I GOT YOU: Restoring Confidence in Love and Relationships

by Rob Hill Sr.

This book isn’t about playing a game to get what you want. It’s about you looking at yourself and finding ways to learn how to grow as an individual. I cannot tell you every single step you should take to get you to where you are trying to go in life. But what I can do is make sure you have enough confidence to trust your own judgments, regardless of past mistakes. I want you to understand that it’s okay to be exactly where you are right now, whether you are single or in a relationship. Appreciate where your journey is taking you, but be able to identify areas that need to change. I want you to read this book and have a better understanding of the present. I want you to know that trying to get it right is a constant process. We never arrive at a place of knowing it all. For as long as we are alive, we are challenged to grow, learn, evolve, and mature. Love is a decision, not a destination. It’s not something you stumble upon. You must choose to walk in it, give to it, and become it. Each of us travels a different path to find the love we are searching for. Some find what they are looking for instantly, while others must jump over a few hurdles before realizing they have finally found something special. In essence, we are all just working towards what we believe we deserve— our fair chance at love and happiness.

Genres: Relationships, Self Help

131 pages, Kindle Edition

First published September 2, 2013

Reviews

[Bree Hill]

Wow, really amazing Read

I found this book, read and completed it within a few hours. I don't think I've highlighted so much in one book until now. I came across this book at the RIGHT TIME. My husband and I have been going back and forth on being together and decided yesterday that we are going to work at it. Then night comes and I find this book. So much of me is in this book. So much of my best friend and close girlfriends is in this book. It's not a long overwhelming book. It is straight to the point and all the points made are important ones that it takes a strong person to admit "that's me, I do that!" I would recommend this to everyone.

[Alithia Toussaint · Rating 5 out of 5]

Simple and accurate

I read this book in 2hrs. Thats how simple it reads, at the same time, its packed with practical principles that can easily be applied individually and for couples. I enjoyed the book. Its all do’s and don’ts. If you’re prone to ambivalence you have to open this book with a decisive approach. He has a direct approach to letting go thats really “bottom line point blank period”

[Jasmine Ellis · Rating 5 out of 5]

Insightful

My boyfriend and I started reading this book simply because of the title; I tend to say the phrase ”I Got You” to him a lot. Out of the gate, this book brought extremely practical and insightful principles into our relationship and generated some pretty heavy discussion as we formulated questions for one another surrounding each chapter.

This is a great read for singles looking to give love another shot.

[Jassma · Rating 5 out of 5]

Great real

This book is simple but informative. The author really took his time in writing the chapters and speaking about realistic issues.

[BetweentheCoversLiterary · Rating 5 out of 5]

Good!

I really like the information in this book, its things that as adults we should know but it doesn't hurt to be reminded. I've had this books so long I don't remember reading it.

[Mia Register · Rating 5 out of 5]

2 thumbs up

Great read it helped me tremendously!! Thank you for sharing perspective for both men and woman. Looking forward to reading your other books.

[Victoria Ramos · Rating 5 out of 5]

Good Read

I really enjoyed reading this book. It's a very easy read, straight to the point, relatable in various ways, and truly benefits your mindset.

[Tarashon Broomes · Rating 5 out of 5]

Great read

This book pointed out so many valid Points that are crucial to starting over.i wish it was longer. It’s a must read.

[Selena Bellows · Rating 5 out of 5]

A good book for single people and those in a relationship. Not bias!

[Marsh · Rating 5 out of 5]

Awesome book! I loved how it gave great insight and advice into what it takes to maintain and sustain a healthy relationship.

[Steph · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is a no non sense kind of book when it comes to relationships.. in fact I think EVERY person should read this book, single or in a relationship. <3

[Darlene · Rating 4 out of 5]

Great book! Rob Hill Sr.sets his book up starting from a new beginning relationship still developing and CONTEXTUALIZING to giving you advice on how to build a solid foundation for a new love you are not too sure about. Love how his books is separated in four sections, each section was a different stage you may be at within a relationship. Throughout the whole reading I found myself constantly highlighting quotes I would love to refer to later and come back to as a motivation or just referring to it to try something different. While reading this book I can relate it a lot with my current relationship with my boyfriend and it’s helped our relationship. It got to a point where I made him read the book as well, he loved it. I would recommend this book to basically to anyone that need or just simply want to reassure on what a relationship really takes and learning what you deserve to get from a relationship. The most compelling thing about this book is that’s its advice that makes sense, it’s all connected somehow. And in the end it helps you cope with past relationships and future. To build better relationship and not have the past play a part in current or upcoming relationships. What I didn’t find compelling was how straight forward it was I felt he could expanded the text in each chapter way more than just two pages a chapter. This powerful claims he was stating were great just felt he could have gave more examples and wrote the book a bit longer. But personally I loved the book I felt like a self-awareness book on love. The word love is a very vague and unclear word but he restores your meaning of love and gives you a sense of joy after reading this wonderful book.

[LaTrice]

This book is a good guide to helping people open their eyes about the reality of love and relationships. This book was super positive just on the up and up. Not saying I would like a negative book on love when it’s clear the objective is to restore love and confidence for individuals and couples. However, I wish some of the realistic downfalls were touched on in a few of the chapters. Still a good read and you will catch yourself saying “umm that’s the one” more than a few times.

[Hessah Alhashash · Rating 1 out of 5]

جيد لمن يريد ان يبدأ من جديد من جانب العلاقات .. و جيد في رفع الاستحقاق من جانب العلاقات .. قيمته نجمه لان الشخص المطلع في هذا الجانب سينعش الكتاب معلوماته و لن يضيف له الجديد .. ولكن بالنسبة لمن يبحث في هذا الجانب لأول مره فمستوى الكتاب جيد جدا

[Laurent Blair · Rating 4 out of 5]

Must read

Very good points everyone can relate too this book single or in a relationship. I have a better understanding of what went wrong in my past relationships.

[Paulia BSN-RN · Rating 4 out of 5]

"Love is the commitment to protecting someone else's heart with the same passion you use to guard your own."

[Mishelle Severe · Rating 5 out of 5]

Just in Time!

A boom of words that will have you checking yourself and reflecting. If you're a person who likes to grow...this is for you.

[Mia Thomas · Rating 5 out of 5]

Fantastic read! Finished it within a few hours. It's amazing how you can be going through a valley in life and you find the exact words to take you back into the higher peaks of life.

[Zina Figilis · Rating 3 out of 5]

This was a really great read. Makes you hold the mirror up and keep it real.

[Johnathan]

I think this book is very good if your new to the whole relationship situation it talks about technically what makes a relationship great and what you can do to make a relationship work out.