(Get ready for a major rant full of sarcasm and laughing-yelling through words.)
For certain people, this book is amazing. It will speak to you and inspire you to fill up your life with positive energy! For me? Nope. I definitely had some struggles with agreeing with this book, and thus it wasn't my favorite. It was incredibly cheesy and had no acknowledgement of the realistic struggles people go through. Rainbows and sunshine was taken to a whole new level by means of this beep-boppin ENERGY BUS. YEAAAAAAAHHHHHH!!!!!!!!
Okay, so some lovely backstory for you all: my family decided to read The Energy Bus for a little book club, and it was amusing how half of our family strongly criticized this book while the other half enjoyed reading it and was appalled at the complaints. It was interesting to see because this book will apply to certain people, and sometimes not others, and that's perfectly okay and understandable. Unfortunately, this book did not speak to me at all. Maybe a teeny-tiny bit in some parts, but overall no. With that in mind, this review is incredibly subjective to my own opinions, so don't base the whole book off of what I think.
What I got from this book:
- fake it till you make it
- kick the more pessimistic people in your life (they don't deserve you and are ruining your positive energy)
- only focus and love on the good people!
Meanwhile, we have a flawed main character who all of a sudden doesn't associate himself with the "negative people," so of course in this book's view, he's worthy of love. What a mess.
First of all, emotions are soo important. I think choosing to hide them and cover with positive energy is so harmful to yourself, as you're not giving yourself the time you deserve to process the negative change, to think about it and find a solution to it. Instead, this book considers sadness, anger, and frustration bad and must be covered up with positive energy. I could see this being helpful for CERTAIN PEOPLE - maybe an individual does not do well with feeling deep emotions and needs to find some upbeat alternative once in a while. That's totally fine! But to consider this as a book for all people? Some prefer, and even NEED, to process negative emotions rather than treating the thoughts as insufficient and stuffing it deeper. This book seems to criticize those sorts of people, thinking that this positive-energy-rainbows-and-sunshine process will work for every single individual. IT DOESNT.
Secondly, it's very hypocritical. I couldn't help but laugh at certain scenes because of how bad it is. Here we have George, the main character. (Hello George.) You see, George began the book as a "negative person." He was grumpy, depressed, and not a nice fella to be around. But then, Joy decides to befriend him and teach the ways of positive thinking, and he began to be transformed. Not bad, right? I'm happy for George.
BUT THEN IT GETS HILARIOUSLY MESSED UP...
Joy creates these sets of rules, one of them being: "kick out the Energy Vampires," meaning George should kick out people who portray negative energy and suck all the positive energy. So, okay... why didn't Joy kick out George then?! He's negative. Instead, she brought him into her life and encouraged him while GEORGE HERE WAS THE ENERGY VAMPIRE. Please explain, honey. Are there certain people that are exceptions of this rule?? Can I be one of them, just as a precaution??
AND THEN...oh my goodness...IT GETS EVEN BETTER - Joy gives George a dark and dirty rock and tells him to keep it. Eventually, George rubs off the dirt and realizes it's gold. Wow! That means, inside ALL PEOPLE are people who are worthy of love, no matter how dirty they are on the outside.
...HAHA WHOOPS - I misinterpreted it. Basically, Joy implies that this ONLY is for the positive people, the ones that George didn't kick out of the company because of their personality (and it was totally valid because George here wasn't being a good manager for God knows how long, and the employees had to be frustrated at that point). Anyways... truly lovely. Thanks, Joy!
I need to stop typing before I begin to go through the whole book and point out all the things I dislike, so I shall come to a conclusion. Positivity is so needed in this world - to encourage and lift up people who are down. I think this book has some really good points but the implications in the book seem to really ruin the whole goal. The book distinguishes "positive" people as good and "negative" people as bad. While they are attempting to create an inspiring and welcoming atmosphere, the deeper meaning is really concerning and I just can't forget about it. I mean, surely there are struggles that have caused people to be negative, right? So instead of taking them out of our lives, shouldn't we love them more and care for them just as Jesus did with sinners? Just a thought for the mind.
I apologize for this insane review (this is once in a lifetime, so enjoy it, folks), but I hope it was somewhat entertaining.
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