C. Ryder. This book is heartfelt and truthful. It hits to the core of your soul. I loved this book it was absolutely exciting, and amazing, but so very true in today's world of bullies. It hit me in the heart in a few places. Some things were very hard to digest and grasp, but it is all so very true in our world of bullies today, and in days past. It surly made me think about the bullies that I still deal with every single day in the work place, in the stores, in restaurants, and even on the highway. Also, I could sense and feel the same pain by the author in her own words, and in this story. Again, this is another page turner, and not just for the young at heart, but for everyone out there! I have learned so much from reading this book. It sure is helping me to cope a bit better in today's world. JUST SAY NO!!!!!! A very easy word, but so hard to do lol. Since reading this book, I AM getting better at this process!
August 20, 2023
Bullying manifests in a multitude of ways, extending beyond the stereotypical playground tyrant hurling insults. In “How to Stand Up to Bullying,” author M.C. Ryder goes beyond merely defining the term. Ryder explores the various manifestations of bullying and attempts to unravel the origin stories of bullies. It’s an exploration grounded in empathy and understanding, seeking not only to define but to comprehend the underlying motivations of bullying.
The essence of this book is not merely to provide insight into bullies but to serve as a comprehensive guide for victims of bullying. It offers a roadmap to navigate those perilous situations when one finds oneself targeted. The crux of Ryder’s argument is that your response to bullying, whatever it may be, is pivotal in determining whether the aggression escalates, continues, or ceases altogether.
“How to Stand Up to Bullying” is marked by its simplicity and direct approach. With a first-person narrative that adds a personal touch, the author establishes a deep connection with readers, further strengthened by the integration of personal stories. Bullying, a subject particularly relevant in today’s society, given its connection to tragic incidents in schools, demands a delicate and considered approach. Ryder succeeds in this regard, offering a thought-provoking conversation starter that explores not only the formation of a bully but the means to guide them onto a more compassionate path.
Despite its brevity, this book is far from superficial. It can be absorbed in a single hour, but its concise chapters deliver substantial impact. There are two key takeaways: first, that bullying is not innate but learned behavior; and second, bullies seek visibility and recognition. These insights are presented with clarity and resonate deeply.
The universal relevance of “How to Stand Up to Bullying” is one of its great strengths. It’s not aimed at a specific demographic because bullying permeates all facets of life, from schools to workplaces and even religious institutions. Ryder accentuates that the stakes increase with age; where a school altercation may lead to the principal’s office, a similar conflict in adulthood may result in legal trouble. Therefore, the book serves as an essential guide for anyone wishing to defuse a bullying situation before it escalates.
Parents may find particular value in this book, as childhood often sows the seeds of bullying. By understanding the pain underlying these behaviors, parents can equip their children to stand up to bullies and ensure they don’t tread that path themselves.
“How to Stand Up to Bullying” by M.C. Ryder is a compelling read that addresses a timely and sensitive issue with care, insight, and practical wisdom. It offers readers not only an understanding of bullies but tools to confront and redirect these behaviors. Whether you’re a parent, a teacher, or simply someone looking to understand this complex issue better, this book holds valuable lessons for all.
The essence of this book is not merely to provide insight into bullies but to serve as a comprehensive guide for victims of bullying. It offers a roadmap to navigate those perilous situations when one finds oneself targeted. The crux of Ryder’s argument is that your response to bullying, whatever it may be, is pivotal in determining whether the aggression escalates, continues, or ceases altogether.
“How to Stand Up to Bullying” is marked by its simplicity and direct approach. With a first-person narrative that adds a personal touch, the author establishes a deep connection with readers, further strengthened by the integration of personal stories. Bullying, a subject particularly relevant in today’s society, given its connection to tragic incidents in schools, demands a delicate and considered approach. Ryder succeeds in this regard, offering a thought-provoking conversation starter that explores not only the formation of a bully but the means to guide them onto a more compassionate path.
Despite its brevity, this book is far from superficial. It can be absorbed in a single hour, but its concise chapters deliver substantial impact. There are two key takeaways: first, that bullying is not innate but learned behavior; and second, bullies seek visibility and recognition. These insights are presented with clarity and resonate deeply.
The universal relevance of “How to Stand Up to Bullying” is one of its great strengths. It’s not aimed at a specific demographic because bullying permeates all facets of life, from schools to workplaces and even religious institutions. Ryder accentuates that the stakes increase with age; where a school altercation may lead to the principal’s office, a similar conflict in adulthood may result in legal trouble. Therefore, the book serves as an essential guide for anyone wishing to defuse a bullying situation before it escalates.
Parents may find particular value in this book, as childhood often sows the seeds of bullying. By understanding the pain underlying these behaviors, parents can equip their children to stand up to bullies and ensure they don’t tread that path themselves.
“How to Stand Up to Bullying” by M.C. Ryder is a compelling read that addresses a timely and sensitive issue with care, insight, and practical wisdom. It offers readers not only an understanding of bullies but tools to confront and redirect these behaviors. Whether you’re a parent, a teacher, or simply someone looking to understand this complex issue better, this book holds valuable lessons for all.
December 5, 2024
M.C. Ryder has written the all things to know about standing up for yourself when it comes to bullying. It is a heartfelt book that teaches why people become a bully and what you can really do to stand up to a bully. Ryder has a way of genuinely talking about a tough subject from a compassionate but firm viewpoint. Stand up to Bullying covers everything from standing up to your bully by saying, "no," to ignoring the bully, to finding kindness as a way to throw off your bully.
Opinion:
This book can be a great resource for preteens up through adults, especially those who are looking for a relatable and heartfelt informational text about what they can do to stop a bully. It offers strategies and tools for several settings including, school, home, and the workplace. Ryder is not a psychologist or counselor but writes with empathy and knowledge of these specialties. Worth the read and one that parents, teachers, and other adults should have on their shelves as a go-to resource.
Opinion:
This book can be a great resource for preteens up through adults, especially those who are looking for a relatable and heartfelt informational text about what they can do to stop a bully. It offers strategies and tools for several settings including, school, home, and the workplace. Ryder is not a psychologist or counselor but writes with empathy and knowledge of these specialties. Worth the read and one that parents, teachers, and other adults should have on their shelves as a go-to resource.
February 2, 2024
This can be read in generally one day. The chapters are short, but pack a lot of insightful information to digest slowly about bullies, being bullied, and how to stand up to bullies. A must read for everyone!
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