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Katherine Mansfield is the celebrated biography be bestselling author Claire Tomalin 'One of the best biographies I have ever a perfect match of author and subject. It should become a classic' Alison Lurie Pursuing art and adventure across Europe, Katherine Mansfield lived and wrote with the Furies on her heels; but when she died aged only thirty-four she became one of the most influential writers of the twentieth century. Sexually ambiguous, craving love yet quarrelsome and capricious, she glittered in the brilliant circles of D. H. Lawrence and Virginia Woolf, her beauty and recklessness inspiring admiration, jealousy, rage and devotion. Claire Tomalin's biography brings us nearer than we have ever been to this courageous, greatly gifted, haunted and haunting writer. 'Generous, dispassionate, even-handed, setting out probably as plainly as anyone ever will Katherine's high hopes, the odds she faced and the impossible obstacles that ditched her in the end' Hilary Spurling, Daily Telegraph 'Provides the finest and most subtly shaded portrait so far' John Gross, New York Times From the acclaimed author of Samuel The Unequalled Self, Charles A Life and The Invisible Woman, this virtuoso biography is invaluable reading for lovers of Katherine Mansfield everywhere. Claire Tomalin is the award-winning author of eight highly acclaimed biographies, The Life and Death of Mary Wollstonecraft; Shelley and His World; Katherine A Secret Life; The Invisible The Story of Nelly Ternan and Charles Dickens; Mrs Jordan's Profession; Jane A Life; Samuel The Unequalled Self; Thomas The Time-Torn Man and, most recently, Charles A Life. A former literary editor of the New Statesman and the Sunday Times, she is married to the playwright and novelist Michael Frayn.

304 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 1989

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Claire Tomalin

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Born Claire Delavenay in London, she was educated at Newnham College, Cambridge.

She became literary editor of the 'New Statesman' and also the 'Sunday Times'. She has written several noted biographies and her work has been recognised with the award of the 1990 James Tait Black Memorial Prize and the 1991 Hawthornden Prize for 'The Invisible Woman The Story of Nelly Ternan and Charles Dickens'.

In addition, her biography of Samuel Pepys won the Whitbread Book Award in 2002, the Rose Mary Crawshay Prize in 2003, the Latham Prize of the Samuel Pepys Club in 2003, and was also shortlisted for the Samuel Johnson Prize in 2003.

She married her first husband, Nicholas Tomalin, who was a prominent journalist but who was killed in the Arab-Israeli Yom Kippur War in 1973. Her second husband is the novelist and playwright Michael Frayn.

She is Vice-President of the Royal Society of Literature and of the English PEN (International PEN).

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August 10, 2019
In the foreword, the author pays homage to the exhaustive biographies already written about KM and more or less acknowledges there's not much point in writing a new one. Except, she then goes on to say, she is a woman and KM's other biographers have been men. The implication is she might bring something new to the table, a deeper and better informed female understanding of KM's secret springs. It's therefore somewhat shocking to discover what a disparaging judgemental tone she maintains throughout her narrative. Her opinions quickly got on my nerves and I often felt I was reading about Claire Tomalin, her prides and prejudices, as much as KM. There's often a sense she doesn't much like anyone she's writing about (except DH Lawrence). And perhaps that she shares Lawrence's patronising view about KM - "Poor Katherine, she was delicate and touching. But not GREAT."
Claire Tomalin is an old school professional biographer. Her perspective often seemed dated, fossilised, for example, in simplistic notions of sexual identity and thrifty ideas of moral integrity. For example, the monotonous contempt with which she refers to Murry, KM's husband, throughout the book might be comical had the author herself developed a sense of humour about her scorn for him. Her damning judgements are expressed with the kind of cemented certainty of someone writing about a close member of her own family. But she never met Murry. She simply embraces wholesale all the prejudices that have stuck to him for almost a century now, as if his sole contribution to KM's life consisted of ineptitude and blood sucking. I'd argue if you want to understand KM you have to make some attempt to also understand Murry. If you take sides in any marriage you're essentially creating fiction. First of all, her recurring notion that he didn't know his wife and often stopped her from being herself is highly questionable. KM's letters to Murry would probably fill three volumes and are consistently where you feel KM is closest to her private self. KM, in her letters, is often running ahead of herself - in other words, she sets herself up for disappointment. I'm not though convinced Murry should always take the blame for this perennial disillusionment of hers. It was the recurring determining motif of her nature. Also, despite the (spurious) claim that her book occupies itself with the "secret" life of KM, the author almost always takes Katherine at her word. It's well known that to appease her possessive and jealous friend Ida, who was to become in many ways her carer, she had to criticise Murry. Almost every negative thing KM says about Murry is to be found in letters to Ida. And likewise she tended to ridicule Ida in her letters to Murry. It was a devious ploy on her part to keep them both loyal. The result is that both Murry and Ida have been immortalised into hapless individuals - Ida ridiculed as a lackey, Murry for his blundering failure to become a lackey. Yet, Katherine couldn't have survived the last two years of her life without the love and support the pair of them provided.

