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214 pages, Kindle Edition
First published February 26, 1999
Clearly, though, some sense of reciprocity is necessary for a musical dialogue. So what form might that reciprocity take in order to keep the dialogue from degenerating into a monologue? I think the answer—to whatever extent there can be anything like an “answer” to such a question—is that reciprocity, to put it one way, “always begins at home.” Gadamer insists that “good will” is absolutely necessary for understanding between one another. For Gadamer, “good will” is demonstrated not when one attempts “to prove that one is always right” but when “one seeks instead as far as possible to strengthen the other’s viewpoint so that what the other person has to say becomes illuminating.” If there is to be anything resembling reciprocity, then it must begin with me. True reciprocity is only possible if I make the first move—without knowing that the other will reciprocate. Of course, whether I am a composer, performer, or listener, making the first move makes me vulnerable. For there is no guarantee that you (or anyone else taking part in the dialogue) will reciprocate. but there is also no way around this danger. (168)To me, this shows how a phenomenological approach, with all its complexity and all its frustrating moments of seemingly endless questioning, can lead us to truths about human life that go far beyond just the ideal under consideration. What Benson concludes about musicking is what I have thought so often in the past few years, wishing that somebody would have the courage to be the one who is vulnerable and doesn’t give back the same venom and sarcasm that they receive.