I've been in and out of education for the past 20 years and my husband has been education full time for 20 years.
We've been using the techniques in this book for almost the whole time. The more we move to these techniques the worse the students seem to get.
In this book Josh talks about a young child who hits his counselor because he was surprised by the counselor. The school decides to show mercy and allow the student to remain in school. I have to wonder a few things about this situation.
1. What do all the other students think? They don't know the details only that a student punched an adult and was given no consequence. They then assume this is acceptable behavior.
2. What if in the future it is a small child who comes up behind this boy and startles him? We are putting the safety of the other students at risk. Why have the "safe schools act" if it is never used?
3. Finally if this student had punched another student they would have had a severe conscience. Aren't we telling the students it's okay to treat adults like trash, just not other students?
I understand this is a small child and we can't just send him home into the arms of his abusive family, however keeping him in the school system with the other children also is not the answer.
The schools are more tolerate of these kinds of behaviors than ever and it has made the schools unruly places where attentive parents are refusing to send their children. We are sacrificing the education of the many for the sake of the few.