And let's compare Murry with the other candidates for her sexual love - there was Garnett who got her pregnant and then showed no will to fulfil his paternal responsibilities; Florian who gave her gonorrhoea and then later blackmailed her; Franco who lured her to Paris during WW1 for what was clearly for him little more than a sexual adventure. Katherine was attracted to cads in other words. Whatever else he might have been Murry wasn't a cad. He married an ambitious, strong minded, strong willed independent woman. To a large extent this woman disappeared when she became ill; suddenly Katherine was a sexless invalid, skittish, subject to ever changing tempestuous moods, needy. He suddenly found himself out of his depth and made many insensitive blunders in his attempts to rise to the changed circumstances. At least twice, she publicly humiliated him by ostentatiously taking other lovers. Both times she took her back with no trace of bitterness. Murry is a mystery, not least the fact that he ever possessed so much authority in literary circles. The less said about his poetry the better. And his novels are no better. I don't know what he was like as a critic. However, surely to his credit, he did make many sacrifices for Katherine, albeit sometimes untimely, and was there with her at her death. Another of the popular gripes with Murry that the author reinforces is his publishing of what Lawrence calls the contents of KM's wastebasket after her death. (You could argue many writers choose themselves to publish what would be wiser consigned to the wastebasket.) KM though wasn't a rigorous overseer of her own work. She consented to publish a good deal of substandard work in her lifetime. And arguably the journal that Murry edited and published has contributed largely to her lasting fame and relevance as a writer. I suspect you also have to allow for grief and guilt in Murry's behaviour after her death. I don't buy the notion it was a cynical strategic ploy on his part to make money. I suspect he wanted the world to see Katherine as he now saw her - idealised, but isn't this wholly understandable for a man grieving and guilt-stricken? And then you have to ask the question what is the purpose of this biography if not to make money? This is a biography the world doesn't need given that all the material has already been covered. It certainly never reads like a labour of love. Yes, the world is ready for a new KM biography, but one that eschews this tiresome depiction of Murry as bloodsucking ogre. Ultimately, it belittles Katherine to ridicule her husband.
Anyway, all the same information is in the Anthony Alpers biography but without all the irritating judgement calls.
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September 17, 2017
Katherine Mansfield was many things and from where I am sitting not that many of them were particularly likeable. Really and truly, in fact, I would go a little bit further and say that she seemed like a fairly nasty piece of work, but you’re really not allowed to say that about someone who got TB at the age of 28 and died of it aged 34 after six years of horrible suffering. It just seems tacky. So please ignore that.

She was born with a silver spoon in her gob, the podgy one of three sisters and a brother, in the remotest part of the civilised world which was Wellington, New Zealand, in 1888, where they were trying like crazy to be more English than the English. As soon as she could formulate the phrase “sod this for a game of soldiers” she had formed the ambition of escaping both New Zealand and her family (but if possible not its wealth). So when they took another of their frequent trips to London, she bailed out at the age of 19, and she lived with her devoted friend Ida with a mere £100 annual allowance from daddy, which equates to around £12,000 in today’s money, so not a princessly sum, in fact approximately what a pensioner receives from the government in modern Britain.

