**Warning: This book mentions about suicide.**
"Majak" by Majak Daw (Audiobook)
Reviewed by 7 Feb 2022
It's Black History Month and I've made it a point to read at least ten books by black authors this month. I've never heard of Majak Daw before, which is exactly why I picked this book to read. I was a bit hesitant at first because I do not follow AFL and didn't want a sporty book. I was surprised to really enjoy "reading" this book.
The beginning of the memoir opened up with Majak's childhood in Sudan. I liked the story of how he lost part of his finger. Was it because his pet lion bit his finger off? Oh no, it wasn't a lion; it was actually a tiger. Oh, actually, it was a sewing accident, which he was too embarrassed to tell people because children should not be working. People wouldn't understand the truth because the Australian culture is so different from how Majak was raised in Sudan. I enjoyed hearing about his immigration stories and experiences in Egypt. There, at times, he and his siblings has to pretend they were Muslim so they wouldn't get abused by the locals.
I loved the family unity of immigrants, having 6 family members and still opening the home to an immigrant family of 10. I loved how Majak became very close to his brother Augustin because, at first, they only had each other in school. Playing sport allowed Majak to be accepted by his peers in school.
I loved how raw his stories were, his struggles with being famous, knowing he was a huge role model to children, his struggles with alcohol and his world of darkness, even attempting to end his life by taking a whole bottle of pills, hanging himself with the cord of his dressing gown, and even jumping off a bridge 25 meters down into the Yarra River on 18 December 2018. He was also accused of rape. Although he was not found guilty, it very much negatively affected his life. He had relationship problems with Emily, who had a few pregnancies (one miscarriage), and he admitted that he was not ready to be a father.
Luckily, Majak was found alive, although unconscious, at the river bank by the police and paramedics.
Sudanese culture and beliefs would be embarrassed by family members attempting to take their lives. It's not spoken about often and the culture doesn't understand it. Majak's dad had a hard time accepting that his son was going through mental health battles and wanted answers that were tough for Majak to give. In many African, Asian and even Western cultures, suicide is very much frowned upon. Thank goodness that Majak's mother was understanding and supportive.
This man has been through so much emotionally and he has come out resilient. Majak was lucky to have a friend like Joey and (mostly) supportive family around him. This is a reminder that things are not always as they appear on the outside. Depression and mental health battles happen too often. It's worth checking in with our good friends and family to make sure that they are truly doing ok. This memoir is well-written, poignant, and worth reading. I wish Majak the best in his recovery and thank him for becoming vulnerable and sharing with us his story. I wish more people with mental health can get the help they urgently need.
There was a video interview by the Victorian Government featuring Majak Daw for the Voice of Change. Watching the video, I was impressed by how well-spoken Majak is and how he is truly a role model and inspiration of so many young people. He was 27 years old when the video was made, the same age he jumped into the Yarra River. I couldn't tell if this video was made before or after his suicide attempt. I am just happy he continues to be a huge role model to so many people and he seems to be a good father to his son Hendrix. I know very little about Sudan, racism in Melbourne and AFL, mental health struggles and reading this book gives me a better understanding about the Sudanese culture and how that community comes together to deal with mental health. I think Majak's story is one I will remember for a long time.
This is a bit off topic, but recently, there was a 30 year old Miss America named Chelsea Kryst who jumped to her death from the 70th floor of her apartment building. This story made me very sad. There are so many beautiful people in the world who don't realise their value to others or just struggle internally. One smile, one conversation, one friend may change the trajectory of those who are experiencing mental health issues.