marriage requires trust, respect, and a deep abiding commitment p. 231;
there have been times I wanted to give up, turn my back on God, because following in His footsteps was so very hard. there were times when I felt as if He had deserted me, even betrayed me to my enemies. and I know there will be times like that again. each day I have to start anew, and hope my love for God will carry me through p. 231. (and look to God's promises that he will always be with me, never desert me - my comments)
(this applies to marriage too. we have to trust that love will get us through the tough times -- love from the other person and from God)
it had always seemed the safer course to take matters into her own hands. after all, if she kept everything under her control, nothing could ever hurt her again. it had been fear, pure and simple, that had gotten her to this sorry point. that fear might now be the ruin of them all. that fear of finally losing control was why she was running now. running away had always been a control of last resort... she had always really been seeking trust - of others, herself,and most of all, God p. 320.
this book is all about trust -- of others and in God