Cue Noel Coward who sums up the next phase pretty good:

Poor little rich girl, you're a bewitched girl, better take care
Laughing at danger, virtue a stranger, better beware
The life you lead sets all your nerves a-jangle
Your love affairs are in a hopeless tangle
Though you're a child, dear, your life's a wild typhoon


It did not take young Katherine five minutes to figure out where she wanted to be : Bohemia. And it worked. She was something of a social wizard, but she was brittle and had major highs and lows. As I was reading old songs kept popping into my mind

She's pretty as a daisy
But look out man, she's crazy
She'll really do you in
If you let her get under your skin

You're gonna need an ocean
Of calamine lotion
You'll be scratching like a hound
The minute you start to mess around


That could have been Mark Gertler quoting the Coasters in 1909, a little presciently. Or this could be Bertrand Russell a couple of years later:

You're trying to make your mark in society
Your using all the tricks that you used on me.
You're reading all them high fashion magazines
The clothes you're wearin' girl are causing public scenes!


But that doesn’t sound like the stately tone usually adopted by the master of philosophy. After she became big friends with DH Lawrence though it’s easy for me to imagine him denouncing her in these terms:

Well, it seems to me that you have seen too much in too few years
And though you've tried you just can't hide your eyes are edged with tears
You better stop, look around
Here it comes, here it comes, here it comes, here it comes
Here comes your nineteenth nervous breakdown




(What he actually wrote to her at one point was:

You are a loathsome reptile - I hope you will die.)

So she was liked and disliked pretty strongly by everyone who was anyone in the 1910s. Dora Carrington said:

An extraordinary woman, , witty and courageous, very much an adventuress with the language of a fish-wife in Wapping


And Virginia Woolf said her manner was


Unpleasant but forcible and utterly unscrupulous


The boho circle KM eagerly glommed onto was populated by wannabes of all types, but sometimes she would come across an already-is like Gilbert Cannan, whose accomplishments would make anyone feel very tired:

Fair-haired, handsome, pipe-smoking, dog at heel, the very model of the successful young man of letters. At twenty-eight he had already published several novels, and was translating Romain Rolland’s ten volume novel Jean Christophe as it appeared; several of his plays, mostly dealing with such social problems as alcoholism, had been produced in the West End… Lecturing and reviewing in national papers came easily to him

(Well, don’t hate him too much, because he developed schizophrenia and was in mental hospitals from the age of 40.)


One of the main things about the life of KM is that she was never in one place more than five minutes before she got sick of it and wanted to move, usually to some other country. So you get sentences like this :


She returned to France for the third time in as many months


And it also means that around 25% of this biography is like an estate agent’s brochure

A two-room flat in Cheyne Walk, Chelsea, with a view over the river and decorative touches such as a human skull used as a candle holder

Or

A small house in the village of Runcton, set in the salt-marsh land between Chichester and Selsey, with a walled garden and trees

She had such an obsession with going to the place she had just thought of that even the First World War didn’t stop her taking various holidays and breaks or whatever they were in the south of France. She would be moaning about the lack of a darning-woman and the absence of artichokes while thousands were dying a few hundred miles to the north.

When she knew she had TB she still madly plunged on :

They went to the Hotel Select in the place de la Sorbonne, taking rooms at the very top. Apart from the obvious folly of a lung-damaged person having six flights of stairs to deal with, they were in some danger from the German shells

She had a strange relationship with her long term partner and eventual husband John Murry. In 1918 she wrote

He ought not to have married. There never was a creature less fitted by nature for life with a woman.

Claire Tomalin says that they were bad for each other, misunderstood each other, but couldn’t get rid of each other. After she died they said he boiled her bones to make his soup. Meaning that he became chief priest of the KM cult, proclaiming her genius and publishing many books by and about her.


KM was a central cog in an intricate literary scene but after getting together with John Murry their joint BFFs were DH Lawrence and his eventual wife Frieda. So we get wonderful moments such as that in 1914 when they all gather round to read the first review of The Rainbow which had taken Lawrence three years to write. It said The Rainbow was

Windy, tedious, boring and nauseating

It’s hard to disagree with that!

