The McLaughlin clan is an Irish American Catholic family living in New Jersey.
Three generations —
and six points of views from Gracie, Catharine, Louis Leary, Lila, Kelly, and Noreen Ballen.
Gracie was in her late twenties - single and pregnant. Out-of-wedlock was a Catholic ‘sin’ expressed openly in the McLaughlin family.
However,
Gram, (Catharine), was knitting a blanket for her first great-great grandchild. Gracie was planning on keeping her baby, and Gram is thrilled.
Noreen Ballen - a local nurse (usually worked at Valley Hospital) has been watching over Catharine at her home since recently returning home after a three day hospital stay.
All the McLaughlin children and grandchildren were worried about Gram. They were shocked to realize she is dying.
Gram had always been the strength for everyone.
Noreen’s husband, Eddie, recently died in a construction accident.
His boss, Louis Leary ( husband of a Kelly McLaughlin)…. felt so bad about Eddie’s death, he arranged the home-nursing private care for Noreen. Catharine needed daily help at home during her last dying days.
Louis was such a great man (the McLaughlin- married in- ‘outsider’)…. he really just wanted to ‘give’ Noreen money after her husband died on his watch - ‘his’ construction site.
But Louis knew about pride - knew Noreen would never accept gift money (which she needed with two young kids to raise on her own)- so it was a perfect win-win solution hiring Noreen to watch Catharine.
Noreen would step out of Gram’s bedroom when one of the McLaughin kids visited - giving them their private time.
Gracie was the most frequent visitor. “Poor Gracie” she was called. (out of wedlock in her late twenties).
Gracie liked speaking to Noreen when she visited Gram—her grandmother was just too tired for much talking.
Gracie needed ‘somebody’ to trust - to talk to — and Noreen was perfect ( she had two little kids with no husband now that Eddie had died). Gracie had questions.
Gracie was wondering how it is raising children as a single parent, and had questions about giving birth.
Gracie cherish Gram growing up. She was the one offspring who looked at Gram as if she were God….”powerful enough to raise the sun into the sky”.
Gram lost three children and a husband. And she raised raised four children.
Gram was a strong-like-bull matriarch.
Gracie was the youngest grandchild, Gracie, had the most sincere loving relationship- more than the other grandkids or even her own kids. Their bond was tight.
But with Gram having little energy left in her last days of living — it was Noreen who she brought her ‘childbirth’ questions to.
Noreen, another McLaughlin outsider, notice things the other family members didn’t think about.
When Lila visited Gram—for example—rather than say thank you to Noreen for watching over her grandmother… she says,
“I would think this would be boring as hell for you”.
Lila was a third year medical student at the hospital. Lila ‘assumed’ Noreen wanted to be a doctor — assumed every nurse was yearning to become one.
Noreen set Lila straight - she never wanted to be anything but a nurse since she was a child.
Noreen said:
“I prefer to help people more simply, and attend to their comfort. Comfort is a much underrated commodity in general, and it means everything to the sick”.
I liked this book - we learn a lot about Gracie and Lila ( the two adult sisters - who were once semi-estranged - and very different from each other - are temporarily living together).
We get to know all the McLaughlins - Kelly, Pat Jr. Theresa, Meggy (each of their struggles)
background history starting with history and beliefs passed down from Gram/Catharine —a powerful awesome McLaughlin!
We meet the McLaughlin men, too: Patrick Sr. and Patrick Jr.
We also meet the town Major (Vince Carrelli).
This novel isn’t perfect -a little too long - but this was Ann Napolitano’s debut novel…..clearly a skillful new author …..
“Dear Edward” was Napolitano’s breakout novel - named one of the best novels of the year - last year: 2020.
“Dear Edward” was the more perfected book, IMO, too….
but I enjoyed my time spent with this story.
I’m an Ann Napolitano fan— I want to read everything she writes.
A few excerpts:
“My grandmother gave birth often, which I suppose increased her odds for tragedy. Her first born, a sweet, chatty daughter, died when she was three years old from dehydration and the flu. My mother had become the oldest McLaughlin child by default, and three more of my five aunts and uncles were already walking or crawling, climbing over the furniture, and driving my grandfather, whose heart had broken with the death of his first baby, crazy when my grandmother became pregnant with twins”.
They were stillborn”.
Louis said:
“The McLaughlin Family has their own means of communication, secret ways of attack, and fierce alliances that are unreadable to outsiders. And I have always remained an outsider”.
This was a story - written with love—family-complicated compassion and understandings.
I think it’s impossible for the reader to not think about their own family… their immediate family: parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and our own children.
It’s also an opportunity to take a look at being the outsider…marrying into an
already-set-in-their ways- family—with strong briefs.
The McLaughin family represented power, prestige, righteousness…..and verbal suppression. There were feelings of resentment, guilt, betrayal, and loyalty.
An enjoyable generational family saga!
My one quibble and giggle is it (at times) it felt like nine full months of pregnancy.