I loved this book. It took me a while to get through it, but I'm supremely glad I stuck with it.
First I would like to comment on the physical book copy that I have. The cover is strange. The thicker paper of the cover is coated with a substance that is almost velvety. Soft and almost skin-like, the cover absorbs the oil from your hands and leaves imprints of your fingers and palms all over. Holding and interacting with the book changes it, just as reading it changes you. Leading you to think about the fleshy impact of our bodies on the world around us.
The author, Juana Maria Rodriguez, says at the beginning that the book is meant as an intimate gesture from the author to the reader. It is certainly that. Rodriguez talks about sex, queerness, emotion, desire and all the viscous experiences we carry with us through life. She turns a critical and analytical eye to gestures, both quotidian and grand, that structure our daily and political lives. Through her discussion of gesture and affect in queer interventions into politics she urges the reader to consider the possible futures that are opened up when we do politics with emotion. One of my favorite chapters discussed the campaign for LGBTQ rights in Puerto Rico, and considers what possibilities open up when queer activists turn acts of submission into acts of protest, and the considerable changes that can occur during these radical acts.
Rodriguez takes as her central subject the queer latina, but she also touches on a long list of racialized, queer bodies in order to express on critique experience at the margins of society, and the spectacular and mundane ways that these individuals live in, through and against the society around them that seeks to dominate and destroy their bodies. She talks about pride parades, porn, burlesque, protests, video art, gay marriage, respectability, assimilation. The scope of the book is wide, but it always feels like you are being engaged directly by someone who knows the dance well, and is interested in dancing with you.
I finish this review with a quote from the last paragraph of the book:
"Our sexual politics need to begin here, in the grip between public policies that touch the soiled surfaces of our lives and utopian longings that pull us toward other sexual futures. Despite our best intentions, we know that nothing will ever be enough to remedy the harms we also hold. So let us be tender with one another, let us foster a spirit of vulnerability that cultivates the willingness to risk imagining otherwise, that values the resilience needed to share the burden of our collective longings. this is the amorous gift, a gesture of friendship, a dedication of care that endures." (187)