This is a solid biography of a very odd figure. I thought she was going to be some kind of radical bisexual scandalising all who beheld her but that wasn’t the case. She was an entitled egomaniac with a dread disease who wrote brilliant stories and who had two dogged faithful-unto-death self-flagellating slaves, her husband and her craven DUFF Ida who followed her everywhere and did everything for her (sew me some underwear, get me some fresh peonies, peel me a grape; now I am tired of you, go away). I guess none of that matters though. Or does it? If it didn’t there wouldn’t be any biographies like this.

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2,914 reviews4,680 followers
June 18, 2020
But she was not well; nor was it in her nature to be careful with herself

What an extraordinary woman, KM was - and not least for the fact that she lived her life largely on her own terms in the years before and after WW1. She took a kind of independence for granted (albeit funded, though rather meanly, by her wealthy banker father back in New Zealand). She took lovers, she had flirtations, she was involved in literary London and the Bloomsbury Group, though her own successes as a writer came rather late in what was a tragically short life.

Most strikingly, it's surprising to what extent she travelled in Europe and especially France during WW1 - not that these were necessarily pleasure trips: she suffered throughout her life from ill health caused by first gonorrhoea and later tuberculosis and was frequently sent or was forced to seek warmer climates in attempts to heal herself.

Tomalin does a good job of capturing KM's complex personality: as with her writing, she was both tough and fragile, bitchy and needy, sensitive and high maintenance. She didn't make it easy for her friends, and was also disappointed in her love relationships, not least her long affair and eventual marriage to John Middleton Murry.

There are times where Tomalin errs a little on the hagiographical side but overall this is a readable biography of a woman who was both difficult but also tremendously alive.
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548 reviews35 followers
September 12, 2012
*punches Claire Tomalin in the face*

So maybe there's no pleasing me...

But why must every biography of every woman be the same biography?: She was promiscuous/prudish/feminist/not feminist enough. The end.

And then she criticizes the writing! *pfff*
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284 reviews36 followers
January 13, 2014
Career biographers make me suspicious. Just how much investment do they truly have in their work, in doing justice to their subject, being fair and researching it well without relying on previous works from others? In its basic sense this book did what I expected it to do - it was a biography charting the life of Katherine Mansfield. On that level it was interesting as I am interested in Mansfield. The style of writing though was frustrating and at times just plain bad. The best way to explain would be to pose the question is iller a word? Tomalin uses it and this surely speaks volumes about her writing! Also, and what infuriates me more than anything, is when a biographer believes that their views and judgements on a person are somehow made universal by the mere fact of writing a biography on said person. Nearly all the time Tomalin was critical and negative in her views. One example would be her calling Mansfield's actions "grotesque" when she got across into a war torn France to meet a lover. Reckless yes, but grotesque is a slight exaggeration and personal feelings should surely never be expressed to that degree. I do not want her opinion. Even if it had been positive, I would not want it. Biographers should show balance and let the subject speak for him/herself. The biographer sets down the story and surely it is for the reader to make a judgement if they even feel the need to. Tomalin feels herself qualified enough to pass literary criticism on Mansfield also. It seems for Tomalin her work was at its best when she is in pain, suffering from fever and basically slowly dying. I have read some amazing biographies and some average biographies in my reading life but none had the personal voice of the biographer pervade the story in quite the way this one did. It jarred the flow and was an unwelcome noise - I wanted to hear Mansfield's voice not Tomalin's.
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397 reviews38 followers
January 9, 2016
That I love the work of Katherine Mansfield probably is apparent from the way I've rattled on in this blog.How I wish for a new biography of this doomed and brilliant miniaturist! In the meantime, I recommend this 1987 work by Claire Tomalin.

Tomalin can always be counted on for clarity and an unbiased rendition of a life. In the case of Katherine Mansfield, both must have been difficult. Not only did Mansfield try on various personae and artistic identities, not only did she hide and lie about some of her past - she even changed her name several times, finally alighting on the name we know today.

She was, for her times, more sexually adventurous than many. Her early lovers may have included women. Some of the physical suffering she endured before her death from tuberculosis may have been the result of an STD she contracted, relatively early in her life.

