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333 pages, Kindle Edition
Published November 7, 2023
... question the assumption that low self-control was an innate flaw or always irrational. 'For a child accustomed to stolen possessions and broken promises, the only guaranteed treats are the ones you have already swallowed' .... the deficit model, the prevalent assumption in his field that children from challenged backgrounds are cognitively damaged and in need of 'fixing' ... failed to account for people's capacity to adjust to the demands of their current environments. ... many social workers, resilience researchers, and psychologists viewed impoverished children's wariness and opportunism as a kind of excusable frailty. They saw such reactivity as a mismatch with the safe, predictable world that everyone should inhabit. What mattered for people in lower-socioeconomic strata were the future skills that they would need in order to fit into the mainstream one day, or so the common thinking went. ... What do kids growing up in a world where threat can come without warning have to learn to do well? ... What do they do as well as or better than kids across town who have order, resources, and sometimes surfeits of adult attention? ... Youths raised in upheaval pick up on subtle changes in a fast-evolving situation, such as faint signs of anger or deceit ... When coaxed to feel that the world was growing more unpredictable via a newspaper article, participants raised in chaos excelled on tests of working memory updating... And increasingly, policymakers, scientists, foundations and activists are heeding his calls to question the overly clean-cut story of poverty's deficits and rehumanize people whose skills have been denigrated by a society deeply fearful of unpredictability.