It was nice learning more about her, that she had chronic anxiety which was related to her not embracing her gift and that she got the ability directly from God, that He told her she had it for a reason and would be guiding her.
It was really cool when she said she would see people and hear things, like a man walking by or someone saying her name, and would ask her friends if they'd seen or heard it but they didn't. It was amazing when she would have thoughts that she didn't realize weren't hers, that would come to have meaning later. Like a voice saying don't eat the cotton candy and then a friend saying later that they had gotten sick.
It was so cool that when she was 16 and her great-gma had died, her family had a psychic over and she saw her great-gma and talked to her, and the psychic told her she would meet someone much older than her with facial hair. And she met Larry when she was 18 and he was 11 years older and had a beard and mustache. So interesting!
It was so refreshing that she didn't want to go to college and leave her family and comfort zone, that the world with elevators and traffic jams wasn't for her. And that she felt claustrophobic and had anxiety attics, even though she doesn't have an anxiety disorder and it stemmed from being a medium and ignoring it, it was still nice to see someone else had those symptoms. Larry seems like such a good guy that he always kept calm around her when she had panic attacks, even when they were on a double date and she wanted to get out of the car on the freeway in a traffic jam.
I had read a book by Sylvia Brown in which she mentioned past lives and I don't really believe that so it was a surprise when Theresa mentioned it.
It was fascinating learning that Theresa told Spirit she would set aside a certain time of day to channel and she would light a white candle to only deal with God's white light. She also told Spirit not to show 3-D people but to show them in a different way, so now they appear as shadows.
It was such a shame that the first time she channeled a Spirit in a public place outside of the class she attended, and a deceased husband had told her to tell his wife which sheets he liked, Theresa didn't tell her that her husband had spoken to her and just told her to pick the ones her husband wanted.
It's so interesting that she attributes feelings of déjà vu, but instinct, chills, good timing and coincidences as coming from Spirit.
I love how Theresa channels, she's the best medium I've ever seen on TV, the warmest, the most caring and her messages are like real conversations versus other medium styles that I've seen that aren't very personal or healing. So it was so fun to read that Theresa requested Spirit communicate with personality to do the most good for the client, so it feels like their loved one.
It was really something when Theresa said sometimes skeptics will hide an object and have Spirit confirm it, and she rarely entertains those games. I'm irritated when I watch that on TV, people testing her like she's doing parlor tricks for their entertainment.
It was incredible that she could understand people that speak different languages. I had never even thought about that before!
It was interesting how she doesn't remember what she said after readings, so her mind isn't full of stories of other people's dead loved ones, and that Spirit brought her back to the readings so she could remember them enough to write them down.
I wondered if people ever still needed another reading or just wanted another one, so it was interesting when she said you can come back in 6 months to a year. She won't do any sooner than that because Spirit needs to mature and that helps them communicate better, and we need to heal and process.
It answered a question I had had, and I think we all have, when she told the story of a boy who knew he was going to die and told his parents what funeral home he wanted and to buy him a suit, and he ended up dying months later on vacation. Of course the family thought about what-ifs and he explained how he could've died if he hadn't drowned. It would have been in another way which would've caused them even more grief, so the way he died was the best choice for his family's grief process. It was his fate to die young which just shows that things are meant to happen a certain way and can't be prevented.
It was really something to hear that when we die we meet a master guide who's been watching over us our whole lives and go over how we made others feel, and we have a choice either to grow in heaven or reincarnate and come back as another person to learn lessons faster.
When Theresa mentioned that she channeled God sometimes I was shocked. I didn't know mediums could connect directly with God and that just makes what they do so much more meaningful and holy, and not evil like some people think it is, like their powers come from the devil and it's bad to see a medium. The story of her reading a mother and daughter who had lost the son and brother was so emotional because God came through and told her she could be angry with Him but he wanted her to do His work and get her faith back. It made me tear up. When Theresa said when she feels God she becomes serious and relays messages more precisely and to the point, I knew Id be looking for those signs when I watch her show.
It made her relatable and it was reassuring that Theresa didn't know everything about her gift and there were things she wasn't sure about and had to guess. Like spirits showing physical traits like hair and eyes when they don't have a physical body. She doesn't know for sure but she thinks they just do that for the sake of the family members, and they also might get to choose what age they want to appear as, because time in heaven doesn't work like it does here and they don't age the same way.
Interesting that she thought anyone could connect with Spirit. I liked that she was so inclusive about helping people and believing everyone has this gift. She gave good advice, like that meditation is the best way to connect to Spirit but you have to protect yourself by imaging a white light around you and only accepting souls that walk in God's white light. It was nice to have the record straight that psychics that channel low-level energies are con artists and thieves because these souls are bad people.
There was a bit of an attitude that was off-putting when she talked of people missing signs from their loves ones because they expected things a certain way, saying like "Seriously?" and "jeez" and that it drives her nuts. I guess knowing spirit so well would make you aggravated when people come up with off-the-wall things or expect things their way but the average person doesn't know all the signs to look for.
It was so cute that people have asked her if they should have a system with their loved ones to come back as a certain animals or so something specific and Theresa thought it was a cute idea-but it might not work if you don't interpret those signs in that way or the soul can't do it.