Even as her strength ebbed, she flung herself into her art and the artistic life, socializing with such luminaries as Lady Ottoline, Virginia Woolf, and Aldous Huxley. She and her odious husband lived with the volatile D.H. Lawrence and Frieda Lawrence for a tumultuous period. (Lawrence later based two characters in Women in Love on Mansfield and Lady Ottoline.) Her stories, crystalline and (sometimes) bitter, caught the attention of Virginia Woolf, who considered Mansfield her only true literary threat.

Mansfield's death in the enclave of the mystical Gurdjieff was part of a desperate search for a cure when conventional medicine failed her. Tomalin takes the reader through the last days and last hopes with the dispassionate details that make Mansfield's decisions tragically clear.

Tomalin's biography brought me closest to feeling that I was in the presence of this complicated woman. I recommend it to all who love Mansfield, and all who admire a good biography.
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February 28, 2023
This was such an interesting and enjoyable read for me. I read her collected short stories quite some time ago but didn’t know much about apart from being a New Zealander and she died young. This book covers her entire life, from her privileged childhood in NZ to her life after moving to England in 1908 where she mixed with many other authors of the time, most importantly Virginia Woolf (who said in her diary in 1917 ‘ I was jealous of her writing. The only writing I have ever been jealous of.’) and DH Lawrence who wrote quite a few characters based on her including Gudrun in Women in Love. Unfortunately Mansfield suffered from chronic illnesses that destroyed her health and she died aged only 34.
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February 5, 2016
A really very interesting biography of Katherine Mansfield - certainly far more enjoyable than the Journal by KM that I slogged through a few weeks back. It left me with a very clear picture of Mansfield's personality, which is one of the things I want most from a bio so thumbs up there.

Tomalin is chatty and opinionated in her discussion of Mansfield's life, and she doesn't flinch from her subject's more negative characteristics and behaviour. As a reader, this makes any biography far more enjoyable - reading about a paragon can be so tiresome! Mansfield is very far from a paragon - but she is interesting to read about. Recommended.
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July 4, 2022
I am not a reader of biographies, and so I don’t know really what makes a good or a great biography. This is a good, readable, thoughtful book of an important 2nd tier early modernist. Recommended, but cannot rave.
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November 1, 2017
I thought Tomalin gathered together the information about Mansfield's life in a fairly interesting way, particularly her relationship with DH Lawrence and travels around Europe. However, reading a biography written by someone who doesn't appear to have much authorial empathy (this doesn't mean she has to like her) or a sense of wanting to explore the complex inner life of their subject can make for occasionally tedious reading.

I thought Tomalin's narration was often priggish and wanting to keep Mansfield at arm's length which doesn't make for the most engaging of biographies.

When I was reading this book, I kept contrasting it to Hermione Lee's biography of Virginia Woolf that really revels in the complexity of Woolf and is fascinating as a result.
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February 3, 2013
An engaging account of a fascinating and tragic writer. Well researched but written with a light touch .
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February 11, 2017
In my opinion, Claire Tomalin's biographies set the standard by which all others in the field may be judged. In many of her books, she will start off with a touching or dramatic scene from an important moment in the subject's life and then discuss why the moment was important. Her occasional "novel-like" approach is matched by a meticulous attention to detail and research - which is usually very carefully detailed at the end so that, if one wished to, it would be possible to come to many of the same conclusions.

This biography is no exception. Shorter than some of her others, it is nonetheless filled with very intense descriptions of Katherine Mansfield's life. I suspected Mansfield was not a particularly pleasant person, but one can't judge an artist by their social behaviour. In my opinion, Mansfield was one of the great short story writers of all time, along with Somerset-Maugham and de Maupassant.

What is extremely interesting is that the reason for her talent and expertise was that she was one of the very first English-speakers to encounter Chekhov's short stories - AND - that she (arguably) plagiarized one of them! Despite this questionable action, a great many of her other stories remain some of the best ever written.

In my opinion, this is an engaging and fascinating book about one of the world's most under-rated and lesser known authors who deserves a far greater audience than she has currently. I am very grateful to Ms. Tomalin for giving us such a fine and well-written book to cast a greater light on this wonderful New Zealand writer.
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October 28, 2017
Biographical brilliance!

