Exceptional read
This was an exceptional book with an outstanding message. The chapters are short, quick paced in the story telling, and captivating. I was eager to read the each word knowing that there was a multitude of messages in them all.
The book is about the life of Victor Marx, a man who grew up severely abused as a child. His body endured physical, mental, sexual, and emotional abuse. He escaped death multiple times, used drugs and alcohol to numb the pain, and eventually found redemption and amazing purpose through Jesus. He shares his story candidly and weaves scripture into each chapter. Along with Bible verses that deeply resonate with his chapters, he asks probing questions that allow the reader to pause and reflect.
Instead of destroying or ending his life like too many victims of abuse do, he found Jesus and was redeemed. His redemption has not only saved him, but countless others all over the world go hear his story and turn to Jesus for hope and healing in their on lives.
He is a vessel and God is using him to make heaven more crowded. He is gifted, and leads a Godly life by example. He has a huge heart for children, and those who are hurting. He has gone to other countries multiple times to rescue kidnapped girls, children, and families from ISIS. His ministry provides safety, trauma therapy, and the hope of Jesus. It’s admirable to see what he is doing it his scars!
Victors wife wrote a few chapters which I thought was really cool! Her last chapter was an emotional read as she encouraged those married to victims of abuse. She writes of love, grace, and faith through first hand knowledge. As I read her words I kept thinking it was pretty freaking cool that they (Victor and his wife) do everything together- even writing. It made me smile and love their unity even more. Power couple y’all!!
Therapist has a chapter at the end that walks victims through getting proper help. It was beautiful and powerful to have in the book! Readers don’t need to search for the answers because they are etched into every page.
The book ends with information on forgiveness, what it is, and what it is not. It also walks readers through forgiving themselves, those who have harmed them, and Jesus. It was POWERFUL!!! I’ve always felt like I have been blessed with a heart to forgive, but reading through the pages and prayer God spoke to me. He showed me an area where I am still holding on to bitterness and resentment and he allowed me to seek his strength in releasing it. I wept knowing that more of my heart had been set free. More peace, hope, and purpose would fill that space where secret resentment hid, and my life would be an even greater vessel for the lord. How humbling.
Thank you Victor for choosing God. Thank you for following his callings on your life, thank you for not giving up or repeating the cycle. You are here for a reason and I love you. Thank you Eileen for loving Victor through the darkness and into the light. I know your love and steadfastness allowed him to truly sift through the broken parts. You are an example of a godly wife and I love you.
To all the brave men and women who partner with Victors ministry to bring hope and healing into the world, thank you. You are literally the hands, feet, and voice of Jesus here on earth. Thank you for your gift. I love you.
For the warriors who lost their lives protecting others, you are true hero’s. I love you and I cannot wait to see your smiling face in heaven one day. Thank you for your beautiful heart and eternal sacrifice.
To the therapist who shared resources and love. You are leading people to Jesus and lives are transforming. Thank you for knowing God and for speaking light into darkness. You are a hero and I love you.
To the readers of this book, I love you. Your life is valuable, full of meaning, and capable of improving always. No past is too final, future uncertain, and present messy to truly find peace, healing, and fulfillment. I believe in you and know this book has the power to bring you on step closer to living a life you love.