Gender, by Ivan Illich, published in 1982, is a fascinating book which makes a useful contribution to the history of the 'battle of the sexes'. By dividing the concepts of gender and sex, Illich weaves together a truly startling and unsettling view of the history of modern society.
This division at first appears opaque, but Illich argues that the two separate concepts have been deliberately ignored and thus confused by modern historians.
Gender refers to an ancient pattern of organizing society on gender lines. In such a system, men and women have separate work, separate tools, and separate forms of speech. For people in these societies: "To belong means to know what befits our kind of woman, our kind of man. If someone does what we consider the other gender's work, that person must be a stranger. Or a slave, deprived of all dignity. Gender is in every step, in every gesture, not just between the legs."
Sex and sexism, on the other hand, are concepts that only make sense within a gender-less society. In the old gender system, an individual couldn't be discriminated against on the basis of sex, because the two sexes were not in direct competition. Illich puts it this way: "Sexism is clearly not the continuation of patriarchal power relations in modern societies. Rather, it is a hitherto unthinkable individual degradation of one-half of humanity on a socio-biological grounds. The lower prestige assigned by patriarchal societies (of the Mediterranean or of any other type) must therefore be carefully distinguished from the personal degradation of each individual woman who, under the regime of sex, is forced to compete with men."
This is not splitting hairs, but is a disturbing revelation about the organization of modern industrial life. In gendered societies, men and women are not 'equal', but they are both necessary and valued for the categorically different types of contributions they make. The differences between them are ambiguous and asymmetrical, which discourages domination.
However, in sexed societies men and women are in competition as homogeneous entities that are nevertheless asymmetric on socio-biological grounds. "Exchange drives partners toward an ever clearer fit, (homogeneity and not ambiguity) whose asymmetry therefore tends toward hierarchy and dependence, where exchange structures relationships, a common denominator defines the fit."
Crucially, in the old gender system, men and women were economically dependent on each other. Neither could completely control the other, because both made separate but necessary contributions. But once gender was broken: "The two new functions, that of the breadwinner and that of the dependent, began to divide society at large."
Why has this distinction between gender and gender-less sex been lost? Illich asserts that: "Only when we stop looking at male roles and forms of power as the norm and begin to look at female arrangements and perceive them as equally valid and significant - though perhaps different in form - can we see how male and female roles are intertwined, and begin to understand how human societies operate." To the gender-less/sexist researcher, whose point of view is necessarily sexist, gender is invisible.
Where did the change between gendered and sexist societies begin? Illich traces the shift to the changing ideological worldview of the Catholic Church: "By restricting power, privilege, and ordination to men, Church law was not sexist; it simply reflected its sources. Church law did pioneer sexism by ruling on the consciences of equally immortal souls capable of committing the same sin with different bodies. By equating, in terms of sin, the transgressions of the same law by both men and women, it laid the foundation for sexist codes."
Illich also notes the changed significance of marriage. "What had been principally a ceremony to tie together two families related by complex lines of kinship became the event by which two individuals were joined for life in the new economic unit of the couple, an entity that could be taxed."
There are many implications of the gender to sex transition, which Illich gets into in detail, but that I won't attempt to summarize here.
The main question for me is, what have we lost with the loss of gender? Illich states: "Vernacular culture is a truce between genders, and sometimes a cruel one. (...) In contrast to this truce, the regime of scarcity imposes continued war and ever new kinds of defeat on each woman. While under the reign of gender they are subordinate, under any economic regime they are only the second sex."
For Illich: "'Vernacular' means those things that are homemade, homespun, home-grown - not destined for the marketplace, but that are for home use only."
The loss of gender is primarily the loss of subsistence. Whereas in the past gendered society provided the means of survival, today the marketplace allegedly does the same. "For a generation, development has swallowed those environmental resources that had allowed people to meet most of their needs without recourse to the marketplace, and in the process they have unlearned most of the skills necessary for subsistence."
To me, this indicates that as a society we have lost the ability to be self-regulating, self-provisioning, and self-made. Industrial society is today dependent on international power struggles and international catastrophes. Instead of being exposed to a few local and manageable threats, today the livelihoods of billions of people are exposed to unmanageable risks in systems of unprecedented size and fragility.
While I certainly don't propose a return to patriarchal patterns of gendered living, it is clear that the battle of the sexes is creating a worldwide crisis in living. It would be interesting to see what Illich would make of today's popular culture's destruction of the gender line. From this point of view, any discussion of 'gender' is obsolete and, in the exact confusion of terms this book aims to combat, sexist.
Can the social differences between the sexes be erased? Modern industrial culture states emphatically yes, as the myth of the objective marketplace is built on the myth of equal competition between gender-less individuals, but I believe this is a misleading question which ignores the importance of the physical world. Such a question can only be asked if we assume that the physical differences between biological men and women can be overcome.
The physical reality of biological women giving birth will simply not bend to the dreams of a gender-less world. However, instead of demanding the end of bigotry, I believe it would be much more useful to demand the end of economic dependence. The goal of ending bigotry is not wrong, but it fails to recognize that bigotry is inevitable wherever we must decide how to divide 'scarce' resources on social or biological grounds.
Ultimately, I believe the problem is not social and biological differences between individuals and ‘identities’, but the concept of economic scarcity. In economics, scarcity has a very particular definition. Illich says this about the concept :“Scarcity is historical, as historical as gender or sex. The era of scarcity could come to be only on the assumption that ‘man’ is individual, possessive, and, in the matter of material survival, gender-less - a rapacious neutrum oeconomicum.”
The assumption of possessive, gender-less individuals is not an inevitable truism, as many a modern economist would have us believe.
What does the concept of economic abundance look like? That isn’t a question Illich proposes to answer, but by clearing the air of incorrect notions of the ‘inevitability’ of modern life, he leaves us in a much more complicated and fruitful space. It is important to understand where we have come from, in order to move on. As Illich puts it: "All living is dwelling, the shaping of a dwelling. To dwell means to live in the traces that past living has left."
Interestingly, to 'dwell' on something in modern culture has negative connotations. However, if we are going to make a live-able future, we must find a way to make a living, to dwell, in the world the past created.