Tomalin claims in the foreword that, as a woman 'fighting her way through two fronts', she has a special sympathy for Mansfield. As a female biographer, she feels that some of her subject's 'actions and attitudes' are 'less baffling than for even the most understanding of men.' It's an unusually crass perception in a biography that reveals the the most meticulously-researched details of a torn and fraught existence. It also drives Mansfield into arcane space, needing, we assume as readers, a rarefied level of sensitivity to appreciate it. For men reading this biography, the battle lines are thus drawn!

Tomalin identifies conflicted veins of thought and behaviour in every phase of Mansfield's life. "Intimacy," she writes, "was established with a mixture of wheedling and lying."
D.H.Lawrence goes further and strikes gold in his portrait of Gudrun (Katherine Mansfield) in 'Women in Love': "Once inside the house of her soul, there was a pungent atmosphere of corrosion, an inflamed darkness of sensation, and a vivid, subtle critical consciousness that saw the world distorted, horrific." The reader, male or female (!), gets close to Mansfield here and the strange liminal space she occupied as a short-story writer. She was seduced by the very things she found most alienating and grotesque, and what emerges is dry, comic pathos at every
point as she edges around her colonels, aunts and betrayed lovers, scratching out her pen-portraits with the exquisite skill of a miniaturist. Tomalin brings this hideous brilliance to life in her biography by focusing on the no-holds-barred description of the gonorrhea that ravaged Mansfield's body after her 1908 encounter with Floryan Sobieniowski, her Polish evil genius. Her debilitating illnesses give her writing a disengaged, glacial feel and she is likened to a bird, descending into the ugly melée of human relations, giving them some neat parodic pecks before flying off again. Tomalin brings this out as pure Mansfield, most 'austere and caustic' towards those she most loves - especially towards Ida, her slavishly loyal idolater - drip-feeding the most loving and the most loathsome character sketches simultaneously. Tomalin echoes this perplexing ambivalence in her own writing, bewitched and bewildered by turns. This biography will haunt my memory for a long time.
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2,276 reviews236 followers
June 4, 2019
A well-documented biography of one of my favourite writers. Having only known KM previously through her published writings (and not having access to her collected letters), Tomalin's research and interviews placed them in a much wider context, making many references and events more comprehensible to me. I never realised that J. Murry was actually younger than Mansfield, which explains a great deal; both of them were playing at relationships, but his emotional (and by all accounts sexual) immaturity is startling.

Perhaps Tomalin calls Mansfield's life "secret" because of her habit of burning letters, diaries etc and asking others to do so, or perhaps because of Mansfield's husband's long history of manipulating her image by bowdlerising her journals and correspondence to place himself and their relationship in the light he found most flattering to himself. (At one point she speaks of Murry "making soup with KM's bones"; I'd go along with that). Perhaps also, given the lapse of time since her death, her "scandalous" past and dubious sexuality can now be discussed openly without the sensationalism it would have evoked closer to her own time. Previous writers have for some reason felt the need to tiptoe around Mansfield's life events and relationships, from her habit of abandoning projects, half-written stories and friends, to the facts of the end of her life, and especially the Great Plagiarism Debate. Though the text is repetitive in spots given Tomalin's penchant for jumping backward and forward in time in the final third of the book, over all it was an excellent and accessible read. There is even a photo supplement at the end of the book; I did wonder, if KM's father was so wealthy and influential that his face often appeared in the Wellington newspapers, why there was only an artist's sketch in this section, or blurry family groups.