It was so funny when she said she used being a medium to her advantage with her kids. She'd tell them she was sending out her spirit guides to watch them, and they probably thought Spirit would tell on them. And she'd call them and say that Spirit told her to even when it didn't.
It was so nice to learn that Theresa used to not forgive people. If they did something to her she was done with them. It's encouraging that she has the same problems we do.
When teaching people how to pray she said she doesn't say I want or need because you might as well say gimme gimme, and she doesn't say please because that's like begging. She says thanks because it acknowledges you have faith He'll deliver. I felt like we were being told how to pray right, and everyone prays differently and not everyone is Catholic.
It was such a crazy concept that we need to prayer for the deceased because it gives them energy on their journey to the other side, and to pray that they reach the highest level. Even thinking about them gives them energy. Such a foreign concept.
It's amazing that she can watch TV and know who the killer is, that her gift doesn't just limit itself to the dead. And even more amazing that she can find good in a situation, like the dead person's family became closer after the death or it raised awareness for gun control laws.
It's such a crazy idea that a soul would choose to come back and have an illness and die young in order to learn a lesson and grow or have a loved one learn a lesson.
I always wondered from watching her show if what I was hearing about certain deaths was true or if the souls were just saying that to make their loved ones feel better, like if they died of something painful and it took hours for them to die, and they would insist they didn't suffer or feel anything but died immediately. To have it confirmed from Theresa that death does look and sound bad, but that as soon as a life starts to end, the soul leaves the body and doesn't feel anything further. It's just the body left to shut down and the soul doesn't suffer anymore. That was such a huge comfort.
I know it'll change the way I think about a lot of things. Life. Death. Heaven. Sins.
I was a little insulted when she said a person was buried in Timberland boots and she said who still wears those? Timberlands are still around...and people wear them so it wasn't a good idea to say that.
It's incredible the other abilities that come with her gift. She can look at a person's body and see things on the inside that might need help. If she sees a red spot it means there's cancer or a serious illness in that area, or that there's a negative emotion or situation related. Pink spots aren't life-threatening and Spirit is supposedly doing everything they can for it.
I consider this a must-read because there is so much comfort to be had and answers to questions we all want and need to know.
When I read there was a ghost writer I was like what the heck? I feel like I had been betrayed and completely lied to. I had absolutely no idea someone else wrote this, because Theresa said she was cowriting with Pat, her friend. Then this lady comes out of nowhere in the Afterward and says she wrote it and had to sound like Theresa and her husband was making fun of mediums and all this other stuff and I felt like the rug had been pulled out from under me. I wanted to hear from Theresa herself, not have someone translate and just take the information and do with it what they wanted.
It was humorous that her husband was such a big skeptic and he was the one who started having all these encounters with Spirit and being afraid that made him a believer. It was really cool that when she was writing she had her own experiences with Spirit. Crazy how just writing about it suddenly opened her up to seeing and hearing all those things. The time where she went to change all the capitalized Spirits in the book to lowercase spirits and the document wouldn't let her, but it would let her change spirits to Spirits. That was Spirit's way of getting its preference known.
I think I really needed to read this now like Theresa (or the ghost writer) implied. Even though I'm not desperately mourning the loss of a loved one, it still helps for those family members who have died in answering those big universal questions, and it helped because there's other information than just lost loved ones, things about life and how to love and be positive.
It's so much deeper and more involved than anything Long Island Medium shows. It had a lot of topics in it that aren't mentioned on TV, like energy and chakras and vibrations and reincarnation that I just some believe and don't want to, so that took away a lot. I knew it would change how I watched the show and it did because I watched reruns I hadn't seen while reading and I felt differently toward it. The show had always been just about reading people and giving messages about loved ones but there is so much more to it than that that I couldn't forget about this wealth of information.
It was uncomfortable reading about reincarnation and past lives, and coming back in another life to do things right and learn lessons. I was just so opposed to that because I can't stand that idea.
I know she didn't mean or want to be preachy and said herself she wasn't going to thump a bible, and I know she has faults too, but it was a little much to read someone telling you to be positive because you're in charge of your own happiness and it made me feel a little insulted because it's someone who's already found that key making me feel like I'm ruining my own life if I have a bad attitude, like the section that talked about making sure you don't blame the previous owner of your house for the bad energy and check what your own energy is doing, basically. Times like that were a little insulting.
The thing I enjoyed most about the book was the readings she'd done. It was like watching the show at those moments. Some parts were so informational that I didn’t get much out of them, the topics that I either didn’t believe or just wasn’t interested in.
If you want to know anything about deceased loved ones, where they're at, what they're doing, how to contact them, heaven, God, suicide, what it feels like to die, judgement, energy, protecting oneself, discovering your own abilities, the purpose of life and death and ones time to die, visitations, past lives, future lives, it's all in here. It covers so much and there is so much information. I think this would be best for someone that’s lost a loved one that wants reassurance or someone that wants to hone their own medium talents.
This covers so many topics from someone who knows. And I liked how she said some things she didn’t care to know, didn’t know but just accepted that she’ll find out when she gets there and advised us to do the same.
The only thing I noticed was that it didn't have a concrete, organized flow. It kind if bounced around from topic to topic, went back to some topics in depth. She would mention a lot of topics in the beginning briefly, say she would get to it later and then cover it at a later point so it was a little hard to keep up with.