My only real complaint is with the ebook edition itself; the numerous footnotes marked with numbers and stars were impossible to manipulate properly. Most of the time, tapping on a star gets you precisely nowhere; I finally had to place a bookmark on the page I was reading, open the "Notes" and find the note I wished to read, and mark it so that the following note would be easier to find. Then I would have to close the Notes and skip back to the marked page so I could continue reading.
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July 20, 2016
Katherine Mansfield has always interested me ever since I heard that Virginia Woolf envied her way of writing. This biography is interesting and very easy to read, describing Katherine and people around her. For some reason, I was really annoyed to hear so much talk of her second husband, and would have wished to hear more of Katherine's side.
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September 6, 2021
Mansfield is due for a new biography. This one reads as dated, oddly mean-spirited, and fairly shallow. To my disappointment, there is next to nothing about her early days growing up in New Zealand. This was the reason I picked up the book, after having read her brilliant collection, The Garden Party. Despite its short length for a biography, this drags at times because the author simply gives us itineraries, details about travel, and boring domestic squabbles. There’s also a great deal of critical but vague judgment about Mansfield’s work at times that I found maddening. The author will dismiss a short story as being overly sentimental, or not Mansfield‘s best work, or terrible or disappointing, but provide next to no details as to why she made that judgment. It gives the reader the unpleasant sensation that this biographer thinks of herself as the final arbiter of the literary quality of Katherine Mansfield’s work. I was bitterly disappointed to learn there was no commentary on Mansfield’s work on her New Zealand stories. We simply learned that they were published. This was a shell of a biography, and Mansfield deserves better.
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December 19, 2023
Tomalin is one of my favorite biographers (Mrs. Jordan’s Profession especially), but this one was not as good as the others I have read (all except Wells, I think). Perhaps, it was because I knew so little of Mansfield before reading the biography - in fact I knew nothing about her. There seemed so many more interesting people in Mansfield’s orbit to write about. The time and the atmosphere were fascinating. But I was not fascinated with Mansfield. Perhaps if I knew her work better, I would be but I was not motivated to want to read her work.
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November 5, 2018
1987
I enjoyed this book!
Tomalin certainly knows how to write a biography! I look forward to reading others she has written.

Mansfield [New Zealand 1888--1923] was a troubled person and I felt sorry for her through much of the book, while at the same time her endless manipulation of people and restless moving from here to there grated on my nerves. In the middle of the book I even felt I just did not want to know the details of each of her moves, preceded by pleading with whoever might offer her lodging or pay for it, and then her almost immediately expressed dissatisfaction with whatever place she had gone to.

How miserable to have had such very poor health during her adult years [gonorrhea, and this probably accounts for the restlessness and dissatisfaction [but not the manipulation].

Tomalin devotes quite a lot of space to DH Lawrence and his [and his wife's] relations with Mansfield. He does seem to have understood her quite well. Same is true of Virginia Woolf.

"Katherine and Virginia admired in one another their professional dedication to writing. Both felt themselves to be writers first and foremost; everything else -- their lives as women, social life, even success, although both craved it -- was of lesser importance; and both took reviewing seriously as a corollary to their main work. Katherine praised the beauty of Virginia's prose, and was conscious of her range of knowledge.. What she found lacking was immediacy, the thing she strove for in her own writing, and true human feeling. Katherine once said Virginia seized on beauty as though she were a bird rather than a person. It is a perceptive remark, for there is often a sense of remoteness about Virginia's observation.
...Both writers were intensely interested in the ambivalences of family life and feeling between men and women, parents and children....The immediacy of Katherine's writing, her ability to be there and make the reader be there alongside, made its impression on Virginia. Jacob's Room, her third novel [published after Katherine's death], suggests that she had studied her friend's technique. Compared with "Night and Day", it is overwhelming in its immediacy.
...Both Virginia and Katherine made the fragility of feeling, of happiness and life itself, into their subject; both felt a degree of antagonism for the male world of action [and for male sexuality]; both turned to their childhoods and their dead to nourish their imaginations.
....Yet they remain very distinct. Virginia's writing is always reflective. Her people inhabit a world of social, cultural and historical connections; her houses and landscapes are rich in historical associations too. Katherine's characters often seem to inhabit a void; she excels 'in expressing a child's sense of things'.
...Katherine's characters are equipped with nothing more than charm or absurdity or pathos....They may strike us as both pungently alive and vulnerable. Katherine often gives them broadly comic speech or thought patterns, whereas almost all Virginia's characters speak and think in well-formed sentences." p 201
"Virginia knew that Katherine was a liar and a flatterer."
"VIrginia, like Lawrence, was devoid of sentimentality, so that, while her criticism is sharp, her love and praise ring with authority. Her Katherine, tricky and treacherous, utterly dedicated to the craft of writing although her stamina is broken by illness, seeking love and approval, but not so cravenly that she will write a false review, fascinating and inscrutable, fits remarkably well with everything that has been revealed about her since." 205
pp202-204 have two long beautiful quotes from Virginia's diary about Katherine, just a week after her death.

Although I won't reread the book, I feel I can't give it away but want to keep it as reference! [Time now to read some of Mansfield's stories, which I believe I have hardly done before!]
Profile Image for Barbara Joan.
255 reviews2 followers
August 19, 2021
Good straightforward biography of what was an often troubled and difficult life.
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13 reviews
December 9, 2018
While I do love Ms Tomalin’s writing I ultimately didn’t find her subject to be very like able. It was a very interesting read, however, and one I’m glad I did.
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182 reviews10 followers
November 26, 2018
It is time someone wrote another biography of KM. Claire Tomalin evidently had trouble writing this one. It doesn’t seem that she liked her subject or that she had much regard for Mansfield’s talent and modernist writings. Through the book there is very little on KM’s innovations. Tomalin doesn’t even bring in KM’s stories until one third of the way through.

KM is undoubtedly a difficult subject. As a child she was different, and as a young woman she may have been impossible, at least from her middle-class family’s perspective. This may have been why they allowed her to return to London on her own.

It seems that KM had strong lesbian feelings and wanted to fashion her life after Oscar Wilde, but before long she learned how untenable that position was for a young woman. In the end it seems that she denied her lesbianism and tried to live the straight life. Not a happy one either.

The bio was published in 1987. Things have changed. We need an update, without the internalized misogyny and homophobia.
Profile Image for Ruth.
118 reviews22 followers
October 6, 2016
The writing is some of Claire Tomlin's best. She fills you in on historical details, and other major players we would know of.
Katherine was a pretty horrible person. She had a wealthy upbringing in Australia, then emigrated to London in her early twenties. She managed to ingratiate herself to the extent that she had friends in the publication biz, but she had no talent whatever for friendship. When she was on a tear about some imagined slight anyone was grist for her mill. And, as Tomlin mentions early on, she was a liar. She lied constantly.
Her most faithful companion, Ida, she would bring back into her life at times when she needed help. Otherwise, Ida was persona non grata. I could not see that Katherine had any redeeming qualities. She was lucky to have made some Bloomsbury group people, and that was her entrée into many homes, homes whose occupants she would later denigrate.
I would not read this book again. Katherine was a very minor short story writer; I remember liking the stories. Now, I'm not so sure.
Profile Image for Maggie.
245 reviews18 followers
October 1, 2007
Not Tomalin's best, but an excellent and engaging read. The early life of Mansfield is rather fascinating, but the narrative starts to fall apart after Murray enters her life. This could just be because Mansfield spent so much of her later days ill and unable to write. I would have appreciated more of a discussion on Mansfield's lasting legacy - which was disputed rather soon after her death - and Murray's profiting off of her work.
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166 reviews2 followers
December 10, 2014
Loved the book - a fascinating and very difficult life plus even better, inspires you to read KM's short stories (I even toyed with reading some DH Lawrence to read the characters inspired by Katherine herself ....). There is a wonderful paragraph in one of her stories describing the relief women feel when the 'man of the house' has buggered off and they can be themselves - reading about her husband and lovers, you can totally see why she could express that feeling so vividly!!
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339 reviews11 followers
September 17, 2010
I found this book very interesting even though I was not familiar with the writer. I enjoyed reading about the Bloomsberry group, the petit jealousies between writers, D.H. Lawrence, Wolf etc. I whole way of life disappeared with the wars. I bought this book at the Jaipur Literary Festival.
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47 reviews
September 28, 2011
Sorry Charlie ( or Claire I mean) Couldn't get past page 40 of your book and those 40 pages were really rough going. Tried to pick it up again later but eventually decided to swallow a teaspoon of castor oil instead.
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405 reviews28 followers
February 21, 2014
An interesting book about an interesting person. I have to say I didn't much care for Katherine Mansfield as portrayed here. Will have to read some of her stories. I read In a German Pension many years ago but don't really remember it.
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160 reviews23 followers
March 10, 2014
A model biography - balancing the narrative with critical insights. Unfortunately, as portrayed here, Mansfield herself is not an attractive personality.
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527 reviews52 followers
bought-not-read
March 4, 2015
Seems to be an unread physical book. Note to self: unearth unread physical books
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